16.01.2015 - Raman, back to being a Disappointing Prick

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

I think I'll consume pages penning down an epic on WHAT I HATED THE MOST about today's episode..I am disgusted, tired, EXASPERATED..This part only contains the factual briefing and my rants...

Shagun gets a call from her wicked mother...and they have some heart-t0-heart about Mihir..about him getting a promotion...about him going to Singapore...She's wondering why Raman didnt tell her about it...and goes to speak to hi,

Raman was looking so OLD. I mean..for the FIRST TIME EVER, ISHITA looked 10 years younger to HIM...that scarf-thingy made his neck look fatter than that of a tomcat..Instead, Ishu looked pretty and resplendent in her blue kurti and the simple braided hairdo...

"Sabzi wale ko impress karna hai kya?"

"Nahin..ICE-CREAM wale ko impress karna hai"

Shagun asks Raman why he didnt tell her that Mihir was leaving for Singapore...

Ishita informs Raman that Mihir himself wants to go to Singapore...Raman tells her he will decide where he's to go..Ishita argues, that its HIS wish, his prerogative and his freedom and Raman shud respect that...Raman said a whole load of garbage today I possibly cant recollect now...but it was AWFUL..Ive mentioned some of the samples below-

"Uss DUFFER ne tumhen yeh nahin bataya ki main use Delhi mein promotion dena chahta hun"

"Arrey chup karo yaar...MUJHSE ACCHI TARAH JAANTI HO TUM USKO? SHUT UP"

"MAIN decide karunga ki Mihir kahan jayega...kahan rahega" Raman hollers.

"Aap bhi toh BHAAG gaye the naa Raman? RUHI ko chhod ke...Mummy Papa ko chhod ke...sirf is liye kyunki aap un yaadon se door jana chah rahe the" Ishita reminds him...

"MAIN CHAHTA HUN TAKRAYE ...BAAR BAAR TAKRAYE...Taki jab bhi Ashok uske saamne aayega toh use yeh ehsaas hoga ki Mihir kis uchai tak pahunch chuka hai"

After much of the drama ensued between the leads hollering worse than vegetable vendors, Shagun faked her concern and asked them not to right..

"WHY DONT YOU JUST MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS?" Raman yelled right back at her...

"Fine then...toh chillao..ADI ghar pe hai..use dekhne ko ki uske Papa kis tarah baat karte hain" she shot back and turned on her heel..

"ADI ghar par hai..HOW DUMB CAN YOU GET ki ADI ghar par hai...aur tum mujhse jhagad rahi ho" Raman thundered...

"ADI GHAR PAR NAHIN HAI...Woh neeche gaya hai" Ishita replied, suppressing her rage.

ISHITA is FURIOUS. Shagun comes to "check on her"

"Im so sorry..meri wajah se tumhara aur Raman ka jhagda ho gaya...Mihir mera bhai hai...main nahin chahti ki woh hum sab se door jaye...blah blah blah"

And then she tries to poison Ishu's ears with how Raman has an extremely short fuse,

"MAIN APNE PATI KO ACCHI TARAH JAANTI HUN...JISKE SAATH TUM REHTI THI WOH KOI AUR THA...blah blah...Aur mere pati ki aadatein mujhe acchi tarah pata hai...mujhe ab un sab ki aadat ho chuki hai...aur main apne pati ke saath KHUSH HUN" Ishita clarifies to Shagun...removes some doubts from her wicked mind...KUDOS TO CVS FOR MAKING ISHITA BEHAVE LIKE A NORMAL SAUTEN...Thank You for giving her a VOICE...the coconuts are lined up to be smashed tomorrow😛

IshRA are on a fighting spree...(Sigh)..Ishita's pissed about stuff lying scattered on the bed...muttering to herself..."iss ghar ko kya banake rakh diya...sirf chillana aata hai" Raman hears this and yells at her..and THEN it begins..

"MAIN kisiki dil ki baat poori kar dun..toh woh buri baat hai?" Ishita asks him.

"Ab tum bhi apni galti maan lo..MIHIR ne bhi maan liya hai.."

Ishita clarified that she is not pissed that Mihir would be staying back in Delhi...but is offended that Raman yelled at her in front of a third person (read:Shagun).

