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Posted: 10 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: Spero

This is the first time that I am watching an Indian show while it is being aired. I also regularly come to IF to know what's going on with the show.

I have to admit: it is MENTALLY tiring to watch an Indian show.

I love KP and I love Ishra. In the beginning, whenever someone on the forum would talk about Shagun coming back to Bhalla house, I would get so mad but I wouldn't voice out my feelings. I just didn't understand what kind of idiotic person would accept their partner's ex in their home. This does not happen in my world. But I'm not from India, I don't understand how Indian shows work and with time, I have learnt to my detriment (mostly to the detriment of my mind) that it's normal to see such things on Indian shows. And I found out about TRPs - the reason why we have to bear with illogical tracks.

So now I watch YHM only for KP and Ishra and the lovely Ruhi. I don't really have much hopes that Shagun would grow up, develop a spine and self-respect and start being independent. Adi was born without a brain. His mother brainwashed him during her separation from Raman and despite seeing Ashok's truth many times, he still hates Raman. There is no character growth on this show except for Simmi - that was one pleasant surprise.

Can't there be a platform where audience and creatives can interact? I feel that coz of TRP audience, CVs feel like they can show audience anything and get away with it. Don't they have a moral responsibility towards their audience? Agreed this is a show for entertainment purposes, but it is the most popular show and it is followed by millions of viewers. People can be influenced by such regressive tracks.

Since this is a 'rant' post, I would like to list my grievances too 😆

1. Shagun. Most people here think that Ishita is the dumbest character, but I would like to give the stupidity crown to Shagun. I hate this character. She has no morals, no self respect and no brains. If I were the judge in the custody case, I would give Adi's custody to Ishita too. Shagun always needs a man to support her, and the support is always of a financial nature.

2. Adi. Grow up child. Be a brother to ur sister and start thinking on ur own. Agreed u r a kid, but kids are smart nowadays! Can't u see how needy and dependent ur mother is? Can't u see how happy Ruhi is with her parents? Don't u feel ur father's love, need for u?

3. Ishita and Raman. Please start talking to each other instead of the usual nok-joks. True I love them, but as mature adults, u 2 need to start talking about ur issues. Raman forcing himself on Ishu and then the 2 did not even talk about it! That was ridiculous.

4. Ishita. No woman would ever tolerate or accept their partner's ex in their house. This is not done! I can understand the heart of gold but I cannot relate to the stupidity.

5. Raman. I miss the old RKB. Please start asserting urself again. You used to be so clever. But TRP monster got to u too.

I can't be bothered to write about Mihika - another TRP victim.

So nowadays, my brain is on the 'off' mode so that I can enjoy Ishra scenes and watch my KP. Dunno how long this will last coz I'm dreading Shagun's entry in B house.



I don't know if there is a platform where makers n audience interact. In a way its gud coz they will b confused as to who to follow as different people have different opinions. 😆

I think somewhere we all agree that stereotyping characters or relationships is ok but there should be some limit to it.

N ya we all love the actors n also the storyline is Good too overall only if at some places they will not get OTT. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

I will sum up your post in<font color="#0000ff"> three magical words</font>that matter for Cvs and made them to become blind and forgetting the ethics and dignity of Man and Woman🤢


<font color="#ff0000">ALL TRP GAME ☢️</font>




Yes we all know that TRPs

But somewhere can we stop a wrong portrayal of women rather than them succumbing to Whims n demands of Evil people in name of drama?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Megha ( I hope I got ur name correct 😳) I was discussing this with Paru. This Mihika marrying ashok is just a recycling of track of Ekta Maya. That's what happened in Another of her show where the male lead sister went n married her rapist n came back home with maala around the neck.

I am revolted seeing Mihika and the attitude she is showing as if she had done a great thing! I no longer care for her coz she is very selfish n thinks too highly of herself. I care a hoot if it is a drama or real.
As u pointed out, Why not show Mihir marrying her despite n inspite of everything ashok did. That would be nayi soch which the nmero uno channel keeps on propagating! But sad! Rishta wahi, soch bhi wahi purana type!
As for Shagun wat to say! Today my heart went for that child Adi. He is desperate to keep his mom happy. N she on the other hand will use him to get her happiness or revenge! Such ppl do exist
unfortunately, I see it very often in my job!
But Ishita feeding her on humanitarian ground...is lame n only for drama sake ! she n her husband can help n should help because after all the woman is the mother of their son n she is related to them. But there is no need to show the mahanta to such extreme. Again the purani soch about the heroine of Telly land continues to prevail.



