Moving Forward *Updated*

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"Pain of the past never goes away, you just find a way to deal with it. And in the future... all the promise it holds... that's what keeps you moving forward, and out of the darkness."
Samantha Towle


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I think I have kinda bored you guys with my repeated chants about how I love simple sharing moments of a couple more than grand gestures(like booking a whole coffee shop with musicians setting the mood..what was cute though they went to the place where they met thrice before marriage and agreed to the the wedding ..I loved the thought process but the setting was too grand for me. No offense intended for those who enjoyed it).

I loved she discovered about Appa situation and how they talked it out. Loved how he had sensed his Biwi's stressed out and set to soothe her frayed nerves...and that led to the honest heart to heart talk about them...


It's not easy for a man to confess to his wife that he's jealous of his wife's deep feelings for his daughter and craves similar feelings for him too..the man wants his wife to show same possessiveness about him as she does about their daughter...and I bet she was as ready as we fangirls are for that moment of saying whatever they need to say ...but RKB(rathers the CVs) wanted to do it in style...


...and this scene got to my romantic heart.❤️ Hand holding to me is a very intimate moment between a couple , something about touching those tender nerve ends and sending some signals to your being...yea yea I'm one of those who finds forehead kisses or noses touching between a couple more romantic than lip to lip.☺️ ..so the moment he extended his hand and took her hands in his...I have been sighing and smiling silly since then☺️😳

They are moving forward in their relationship...one step at a time.



As you can see how much I loved that scene .. Just couldn't make up my mind ...ended up making three collages ... Such expressive actors KP anfd DT are!!!...they just make these scenes extra special.

Notes:
  • So Shagun has not only loads of money to splurge on everything designer and has her own car to drive...so why the heck is she in Bhalla house? Plus what were in those boxes that didnt fit on the car trunk and had to be delivered? 🤣

  • Ruhi..as much I loved that girl's spunk and fierce love for her Ishima..Her dialogues were beyond her age...I would have just preferred a temper tantrum to give Shagun some feeling of real parenting...Ruhi's behavior with Shagun seemed something what you'd expect out of Adi...Ruhi? Not sure. Please dont kill her innocence. Yes I know she's beyond her age in maturity because of her unusual first 6 years of her life...but at the end of the day she's still a child. I couldn't enjoy the scene as much as I LOVE shagun getting insulted. phew rant done

  • Romi...whoa ..marriage to Sarika because she's youe 'last option'. Truly Toshijee's son.👏



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Late update!
Yesterday's epi was Okay!
IshRa scenes were great!
One question! Where did shagun get all that money 😆
Edited by Divan. - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gan you captured a beautiful moment lovely cap ❤️❤️


I loved loved ishra convo the way ishu was first upset that Raman didn't told her about Appa's financial issue... and the way Raman explain her the situation liked it and Raman saing mujhse Upset hona tumhare liye saans lene barabar hai 😆 and then Raman asking her why she sad and ishu telling how she is insecure about Ruhi.. and Puttar as always console Biwi in his Hatke style his Dilouges Tum hamare chote Recharge ko nai jhanti ... beti bilkul Baap pe Gai hai.. Beta shagun ki band bajaegi woh naani yaad dilayegi shagun ko.. Meri choti mirchi.. ishimaa ho Uski aur jhanti nai kitni khurafati hai woh Awww Raman talking about his princess Ruhi sooo cute 😳 and yes loved how he admitted that he sometimes he feels jealous of Ruhi because ishu love and care for Ruhi more than him(personally for me Raman and Ruhi both equally important for ishu and she love and care for both equally) 😃 loved ishu thanking puttar and puttar taking her for coffee date

Loved ishra little convo at there coffee date... it was cute.. but as. Always they interrupted.. this time mihir loved how ishu said Fenk do isko when phone rang 😆 over all lovely ishra scen today wish for more and more


I enjoyed how Ruhi troubled shagun it was funny 😆 but Ruhi' s Dilouges were not for 6 year old kid... it would have been better if those Dilouges mouthed by Raman or any other elder ... over all enjoyable Epi 😊 😳
Edited by s_kavya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I always miss gud episodes it seems 😭 waiting for the update!!