"MERI ex-wife ko iss ghar mein laaya kyun? TUM. ADI ko kaun iss ghar mein laya? TUM. Ab main baat karne se pehle dekhta rahun ki Shagun kis kone mein baithi hai" Raman taunts at the top of his voice.

Towards the end, the Bhallas were having a tug of war and somewhere in between..Shagun snaked her arm in and placed it over Raman's, all in good faith...sportsmanship spirit..ADI's happy...Toshi ji and Raman's faces turn pale..and Ishita looks on, surveying the ugly scene from afar..

The things I have a GROUSE about:

1. It wasnt a big deal at all that the CVs had to insert a FIGHT scene between the leads regarding MIHIR GOING TO SINGAPORE..I'd much rather have believed it, had it been regarding ADI. Such a last-minute MADE-UP pretext to make Raman seem like a monster and Ishita, like a victim.

2. WHY does Ishita behaving like a Jagat-Maata bother Raman NOW? Why didnt it bother him when it SHOULD have? Like, when ADI-Shagun entered the house...he specifically mentions how i was alright if ADI came, but not Shagun. Hello, werent U supposed to be the man of the house and take a stand? Weren't YOU and your grandson-obsessed PARENTS supposed to have objected to this, THEN?😡

3. Whatever the CVs set out to do...they have partially succeeded, coz EVEN THOUGH I KNOW THIS IS GOING JUST THE WAY THE MANI TRACK DID, I hated Raman's OTT, unnecessary exaggerated hollering, a TOTAL INCONSISTENCY from the lovey-dovey Parikrama scene two days ago.

4. We know Ishita has her own perspective for tolerating Shagun, but PLEASE CVs...dont portray Raman in SUCH an inconsistent manner..it breaks my heart...two days ago he was all over Ishita ..singing her praises and now he thinks she is interfering and Jagat-Mata? Isn't there a gradual, non-OTT way you can portray their growing differences instead of making Raman jump between behaving like an Aashiq Awara one day, and a MONSTER, the other?😡

5. Even IF Ishita acted naive and may be paying for her excess of virtuosity, I DO NOT stand for her being yelled with Shagun being present RIGHT THERE😡 Raman, SHOW SOME RESPECT TO YOUR WIFE.

6. Why does Shagun STILL have so much of a hold over R.Bhalla? I am not liking it.

PRECAP - Raman yells at her AGAIN coz ADI's stuff isnt there in the cupboards and he is missing. Ishita looks nonplussed..He again taunts her saying, "Khud ko Ishima kehti rehti ho, aur ek chhote se bacche ka dhyaan nahin rakh sakti" Ishita isnt her son's nanny, dammit...WHAT LINES HAVE THEY GIVEN KP??

P.S. Please check the other occurrings of today's episode...Didnt write down everything here...else it wudve come close to being a thesis...

P.S. And even if I hated Raman blowing his fuse off so horribly today, I will NOT buy into only him apologizing to Ishita...if there's got to be an apology at all, its got to be from BOTH THE LEADS...Ishita needs to apologize for being so dumb and stupid and bringing her sauten home...and Raman needs to apologize for being a short-fused impulsive man, buying into his EX-WIFE's and son's manipulative schemes...I will NOT hold up pom-poms in my hand if THIS TRACK TOO GOES THE MANI WAY...Please CVs...please dont make Raman out to be an insensible, idiotic husband who suddenly dislikes everything about his wife...please...keep it real

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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gravshrav23

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Posted: 10 years ago

This part contains the other happenings in the episode..which..I guess wont seem important in the face of IshRa verbal duel..still..have written them down

VANDU stepped in...was watching the scene standing outside the door..and tells Ishita she shouldn't be allowing Shagun to talk in their private matters...Since SHE dumped Raman, she has no right to interfere in THEIR domestic discussions..LOVE, LOVE, LOVE VANDU...With a wifey like her, Bala is almost ALWAYS on tenterhooks...he LOVES and RESPECTS her in equal measure...Shagun wouldn't have dared even say a 'hello', had Bala been her ex, and VANDU his second wife

Raman-Mihir have a near-spat..."TU Singapore nahin jaa raha"

"Dard bhaagne se door nahin hota...saamna karne se door hota hai"

"Promotion le...aur kaam mein mann laga...apne aap dard door ho jayega" Even though Raman might be partially correct about it...it IS Mihir's prerogative to be away for a while to clear his mind...Raman will obviously have a say since he is his BOSS, but if he really takes Mihir to be his bhai and all, he SHOULD let Mihir decide for himself..And I feel Ishita was right...Raman need not impose his decisions on everybody and yell about it...For that matter, even Ishita has assumed things and made decisions for people around her..and THIS NEEDS TO STOP BTW...