Yep u got my name right. I dunno about the show u r talking about, but marrying one's rapist is such a disgrace 🥱 It's similar to what Mihika did only this case was Mihika just got molested n not raped.
I read somewhere in Forum that this is Mihir n mihika's plan to expose Ashok but its still a disgusting setup where a woman is presented as a bait to catch sexual offenders.

Even if its a fake marriage is Mihika gng to stop Ashok from getting physical with her, or is she thinking of getting raped or will she consent to sex to prove he molested n trapped her in Scandal. Weird!

As far as Ishita goes I agree she can get Shagun home etc but no need to pamper her n feed her, that's too much.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#84

Originally posted by: sunitas123



No I think Ishita will continue to be human, but if she sees Shagun eyeing Raman she wont spare her. With Ruhi, she is confident too. Things have changed now. Unfortunately the great Raman Bhalla does not have a spare room in his house!



The great Raman can't afford a separate house but I don't think great Raman has ordered Ishita to feed Shagun n pamper her n even If he does, she being a Person can reject it.

If she eyes Shagun getting back to Raman she will obviously act like a wife, but my topic of discussion was She taking care of Shagun which she shud not do even if her husbands or anyone else asks her to do.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Meghz
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<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Very good topic, here is what I have to say</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I have met 100s of women between New Delhi and the city I live now, young, old, exceptionally educated , uneducated domestic workers, religious, atheists... I dont know of ONE woman who would do what Ishita did...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Domestic workers in India have to deal with this crap frequently, but EVEN they would NEVER accept the ex wife or the other woman.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I am NOT sure WHAT category Ishita falls under...😕😕</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Even HINDU scriptures DO NOT recommend polygamy...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I know Ekta does not fall into any sample set. She is the oddest creature that has been inflicted upon my 20 years of watching Desi TV...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Even if Ishita is faced with a situation where she has to tolerate or accept hubby's ex... I cannot imagine WHAT compels her to de-lice Shagun's hair or spoon feed her... its OUT of the realm of any MODERN Indian wife's roles and responsibilities...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I DO NOT accept DT's justification of "Neki kar dariya mein daal"😡</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">As an employee she is compelled to justify her employer's actions</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">But its not mirroring the societal norms of today's India...</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I watch a show on US television called sister wives, it chronicles the life of a few polygamous families...</font>I am also told certain religious groups in Utah encourage polygamy... EVEN IN THOSE shows the wives are NOT best friends...😡😡

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I am thinking Ekta might be pushing the legal envelope here, by bringing Shagun into Bhalla House... because according to HINDU Marriage Act... a man can only be married ONE woman legally... I know Raman is not married to Shagun... YET...</font>The way the winds are blowing that day is not too far away, IMO😡under the obeisance of Ishita Bhalla

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I am baffled at Ishita's reluctance to show hatred or resentment for Shagun... she has been extremely harsh and punitive on RAMAN at various times during the show... but her compassion for Shagun makes me wonder...😲its illogical, ludicrous and distasteful for STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKE ME😡</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">IF the CVs had NOT masked the whole Shagun-Ashok-Mihika wedding fiasco under Ishita's sudden urge for intimacy with Raman, I WOULD suspect Ishita had feelings for Shagun...</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">However harsh and brutal that it sounds, there happens to be NO justification for Ishita Bhalla's love, affection and care for the wretch of a woman...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">If she can go as far as bring Shagun to her BEDROOM a DAY AFTER she is getting intimate with Raman... makes me wonder... if there is something wrong with Ishita's sexuality...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">NO STRAIGHT WOMAN (pun intended, straight of the mind woman as well) would do what Ishita Bhalla is planning to...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><font color="#0000ff">Disclaimer: IF RAMAN BURNT HER WITH A BURNING CIGARETTE OR WHIPPED HER OR SLAMMED HER FACE TO THE WALL to force her to bring Shagun home then I TAKE EVERYTHING I SAID ABOVE, BACK... and APOLOGIES to Ishita Bhalla😉</font>😛<font color="#0000ff">he very well COULD have since he is the worst male lead😡</font></font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">P.S. I have NOTHING against gay people, some of the smartest people I work with are gays or lesbians👏👏</font>
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Exactly - all we r demanding is some self respect from Ishita. Frankly speaking m ok with her getting Shagun back in her own house etc but not ok with her taking care of Shagun on humanitarian grounds.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: columbia

Just posted on Nisha's thread

A friend once said ekta can do families but cannot do marriage becos she is not married that may be true now I will add one more thought I think she cannot do marriages becos she is from the filmy world and around her she has only seen dysfunctional marriages everything she has shown about marriages in her show a wife, a saut, a "helpless" husband are possible in filmy environments!!!!

When you go and show that dysfunctional stuff on so called middle class background on TV shows watched by even lower strata you are definitely damaging the social fabric IF and only IF people are taking the show seriously!