Great collages!! And yes both kp and Dt are very expressive actors!! Each frame in all the 3 collages depicts different emotions and expressions!! Hats off to both of them!! Their mere presence on screen sets the screen on fire and we get to c such marvels from them!!

Loved both the scenes!! They were cute!! From raman consoling ishita about appa, ishita sharing her insecurities with him and he getting jealous!! Kinda cute!! Booking an entire cafe is really romantic yes bit OTT but i loved it!! I also loved their candid conversation in cafe though we knew they r not gonna confess but still i enjoyed that scene!! Pls cvs dnt drag the confession at least if its dragged for to long now it will loose its charm!!

Ruhi initially was throwing tantrums like kid though intentional i loved all what ruhi did to frustrate shagun cz that was very kid like but i do not support how she behaved with shagun at home the dialogues were too matured for a 6 year old!! I hope they show ishita explaining ruhi what she did was not right!! Afterall ruhi is raman and ishita's daughter so she should behave properly and not play mind games like Adi!!

Looking forward to c ishita and shagun face off!!
Edited by Dmug - 10 years ago
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Wowww... Beautiful Episode! I loved it totally.
Gan Di, Awesumm and Lovely collages! 👏😳

I can see IshRa everywhere. Loved those scenes where Ishita confronted Raman about Appa's problem and Raman explaining the Insecurity issues with Ruhi. I so loved it when he felt jealousss!!😆

The more you love a person, the more insecurity you feel for the same person" Loved this portion when Raman was explaining it to Ishita! Putter sensed Biwi's tension... Beautiful moment again!😳

Raman praising about Chota recharge.. Hayeee😳 Papa ko beti par naaz hai khub saaraaa!!! 👏

Those cute cute dialouges said by Raman about Mirchi Beti a.k.a Ruhi was just OUT OF THE WORLD! He knows his kidsss wayy tooo muchhh! 👏😳
Shagunnn... 😆😆 Yo Ruhi babyyy, U just screwed your Shagun mumma Royally!🤣

Aaj Ruhi ne yeh seekhaya Apshagun ko...


..."don't ever Question my Ishima's love for me and my family. She is the Best."

But she said so many big big stuffs. Ruhi achi khasi band bajayee Shagun ki par yeh thoda zyada hogaya, but i enjoyed it tooo...

IshRa Coffee Date! LOL! Proposal Plan #FAILED😆

Truely, ek I LOVE YOU bolne keliye ek pura coffee house book kia? UNBELIEVABLE!
I seriously felt little discomfort. If they were fiancees/newly weds, phir theek hai.. pehli baar and all those cute mushy moments! For IshRa na...!!!

As Gan Di says, even I don't believe in grand gestures for proposing. Still not experienced😉 phir bhi, I like it Simple and Sweet!

Eekss... U find Hand Holding, Nose Nudging more intimate than Liplocks! Woah! Bold Statement!😳😉
Ispe comment karne keliye mujhe experience ki zarorat hai jo mere paas ab nahi hai!😆😉 So: No Comments😆😆😆

Putter, tere liye ek advice free mein deti hu... sirf I LOVE YOU bolna hai.
Raat abhi bakki hai!😆 Jao, Biwi ko bulavo...Kamre ke ander leke aao...
DARWAZA BAND KARO...Translate karati hun... LOCK THE BEDROOM DOOR!😆😉

Aage se ya peeche se Jhappi paalo aur Keh do.. Bas.. ek baar bol dia, phir jo karna hai karlo!😆😉 And And Add BG.." Mohabbat Barsa Dena Tu"😳😳😳 and Rest it will go with the flow!😉

Wow.. How Sensuous and Romantic it would be!
Soochke, I am going ☺️☺️☺️

The whole advice tip reminds me off "Buy 1, Get 1 Free"! 😆😆😆
Acc to them, C and C ek saath!😆😳

Putter and Biwi making me open my Gutter Mind Zabarjasti se!😆😳😉

Putter's difficulty in Confessing! Aww Bechara Banda... Look at his expressions!😳





Loved when IshRa said "Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye" in Unison!😳

Romi Bhalla.. Sach mei.. This guy is So-Good-For-Nothing. Apne kaand se sharamne se baajey, patane ka plan bana rahe woh bhi Sarika ke saath. For What? Aulad keliye ya Naam kharab na hone se baachay? Disgusting! Redeem Bachaa, Redeem!

