16.01.2015 - Raman, back to being a Disappointing Prick - Page 5

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

Raman being inconsistent has not even started! It'll start from tomorrow when he'll shout on Ishita regarding where Adi is!😕 I had made a reply in another post regarding this tactic of CVs-

What choice do CVs have??!! They destroyed Ishita's character so much, made her so unrealistic that nobody was relating to her anymore. In fact people had started saying she was the one at fault, she's stupid etc! Now the Cvs cant have that na! Female Lead HAS to be right in every drama! So to now compensate for the mess they created once, they are creating an even bigger mess!! Thats how CVs little brain works! Destroy Raman's character now, so that people again start sympathizing with the female lead- oh! Such a bechari she is,her husband is so mean!!

Negative * Negative = Positive!

Someone please make them understand the ending doesnt justify the means! Even if in the end Ishita Raman are together if they destroy the characters no one will be bothered when they go along together happily into the Sunset!!!

The way the whole track is going it will again end with Raman saying sorry to Ishita and trying to manaofy her, which we have seen so loads of times that now it has become irritating! For once, cant it be Ishita making the mistake???

And in another one-

Well the CVs did this before, tried to justify Mani by overdoing Ishita and Mani's friendship and when they saw it was all going against Ishita they made her the abla nari by showing her husband (who by the way respects women so much that had saved even his ex-wife whom he hates from a creep) forcing himself on her. IN doing that they killed an aspect of Raman's character.

Then again made him look stupid in him leaving Singapore track.

And now again when everyone was complaining against Ishita's behavior in New Year party, they decided that the female lead should always be sympathized with so they will show Raman again misunderstanding her or being rude to her. The same Raman who till last episode was praising Ishita to the High heavens. He even stopped his mother from scolding her, and wants Adi to call her Ishima too! Do the CVs know their own characters? Do they know what is consistency in behaviour?? Since Adi has come to Bhalla house Raman was not shown as obsessing over Adi, in fact after accident track he hasnt done that. The day when Adi had sent Ishita to jail he had said very venomously that I'm ashamed I have a son like u. Now again they'll show him obsess over him???? W*F!!!😡

Originally posted by: manuelaema

Even i feel the same. Great post. 👏

Originally posted by: nb.neha

@yshu8

Raman doesn't seem to understand that adi can't live without his mother. N u can't force him to like ishita. After all shagun is his mother. Raman can't have the cake n eat it too.

Originally posted by: gravity23

I'd respectfully disagree with you Yshu..see..we all know Raman has ANGER problems...but today the way he yelled was WAYY worse than his usual even-pitched taunts and snarky comments..I'd have digested that better...also it totally reminded me of his EXAGGERATED yelling at Romi during the hospitalisation scene...even I cringed when he shouted like that...during the whole od that track, the CVs made Raman a total monster..and Yes..am more pissed coz he shouted at her IN FRONT OF HIS EX-WIFE...Tht's no way to behave with a loved one..let alone your WIFE. Really disrespectful...and uske upar he casually states, "Tum hi toh usko ghar mein laayi thi"

If that is the case and he is so hell-bent on making ppl do as HE wants..then WHY didnt he stop Ishita that point of time? He cudve taken a stand..made a decision and jst said, "ADI can come..but Shagun cant..." or "I'll make diff arrangements for them"..He didnt..and why is he now passing snarky comments? Didnt like this bit...

Raman CAN have both of them in his life..but not RIGHT NOW..not now when ADI totally hates Ishita...is ANTI-Ishita..once he understands, and Shagun is out of their lives, am sure he can have his cake and eat it too

I also feel hurt with this discrimination...RUHI also had to jhelo so much because of his neglect..but that doesnt seem to have struck his thick head right now...I feel bad, coz it seems like BEING a son and HAVING a son is ALL that matters even in today's world...and THAT is a wrong message the CVs are sending out to the world...I understand its First Love and all that...but even Ive been in that situation and I would NEVER belitle/devalue my current partner for some moron who left me years ago and is trying to dictate my behaviour now...

Yes..you guessed it right...I gush about him EVERY DAY...in each of my daily posts...I somehow find something or the other droolworthy and ADORABLE about him everyday...bhale jitna bhi simple ho..but aaj...I just could not JUSTIFY his behaviou..and KAL ka precap is even worse..Ishita is NOT a MAID..NOT ADI'S NANNY...Why is she supposed to leave everything behind and run behind this UNGRATEFUL CREEP?

Originally posted by: yshu8

totally get ur standpoint @gravity23

I mean just few days ago, I felt that Raman can b the best hubby, nw to c him scowling at ishita is disheartening but then, probably he mentioned that ishu healed him twice ,once with that woman, n once with mihir made me OK with the scene but precap I must say, was just ...I vented all my anger in another post...so I ll stay away from bashing Raman,in this one...all of us from outside can call her JM but the one for whom she is doing all this can't really taunt her on this, though she dint take it seriously...

Story is churning now...ishra need this tussle to make their love stronger...

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

I am sorry but why should he? Can u ask Ishita to chose between Raman and Ruhi?? I know in the end of this track he will have to let go of his son, but that isnt supposed to be that easy! Its like choosing between two precious body parts- one arm v/s one eye. People argue that Ruhi is a kid, she needs a mother, then similarly Adi also needs a Dad who can teach him right from wrong. Adi doesnt respect him that does not mean he should abandon his kid. I am not married or have kids, but I'm sure the situation Raman is in is not an easy one.

Originally posted by: gravity23

I dont agree here...I thnk he SHOULD prioritize..ALRIGHT...he's obsessed over ADI like any parent is abt their first-born...but he cant neglect his wife and his OTHER child coz of that reason naa! After al..RUHI doesnt ever get this kind of attention ADI gets..and somewhre down the line, she might just feel the difference..she isnt dumb ..I myself am the elder one in my family..and years later..at 22 yrs..I started feeling the pangs of being belittled and overlooked by my parents...where as my younger sis gets to have all the attention..al the understanding...It isnt easy for Ishita too..if she were asked to choose between Raman and Ruhi, she'd have a hard time..and YET...she'd need to balance it both...remember when we get pssed with Ishita coz she doesnt do special stuff JUST for Ishita? We feel she's ust being a mom..bt nt a good wife..I feel the same in case of Raman too...maybe a protective, caring father..bt slowly turning into an insensitive, overbearing HUSBAND...

Originally posted by: arshi21

I loved the questions you have put up.

And I know what you mean about Vandu. She is equal parts strong, emotional AND RATIONAL.

And I didnt like the precap ONE bit.

So now as per new OLVs ishita apologizes to Aditya cause he says he will come back ONLY if ishita apologizes for something she "apparently" said to Adi (in upcoming episodes)

God. AND Mrs. bhalla makes her apologize but then shagun does her drama as she sees Raman standing door se and pretends as if Ishita is a goddess and she shouldnt apologize and shit and Ishita just looks confused as if not understanding HOW shagun changed her stance.

AND RAMAN KUMAR BHALLA JUST LOOKS ON.

Sigh.

Maybe episode mein kuch lines hogi because it was an on location video but whatever.

AND WHAT WAS THAT? WHY WAS SHAGUN HOLDING HIS HAND?

GOD.

WHY?

And i hated how he said apne aap ko ishima kehti ho aur ek chote bacche ka khayal bhi nahi rakh sakti? Dude your wife has taken care of things which wouldn't have been possible to be taken care by ANYONE.

HOW can he say this? HOW?

If this is how the show is gonna go, I would take Ishra's mini separation over this nonsensical fights and idiotic shagun-adi drama.

The kid needs to go. ASAP.