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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think a lot of people in this world want to behave like Ishita: and they do... but they at least Rant about it to someone.
you know the whole struggle where you know you have to do something because it is the right thing to do but you don't want to, and your upbringing and values(read conscience )bugs you to do it.

But Ishita is not even shown to crib about anything,I can relate to Mihika as she is shown venting about Shagun behind her back but tries to do the right thing because she thinks it is her duty towards Mihir's family (upbringing)

I kind of get her behavior during Adi fiasco as well ,because she is thinking like a parent but i would have definitely bitched about Shagun and the unfairness of it all.

Ishita is unreal, people in Television and films always go for the Sita ideal
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: wonderwomanique

we are all living beings... We feel anger , pain betrayal ...but the one who attains inner peace is the one who forgives... Being saintly and mahaan maybe looked down upon and may be considered foolish ..but maybe being selfless like what Ishita is ..gives us the ultimate freedom from our grudges... From our enemies..maybe it gives one so much peace and serenity..maybe chain ki saans and peace is what great spiritual leaders ask common beings to attain..all of us ultimately strive to attain that only... If someone does us wrong.. They may or may not be caught ..but forgiving them however their act may have hurt us... Makes us at peace with ourselves... Is that what cvs are hintin at... Ishita is truly a Gandhian heroine..she is not weak..she is not an " abla naari " ..she is STRONG..as she can be seLfless ..she can FORGIVE and FORGET...its the toughest thing for anyone in life..none of us can attain it .. So all of us get involveD in the puzzle and maze that is life and get more and more entangled...


partly agree with your post, but i also agree with megha : forgiving is nice but justice needs to be brought. Forgiving without punishing is not good.

to attain happiness, one big step is to let go of things. I don't really believe in "forgiving" because people usually don't deserve it, and i don't believe at all in "forgetting" because if you forget you're bound to make the same mistake again again. So what i believe in is "moving on". Stuff happens, bad or good, at somepoint you have to move forward.

Ishita maybe be right in being selfless, i can see your point in that but i believe that SHE is wrong when she goes out of her way to meddle into people's life to help them when they didn't even ask her to do so, because that brings chaos into her life and it hurts her loved ones.
Edited by rajji-cutest - 10 years ago

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