Mihika's got some test reports. "Main PREGNANT hun"

Suraj almost SPAT out his morning coffee...ASHOK nearly fainted...He looks better as a champu mouthing funny lines and making those Lolled open-jawed expressions..more than being painted as a villain

"Pregnant MAIN hun...behosh TUM ho rahe ho" Mihika says...

"TUM KAISE PREGNANT HO SAKTI HO?"

Mihika replies, "This is such an embarrassing qs..tumne biology nahin padhi kya Ashok..."

"Main tumhen touch bhi nahi kiya...toh TUM kaise pregnant ho sakti ho?"

"Toh maine kab kaha ki yeh TUMHARA baccha hai..yeh toh MIHIR ka baacha hai

ASHOK looked like, "Khaaya piya kuch nahin...GLASS TODA BAARANA" 🤣 Basically...Mihika is 'pregnant' with Mihir's child, and THIS ought to be a big blow to ASHOK's so-called brand image or something..IDIOTIC..there's something called a DNA test, I believe..he can even take her for a physical verification to see if her claims are authentic or not..DUMB IDIOT

Edited by gravity23 - 10 years ago

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Spero

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Posted: 10 years ago

@gravity23 Thanks for the daily analysis. It's become a daily habit to read ur posts. Keep up the good work and hang in there. YHM can be very tiring mentally at times 😊

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K.S.

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Posted: 10 years ago

superb post..agree with each nd every point...where come his vows gone..how come dis suddwn change in his behavior..dat too in presence of shaggy.?? didn't likd todays epi...only njyd asmi drama..ashok was hilarious...

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Nice post Akanksha, but I liked today's episode. It was entertaining and everyone was in their element. Yes Raman's anger on Adi ghar pe hai was off-putting, but still rest was enjoyable. Raman Ishita are both blaming the other for bringing Shagun to their house, they are shouting, but at least talking! They will realize now that Shagun being their will affect their relationship alot.

Raman Kumar Bhalla was totally in his element! His decision on wanting Mihir to stay here only is correct!! Why should Mihir run away??? Raman did a mistake when he ran away, thats why he wants his brother to not do the same mistake. Shagun was just trying to cash in on the opportunity, but she's really dumb man!😕 Raman and Ishita were right to give it back to her. Vandu also explained Ishita to not let that outsider interfere in their private matters.

Raman clearly said u cant always be right to Ishita, hope Ishita listens to him atleast, for once! And he also called her JagatMata!!😆

Sangram was really good in his comic element as Ashok! The surprise expression was good, but the dialogue- jab ek mard aur aurat...was howlarious!! 😆

Enjoyable episode on the whole!

And Raman-Ishita fighting I dont mind at all... coz Karan and Divyanka's chemistry is more evident to me there. Raman and Ishita fell in love fighting, they should never stop that😊

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yshu8

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Posted: 10 years ago

I guess ,it was OK. I mean we all know Raman, he shouts like hell wen he is angry .I was also OK with the dialogue'tum usko is ghar mein leke aayi thi' I have a lot of Patience wen it comes to ishra.but wat irritated me to the core was precap, I mean wat does he expect from her, she has a job , n y shud she take care of adi wen shagun is there, forget about that ,he is not even willing to listen, the only thing I liked was ishita cleared it to Raman that she dint like him scowling at her infront of others

I understand Raman's POV but wat he is missing is the fact that he can never have adi n ishita together in his life

Like u said ,he is the man, he needs to prioritize...

And was just thinking, wat would ruhi been through bcoz before ishra marriage,she longed for Raman jus the way Raman longs for adi, but he never loved back RU in the same way...