Loved the Precap: Ishita-Shagun FACE OFF! Yo! Mann.. Divyanka looks scary with those wide eyes with almost tears ! Uff!! KaaliMaa Ki Jai! 👏

My favourite scenes and I am posting my Edits here as well. Hope You all will like it!😳








Aru... I am waiting for your GIFs!😳
Goodnight Ladies!😊





Edited by avni_19 - 10 years ago
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Did I like the Episode ???? Yes had loads of fun watching it .. Ruhi was at her best. None of us like Ruhi's character being butchered but well the kid was left like an orphan when she was 6 months old. She had a father but who failed to come closer to her cos of a tiny mole on her face which resembled his ex. Any kid or anyone for the matter at some point of time will want to be loved and even feel the warmth of a mother. She lost this for 6 years. Then came her Ishima like a wind and swept her off her feet. Shagun thinks she knows but too bad 😒. She fails every time. She wanted to buy Ruhi with her luxury but today she failed miserably. In a way Shagun wanted Ruhi to forget her Ishima and help her earn her ticket in to the Bhallas but Ruhi will never do that. She will torture you her own way but never let you win what you want. I loved Ruhi when she told I learnt good manners from ishima and bad manners from Shagun mamma and Adi bhaiyya. So personally I had fun watching Ruhi bajaoing Shagun 😆😆. So I did not mind a 6 year doing this to airhead at least today though it was against Ruhi's true character.. Any other day I would have not liked Ruhi's character 😕... Sorry got carried away.. Defending ruhi Big time 😳😳. Shagun I feel you better opt for this


Puttar and Biwi.. They were sooo cute while romancing and I have no words for it really. But this time it was Puttar's time to console Biwi concerning her father and Ruhi. I loved whatever they spoke about her father's financial issue and then awww about Ruhi .. I am floored again.. Puttar is all getting jalan valan.. haiyee haiyee 😳.. Kuch kuch hota kahi ☺️.. aur kya waqt chahiyae tum dono ke liye.. Confession nahi kuch aur socho karlo ☺️☺️.. raat jawaani hai aur tum dono kam jawaan nahi 😳😳.. All of us are waiting. Puttar *WORD* when he openly admitted Mihir is the kabab mein haddi 👏👏👏.. cuteness shall be posted as GIFs 😳..
As I expected Romi want to accept Sarika for the baby and for the world ..Well you will never redeem yourself.. Patalo patalo sarika ko 😕.. Kabhi nahi suderega yeh bandha.. But otherwise Puttar and Biwi ruled the episode again. Waiting for tomo.. Fight Biwi Sautan .. FIGHT FIGHT
FIGHT 👏👏..

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ISHRARU were the stars of today's episode ❤️..

And Gan what was that ?? Your collage just killed me.. PERFECT MOMENT 👏..
OMG OMG .. I have no words.. Will be back to edit when you update the rest 😆..



Edit:

Again I am dead and I really know why you have come up with this many collages you loved them way too much Gan ... Am I right ??? Let me drool for a while and go to sleep ... Thanks for this post and those lovely lovely collages 🤗

P.S: Will post the GIFs later along with Puttar surprise 😳..


Edited by arunabhi - 10 years ago
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ws waiting for ur post
gushing over today's Moments...handing holding I so so loving the picture u posted That hand holding moment

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I liked without prolonging this What Raman did for Appa Ishu got to know...loved how they talked Raman made Ishu also understand the situation..at same it ws kept this in b/w husband-wife secret...
Loved how he said to split it out what is bothering her...the whole heart to heart talk...make her feel better...I Loved that thanking to Raman...Raman jealousy...would Love if cv's one day comes Ishu showcase her possessiveness for Raman too...actually there ws last week when Shagun touched Raman's hand...but would Like openly conveying..later Raman teases her...
Raman knowing his daughter well...it ws cute how he ws telling wifey about there khurafati daughter...Is it me or anyone else felt Raman sound like he is enjoying his khurafati daughter for doing this to shagun...

i loved Hand holding u said rightly handholding sometyms is really Intimate moments...i loved Jaha mein le chalo waha chalna...sawaal mat poochna...Toh chale MRS BHALLA
That adoration Ishu had looking at Raman's
im ws adoring that moment in same way at them...



