Originally posted by: wonderwomanique
of cources those things must get reported n punished 😡 n fought for Sorry went a bit off track.. What i meant by the post is ishita being shown as mahaan generally .. Is maybe the fact that she is strong by forgiving the things that can n should be.. ( i meant mostly the adi angle)
I am sorry, u no where wrote in ur post that u were talking about ADI problem.
ishita in this case can't file a public humiliation charge against ADI not just because Ishita is a saint but also because this is about washing dirty linen in public more after Adi has already done the damage.
I am sorry I have problems with u calling Ishita's sacrificing as Gandhian Principle.
Gandhiji called out for non co-operation too where one was supposed to use only Swadeshi products.
Can Ishita do a non-co-operation with SHagun saying I will forgive Adi but m Sorry I will not come to ur Hen party?
Sacrificing doesn't mean giving lee way for the person in front of u to commit same mistakes again n again. If ishita comes to party and is being friendly with SHagun, Adi will think oh she has no problems to what I did to her, let me harass her again!
The makers have gone OTT with portrayal of Ishita as a sacrificing woman. She forgave Param for his mistakes n invited him to her own house? What does this mean that if Men are molesting us we must forgive them and sacrifice our happiness for SIL's happiness? What was the use of that now that same Rakhi brother is molesting her again in the olv.
Sacrifice or forgiveness should be done to people who really deserve it or care the worth of one's goodness. What is the use of Ishita sacrificing again and again for Raman's happiness, Ruhi's happiness, xyz happiness when she is getting to bear all the torture?
Both men and women do lot of sacrifices and forgiving in marriages to work it out, but this portrayal of Ishita is beyond anything.
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