Ishu n RU are mad abt Raman but that woman n her idiotic son have much more influence on Raman ...guess bcoz first is always first...n it hurts

May Raman soon realize that out there there are two souls that love him unconditionally, rather than going after ppl who don't even deserve being in his love

I guess u hated the epi, more bcoz u love Raman n it hurts...feelings are same

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nb.neha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Now raman has a prob with ishita getting shagun n adi home. Where were his concerns when it actually happened? That time all he knew was Adi being there. So disappointing. Has he ever given attention to the current arrangement at home? Or is he comfortable with having his wife n ex wife around him just bcoz he has his son with him. What about ishita's sentiments? She brought both of them home out of humanity not with the attention of letting them stay (sply shagun) forever.

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Raman being inconsistent has not even started! It'll start from tomorrow when he'll shout on Ishita regarding where Adi is!😕 I had made a reply in another post regarding this tactic of CVs-

What choice do CVs have??!! They destroyed Ishita's character so much, made her so unrealistic that nobody was relating to her anymore. In fact people had started saying she was the one at fault, she's stupid etc! Now the Cvs cant have that na! Female Lead HAS to be right in every drama! So to now compensate for the mess they created once, they are creating an even bigger mess!! Thats how CVs little brain works! Destroy Raman's character now, so that people again start sympathizing with the female lead- oh! Such a bechari she is,her husband is so mean!!

Negative * Negative = Positive!

Someone please make them understand the ending doesnt justify the means! Even if in the end Ishita Raman are together if they destroy the characters no one will be bothered when they go along together happily into the Sunset!!!

The way the whole track is going it will again end with Raman saying sorry to Ishita and trying to manaofy her, which we have seen so loads of times that now it has become irritating! For once, cant it be Ishita making the mistake???

And in another one-

Well the CVs did this before, tried to justify Mani by overdoing Ishita and Mani's friendship and when they saw it was all going against Ishita they made her the abla nari by showing her husband (who by the way respects women so much that had saved even his ex-wife whom he hates from a creep) forcing himself on her. IN doing that they killed an aspect of Raman's character.

Then again made him look stupid in him leaving Singapore track.

And now again when everyone was complaining against Ishita's behavior in New Year party, they decided that the female lead should always be sympathized with so they will show Raman again misunderstanding her or being rude to her. The same Raman who till last episode was praising Ishita to the High heavens. He even stopped his mother from scolding her, and wants Adi to call her Ishima too! Do the CVs know their own characters? Do they know what is consistency in behaviour?? Since Adi has come to Bhalla house Raman was not shown as obsessing over Adi, in fact after accident track he hasnt done that. The day when Adi had sent Ishita to jail he had said very venomously that I'm ashamed I have a son like u. Now again they'll show him obsess over him???? W*F!!!😡

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manuelaema

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya
Nice post Akanksha, but I liked today's episode. It was entertaining and everyone was in their element. Yes Raman's anger on Adi ghar pe hai was off-putting, but still rest was enjoyable. Raman Ishita are both blaming the other for bringing Shagun to their house, they are shouting, but at least talking! They will realize now that Shagun being their will affect their relationship alot.

Raman Kumar Bhalla was totally in his element! His decision on wanting Mihir to stay here only is correct!! Why should Mihir run away??? Raman did a mistake when he ran away, thats why he wants his brother to not do the same mistake. Shagun was just trying to cash in on the opportunity, but she's really dumb man!😕Raman and Ishita were right to give it back to her. Vandu also explained Ishita to not let that outsider interfere in their private matters.


Raman clearly said u cant always be right to Ishita, hope Ishita listens to him atleast, for once! And he also called her JagatMata!!😆


Sangram was really good in his comic element as Ashok! The surprise expression was good, but the dialogue- jab ek mard aur aurat...was howlarious!!😆


Enjoyable episode on the whole!

And Raman-Ishita fighting I dont mind at all... coz Karan and Divyanka's chemistry is more evident to me there. Raman and Ishita fell in love fighting, they should never stop that😊

Even i feel the same. Great post. 👏

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nb.neha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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@yshu8

Raman doesn't seem to understand that adi can't live without his mother. N u can't force him to like ishita. After all shagun is his mother. Raman can't have the cake n eat it too.

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