Yes dysfunctional families r there even in middleclass but no woman wud put up with her Sautan the way Ishita does. This is beyond fiction.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: columbia

Sorry to spam your thread but just wanted to add one more thing

If we want meaningful entertainment with tight stories thoda romance thoda family thoda empowered girls and women all of that This is not the show!!!!!!!!!!!this show is bakwas and completely running on ishra- my family does not watch this show they actually sit and watch Nisha aur cousins and Everest they love both of them! In fact my bro whenever he is in town would sit and watch twists on ek hasina thi he finds it total time pass!!!! My bhabhi thinks he has a crush on sanjida heheh! I am saying people are watching different stuff on TV ekta is no more queen of anything!!! In fact hamari Jo shanti hai ghar pe Kaam Karne wali she used to watch this show she finds it - kya bakwas dikha rahe hai Didi - she is now watching itna karo na mujhe pyar



Yes people will bail out in Sautan drama but CVS have their biggest charm - Ishra maybe loyal fans might be trapped but TRP audience wud start venturing out on greener pastures. 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
#88

Originally posted by: mayu1982

⭐️<font color="#990066">Well written Good post Megha<font color="#990066">⭐️</font><font color="#990066">⭐️</font><font color="#990066">👏</font><font color="#990066">👏</font></font>

<font color="#0000FF">This is so called nayi soch of YHM how to deal with molester:</font>

<font color="#990066">1) Bring molester to the home and tie rakhi.</font>

<font color="#990066">2) Never punish molester - so far Ishita and her family didn't file police complaint after murgli party.</font>

<font color="#990066">3) Encourage molester when you are aware of his intentions- thinking one day molester will be caught red handed by everyone.( MIhika never object ashok's closeness strongly)</font>

<font color="#990066">4) Go with Molester in hotel room without taking anyone's/police help.</font>

<font color="#990066">5) Marry your molester if needed.</font>

<font color="#0000FF">Next Nayi soch for domestic violence</font>

<font color="#990066">1) Never complaint, mention or talk about it when assaulter is your husband.</font>

<font color="#990066">2) Beats your husband in the middle of airport to solve your indifference.</font>
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<font color="#0000FF">Next Nayi Soch for Friendship</font>
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<font color="#990066">1) Ishita-mani- no comments please don't force me to write on this. Just like to explain in one word- DISGUSTING.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">2) Mihika -Shagun Friendship- By god this friendship has crossed all limits of fake-ness ,stupidity and dumbness.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">Next <font color="#0000FF">nayi soch for how to deal with hubby ex-wife</font></font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">1) Bring your drunken ex-wife to home directly into your bedroom.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">2) Attend your hubby ex-wife wedding even if her fiancees molest you in his bachelor party.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">3) Gave her dress which your husband brought for you exclusively.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">4) Always keep her feelings above your husband and your family's feelings.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">5) Forgive her immediately for every wrong doings of her and always be sympathetic towards her.</font>
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<font color="#990066" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">6) Never leave any opportunity to bring her back to your home and to your bedroom. Do free of cost seva with alot of dedication and hard work.</font>
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<font color="#0000FF">Dear if being modern working woman you have to do all these things. I am very happy that am outdated. YHM definitely showing our society, females as backward/outdated.</font>
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<font color="#0000FF">Problem with cv - to show uniqueness and they are ending up with dumbness.</font>

<font color="#0000FF">Yes we all are fools and idiots who are watching this dumbness😉</font>
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<font color="#0000FF" face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">PS. SOrry hai for long essay type comment. Don't know why my comment always end up like an essay.😕</font>




Thanks for detailed post.
Ya Nayi soch I have written a lot about it, I think its a repeat of things already seen on screen. Marry ur rapist, do Sautan seva- no Nayi soch in this.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: ayeshapasta

Ekta just clearly stupid I rather could be her writer for her drama. 😆I love m.m chem now this Ashok track just annoying 🤢



I don't think so she is stupid coz she is investing a lot of money in this business so obvious she plans her move smartly.

All m asking is we want to see women like her who r smart n talented. 😳 Than someone dumb to do Sautan seva or agree to marrying her molestor.
Edited by mnr123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: manjusha7

i dont know why but i cant see like button here.so couldnt like ur post. but i m 100% agree wid u. superab post. 👏
cant believe these are d same cvs who hav given funtastic love story of ishra til september.aftr that they butcherd all characters. ruhi ko bhi nahi choda.😡



Thanks dear ur comment is more than likes for me.

Yeah they have kind of compromised every character except maybe Simmi n Param to some extent. All other characters have flipped back n forth.

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