Its Going to be Year Tomorrow's episode that Ishu-Raman said to yes to marriage in a cafe house...Its like A Year for there marriage remembering that moment Sirf Ruhi Ke Liay...start laughing that itself like show a long way came in there relationship...that tym where they bit sound childish now laughing at that moment...it ws adorable to watch how they talk in that cafe..knowing that moment will be interrupted still I enjoyed that moments the heart felt talk they did...was Beautiful moment to watch...
they both were so irked by haddis they have everytime...that so cute when she says throw this phone...Raman to Mihir tujhe bhi haddi banane ka bada shaunk hai...LOL
I absolute Love these moments when couple share there past moments with each-other they smile...cry..adore those moments...i really didnt felt bad when Raman had to leave or cv's again prolonged..but Loved that talk they shown it ws adorable...monologues gave more add-on feel to this moment..It ws captivating till last moment ...
when he had to leave...Ishu ws so cute...irked at same time...
i Loved that scene


Karan- Divyanka r so good with expressing raman-Ishu feelings those magnificent expressions👏 with that adoration of Ishu for raman...Raman Looking at Ishu playing with eyes...
they well bring out feelings of Raman-Ishu...

cv's please give a perfect moment of them where could spend more time can come home sleep in peace with a smile of there face...

when Raman said for saying something there's always a right moment & right place...when i heard i thought for saying those three words there is right moment..this happens infront of Shagun on her face Raman telling her feeling for Ishu...

For rest for episode...
As entertainment point ws view I enjoyed that Ruhi saying to shagun...
Shagun has some big dumb habit to split out the things she shouldnt be saying before infront of Ishu due to her restlessness Now infront of Ruhi said her true feeling to throw Ishu out of the house...take Ishu's place...
I at some point i agree to Ruhi what she said to Shagun..as daughter she can tell her mother she left her long back...Ruhi as child feels she is unwanted by her own mother that's she left her...
somewhere even truth is said that she needs to make Adi learn some manners...
at same time a child doing all these khurafats is also nt right...
One can say Ruhi inherent some brains of shagun too in this khurafati/drama habits...

I loved the episode for Ishu-Raman & Ruhi Moments..more story or track mostly this show for me for these two char...
rest of show is now just ekta's drama is left to show which will same only more twisted...

Gan just Loved those collages they r simply adorable❤️



Edited by Badtameez_Dil - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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exactly CVS crash down ruhi's innocence by showing this weird/mature behavior
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RES...because all I want to do now is imagine Shagun's glorious, humiliating, full of unforgettable RKB insults grand exit from the Bhalla house!😈

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***WARNING: Gush fest mode ON****


G! Gawd how much do I love your collage today? Seriously i think your thread is just a camping ground for old romantic souls who crave those incredible little moments more then red hot passionate (.. or I suppose as passionate as you can get on Desi TV) moments. My introduction to romance and romantic heroes was Victorian literature... Austen and her contemporaries were my teachers- so my ideal romance is that kind of wooing... and that's why I love this couple and their love so much. With their quips and their strong headed natures, their egos and family commitments, their shying away and coming together- they are quite similar to the kind of characters that for me will always define an ideal romantic encounter and relationship.

So yes, I adored the hand holding: I adore that he didn't grab but held, I adore that he sought permission, I adore the little squeeze, I adore the respect and most of all I adore the shyness that still flirts between them. This scene reminded me of the 'engagement' scene where he again asked for her hand before placing the ring on her finger. Most often eyes are used to describe the journey of love but for me hands are just as important. When you think about it, the show has done an exemplary job in illustrating their evolving relationship just with the 'hands' metaphor. When it started they would barely touch, on their marriage day and afterwards they flinched at the touches forced by ritual and circumstance, after a while Raman began grabbing her by the wrist after confrontations with Shagun, then it was no longer grabbing but holding with possessiveness, which slowly shifted to a touch of newly bloomed love and now it's the shying touches as ways to express their overwhelming adoration.

