raman has to respect ishita's feelings

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Posted: 10 years ago
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He cant act like a despo, if ishita doesnt want physical relationship,he cant force her😡 I dont know why the cvs are hell bent on showing raman who only thinks nowadays from one one angle,physical intimacy is not the only thing to sustain your marriage🤢 I would love to see a show where a couple dont share any physical relationship yet their love and relationship is very strong! I was shocked as to how he thought of having children without consumnation, or have they done it aldready,i am so confused! If they havent, then its shocking and he clearly was giving her an hint in the form of these report
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hahahha ... i must say .. plz spare yhm ..
u need a doctor for suree
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well, they have achieved "all other things" that are needed to sustain their marriage, perhaps way more than an average married couple in love would achieve ever. Only thing left now is physical intimacy.

And FYI, Raman is not a despo.😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hahahha ... i must say .. plz spare yhm ..
u need a doctor for suree
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i find him a despo from the day he attempted to rape ishita,now he thinks of ishita only from one angle,in between he had improved but now again he is back to square one
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ramans intention was only to give ishita that feeling of becoming a mother, to fullfill that dream of her, so that she is complete and hasnt to be insulted or miss seen.
That desire of physical intimacy come after, and for a husband wife who loves each other its not forced but kind of obvious to have physical intimacy, and he never forced on ishita, always he talked about it or gave her hints, i see no bad things in it, he know what he want, but ishita look like she is unware of ohysical intimacy or she is confuse with her feelings or she simply doesnt know what she want.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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That letter had no connection with what all your post depicts...neither ishita's reaction by tearing that letter indicates that she is avoiding any intimacy.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well, the truth is the intimacy is a very important aspect of marriage...it is what sets a married relationship apart from other family relationship...nowadays anyone sleeps with anyone, but still its isnt considered moral, atleast in Indian society...cause traditional, only husband wife are supposed to share such a relationship...

i agree with you to the part that Raman must respect what Ishista feels bt it...though we arent sure whether Ishita wants the intimacy or no...she has been hugging him, coming close to him... she used to run away from him earlier...that was when she wasnt in love with him...now their rishta has progressed and they are actually a couple in love... and when a couple are in love its normal for them ...esp if they are legally married...so it isnt wrong on Raman's side to expect a consummation...that too when he knows that Ishita loves him...had it been earlier when Ishita had said that the marriage is only for Ruhi, that time him expecting would have been wrong...but not now...

chalo, ok, if he takes your advise and stays away from Ishita, ...then do you think its fair to expect Raman to remain celibate all through out his life...that too when he has a gorgeous wife like Ishita, who he loves, and who is also in love with him...if he still has to stay away, then there are chances that he might stray...so then do you expect him to find this intimacy outside marriage...just imagine how hurt Ishita will be if Raman has an one night stand with some random woman...

all in all, i think its really weird when Ishita fans bash Raman just cause he wants to get closer to Ishita...cause Ishita hasnt even once clearly mentioned that she DOESNT WANT INTIMACY...maybe she wants, but is shy and doesnt know how to initiate...atleast Raman is starting somewhere...so that she gets more comfortable with him...

all these views should be held on to, till there is a serious conversation between them, and if then Ishita says no, and then Raman initiates, then do bash him by all means...till then i would say its futile to raise such topics...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


well, the truth is the intimacy is a very important aspect of marriage...it is what sets a married relationship apart from other family relationship...nowadays anyone sleeps with anyone, but still its isnt considered moral, atleast in Indian society...cause traditional, only husband wife are supposed to share such a relationship...

i agree with you to the part that Raman must respect what Ishista feels bt it...though we arent sure whether Ishita wants the intimacy or no...she has been hugging him, coming close to him... she used to run away from him earlier...that was when she wasnt in love with him...now their rishta has progressed and they are actually a couple in love... and when a couple are in love its normal for them ...esp if they are legally married...so it isnt wrong on Raman's side to expect a consummation...that too when he knows that Ishita loves him...had it been earlier when Ishita had said that the marriage is only for Ruhi, that time him expecting would have been wrong...but not now...

chalo, ok, if he takes your advise and stays away from Ishita, ...then do you think its fair to expect Raman to remain celibate all through out his life...that too when he has a gorgeous wife like Ishita, who he loves, and who is also in love with him...if he still has to stay away, then there are chances that he might stray...so then do you expect him to find this intimacy outside marriage...just imagine how hurt Ishita will be if Raman has an one night stand with some random woman...

all in all, i think its really weird when Ishita fans bash Raman just cause he wants to get closer to Ishita...cause Ishita hasnt even once clearly mentioned that she DOESNT WANT INTIMACY...maybe she wants, but is shy and doesnt know how to initiate...atleast Raman is starting somewhere...so that she gets more comfortable with him...

all these views should be held on to, till there is a serious conversation between them, and if then Ishita says no, and then Raman initiates, then do bash him by all means...till then i would say its futile to raise such topics...

Yes if he truely loves ishita,he has to remain celibate throughout his life, without going stray,that is what is true love! I want raman to love ishita for the person she is and not for fulfilling his manhood desires
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vibhutii

That letter had no connection with what all your post depicts...neither ishita's reaction by tearing that letter indicates that she is avoiding any intimacy.

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