Ishita silence and sadness at being called banj undermines ruhi

Originally posted by: Nichuss

Mi some peoples make it a issue in real life tooo

esply in iyers... tey are so much in orthodox poojas etc...

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Nichu

I understand that

But Ruhi is more than a real daughter

Isn't it enough for her insecurity to end

Originally posted by: aasighazi

I have a question in all this and it's pretty valid:

Does Ishita think she cannot have a child just because of her kundali (her horoscope)?? I mean honestly, there is so much science out there nowadays how about showing something realistic, like her and Raman going to the doctor to do in vitro fertilization, or at least really let her see if she can actually get pregnant. Don't get me wrong but horoscopes are not 100% accurate. I did not hear anything in the show as to the medical aspects of why she cannot have a child - only that it was said in her horoscope that she cannot be a mother.

Seriously??!?!? People try for years and years and finally do have a child, or have children in some other ways. My friend's sister had two children after going through issues not being able to get pregnant for years and thinking she couldn't have a child. She even did get pregnant and kept having miscarriages. Finally she had to do in vitro and take medications and got pregnant twice, and had healthy babies. The only thing was, she had to be in bedrest for 9 months because of her issues in the past with the miscarriages and not being able to get pregnant.

Anyway, these are just my thoughts.

Originally posted by: aasighazi

I have a question in all this and it's pretty valid:

Does Ishita think she cannot have a child just because of her kundali (her horoscope)?? I mean honestly, there is so much science out there nowadays how about showing something realistic, like her and Raman going to the doctor to do in vitro fertilization, or at least really let her see if she can actually get pregnant. Don't get me wrong but horoscopes are not 100% accurate. I did not hear anything in the show as to the medical aspects of why she cannot have a child - only that it was said in her horoscope that she cannot be a mother.

Seriously??!?!? People try for years and years and finally do have a child, or have children in some other ways. My friend's sister had two children after going through issues not being able to get pregnant for years and thinking she couldn't have a child. She even did get pregnant and kept having miscarriages. Finally she had to do in vitro and take medications and got pregnant twice, and had healthy babies. The only thing was, she had to be in bedrest for 9 months because of her issues in the past with the miscarriages and not being able to get pregnant.

Anyway, these are just my thoughts.