The other part of the conversation that I loved was Raman's mention that Ru was her Papa's daughter. For me this was a seed sowed by my beloved RKB for the future tracks that are about to come forth. This is something for us all to remember.RKB is no less then Ru when it comes to possessiveness of Ishita as as well as the ability to see through Shagun and I choose to believe that Raman has finally come out of his 'Adhi ke liye' haze and will finally make the right decisions for his son as a responsible father... rather then remaining mute spectator letting his son rule the roost. I believe that the passing mentions of 'sirf Ruhi ke liye' (am I the only one that said sirf, sirf ,sirf sirf, Ruhi ke liye when they said those lines?😉) was also a nod in that direction. They are past that phrase, past that phase, they are not those distant strangers anymore but a unit who will move forward as such and will not allow for anyone to come in between them.

As for the delay in the confession...


I mean.. really? we all knew right? did you really expect anything less?

I know some people are getting really frustrated about it and i saw several posts to that regard bit i am finally beginning to enjoy it. Finally. Because I finally understand the need for it. Think about what Ishita said tho Raman when he asked for a kiss the other day 'I've never been married before...' switch out the word 'marriage ' with 'love' and it completely makes sense. Neither of them have really been in love, in the real, deep , connected love that gives them the sense of belonging and comfort of an older adult love and the giddy headiness of a young teenage love. The have found that weird perfect balanced love because as much as they are adults in this area they are also very much like teenagers. and part of that whole experience is the 'grandness' of love and its confession.. so for them this is needed not because they can't say it but because they want to create those big unforgettable confession scene that teens dream about. Their adult minds know that they are in love- thy have stated the other's love as fact repeatedly when speaking to others but that confession, the yearning to give it and receive it in such a way... that's all a part of that teenage yearning. Love, the first taste of real , soul deep love has put these two level headed adults into a tailspin of hormones and yearnings and thrown them off balance a little bit, thus the verbal stumbling and the blushing ... It's kind of cute. 😳


... not sure if that made sense... But basically ladies and gents forget the 'when' and 'where' and enjoy the 'why'.


***Gush fest over! ***


Sooo Question:

Wouldn't a building like Raman's current on have cameras in the halls? In which case Shagun's whole interaction with ISHRU would be on tape? ...or am I reaching?

... I feel an OS coming on ... 😆any takers? All I ask for is the total humiliation of Shagun and a real blasting from RKB!😉


#13 regular episodes until ISHRAnniversary ... and all i want is a SHADHI free episode...😛
Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago
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IshRa are going from strength to strength👏👍🏼

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Beautiful beautiful collages Gan! IshRa convo gave such an old charm YHM feel😃 I am very glad CVs are seriously making efforts to get IshRa back on track.

As I am re watching old episodes, it makes me sooo happy to see how far these two have come(like they are are my babies-lol). Today's conversation showed how much in tune these two are with each other. If on one hand they understand many things without sharing, on the other, their comfort is such that they are willing to share their innermost insecurities. It was heartening to see Ishita open up to Raman-maybe the 1st time ever. It was refreshing to see Raman comforting Ishita, helping her with her insecurities. It truly seemed like a relationship of equals😊

I am not sure where I stand regarding Ruhi's antics. Guess they have made her to behave like an adult with the Lohri kaand that today's behavior of hers didn't seem too much to me. I was glad they didn't show her plotting and planning a la psycho jr.

I see Bimbo's days numbered. Makes me hopeful abt a psycho free IshRa anniversary!

I really enjoyed IshRa convo at the coffee shop-was very personal, inspite the taam jhaam sorrounding it. I especially enjoyed DT's acting there-she can't wait to hear the confession(I am sure the fangirls spirit has gotten into her-lol).

Romi is back to where he started-he needs a looong redemption track seems like!!

Let me go back and nihaaro your collages thanks much again.

Edited by geno0309 - 10 years ago

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