This one je suis res-ing before I go off for the day.
Just so you know, loved all the points. Word. Is the word.đ
I don't want to rant today, so here's what I wrote on yesterday's thread:
Just extremely disappointed YET AGAIN - especially by the hands tied attitude of Raman and his family. No matter what is said and done by Ruhi now, these people cannot be redeemed for me at least.
I do not sympathize with Raman's majboori, because there is none right now. If Adi asks for him to divorce his current wife, the current Raman will ask Neil to make the papers as soon as possible. And if love is as fickle as that, then these two shouldn't be together.
Not saying children came later, but I said this yesterday too - my father, if asked to choose between my mother and I, will choose my mother, hands down. (Not if it's a abuse thingy or something serious, but in general, if it comes to siding with a party on decisions.)
There's this thing my grandfather, who passed away two months ago, used to tell my cousin and I. "I have three kids and I love them to death. But your grandmother will always have my heart. Forever." It is no wonder that in the last few months of his life, he forgot everyone (used to call me his sister) but never forgot my grandma. She was the only person he remembered at the end of his life.
That is love. Whatever this "mohabbatein" is, is not the love I've experienced around me and so I cannot connect with the story at all. And frankly, I don't care about Raman anymore. I do feel for the woman they "call" their daughter in law. No respect for the family though.
P.S. : I was writing an OS about this, but the Precap was not how expected this to unfold and so I completed deleted everything I wrote. I am just that pissed.
Tired of talking about the misgivings too.
There's a limit to every insanity. There'a limit to every obsession. When that limit is crossed, it comes psychopathic. And this applies for everyone starting from Raman to Adi in the show.
I don't even WANT Ishita to fight for her rights anymore, because if she's that easily replaceable in everyone's lives, then what right does she hold anyway? I don't even understand Raman's psyche right now - what is he thinking exactly? That if he does the pooja with his ex wife, his son is going to become miraculously secure? That undermining Ishita's value in his life every moment is going to make her realize his "love?"
The Bhallas and Raman are beyond redemption for me now. We all know that the conclusion to this is going to stupid, so let's forget anything poignant. As a woman, I am extremely sorry for Ishita - she can't even say anything because then she'll be held responsible for all the wrongs GKC says and abused verbally all over again - she'd already lost her self respect, and today, she lost her self-worth too.
I don't understand Raman's love and no matter WHAT happens in the future, I can't relate to him.
Edited by SurrealFantasy - 10 years ago
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