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Krutika

@loveyhmnew

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Posted: 10 years ago

#61

I so agree to it Aani. They just insulted the loyal fans like us who supported and followed it religiously from the day 1st rather from the promos itself.

Is there any redemption to it? Naah! I don't think so. Just sticking to it because I have been investing in the show emotionally. And the fact is the main characters have come up alive because of some exceptional actors like Divyanka,Karan & Ruhanika. Even the supporting casts had put there blood and soul to make there character convincing . And now the actors are the only hope to continue with the show.

Rest all is HISTORY now!

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: Ohgod!
Aani, very very pertinent post with very valid questions for the Cvs.. I agree with everything you and Ruby have written (yet to read other posts - will comment on that later).. but i guess over time i have become immune to illogical twists in shows!! 😉
Hi Bhuvana thanks a lot and god I hope not; else I will call it quits cos what this is its not even illogical its just harakiri

I watched yesterday's epi only this morning with clarity.. And this was the pm i sent Ruby after that..

I must admit while I was a perplexed with the sudden shift in the behaviour of Raman and Ishita (more in Ishita than Raman), i strangely seemed to be thinking in a way this is better than the usual ghisa pita confrontation where he screams she screams he cries she cries..

Girl you are a burst of sunshine!

Now, pehle bhi raman while being drunk has said mean things including offering her money! and even when they meant nothing to each other then, ishita didn't confront him about it.. yes they couldn't stand each other n all that but she did not tell him off even the way she did when he called her mother a gold digger.. In fact if i remember right she didn't bring that outburst out at all? Maybe she thought he was blabbering while drunk n there's no point giving importance to it.. Its ridiculous to say the least i know.. though its strange id rather believe in this than fretting over CVs cos thats a lost case)

Lend me your positivity I insist - cos right now its taking a hike somewhere on the way to Everest

Coming to yesterday, words of people close to u hurt more than those by unknown ppl so ideally ishita should have not let go so easily.. But then again did she take the outburst as questioning her character? or just as him spitting venom in overdone jealousy/possessiveness? Cos afterall she doesnt know what all he was thinking/heard/saw etc?

How can she forget he asked her if she is in the mood to go somewhere else? If she wants someone else to get close to her how Bhuvana - and if she hasnt understood it why the U turn with Mani last night 😕 He wasnt just saying things that didnt make sense to her - he was saying I want to exercise my rights as a husband

But despite all these doubts, i somehow want them to go along these touchy touchy foreplay scenes and when ishita knows he is over his insecurity for sure express her hurt on what he did/said so that he understands the extremity of what he said/did better (Hope is the word 😆)

I dont mind foreplay, I am all for it - but when it comes with reason and not on the heels of hell

Cos abhi tho a part of him still feels confused and makes u wonder whether what he said was ok under the circumstances (Which it DEFINITELY IS NOT).. pata nahi hoga ki nahi.. but i'd rather expect that..

okay he is confused - then why is he not shown having a monologue - or behaving in his typical way - hot and cold - instead he is being loverboy...so not seeing a confused man darling 😳

Now one kostin! Did raman forgive mani? or is this just an extended way of apologising to Ishita? He has never liked Mani.. Even earlier, he only sent him a msg under compulsion.. So why this change towards him now?especially when he feels he is hitting on his wife?? Ishita pe haq jata raha hai samajh mein aatha hai but mani se pyaar ho jaaye ye samajh nahi aaya 😕

the question isnt has he forgiven Mani to me Bhu its whether he has understood that Mani is a friend, a dear friend but that is all he is to Ishita; she doesnt love the man in a romantic way, the question he should be asking is - if she loves Mani why do all this for me, behind my back at that with him and if she doesnt love Mani why say those words to him at all? He should be observing them like he did after his speech and always - but this time with the benefit of the doubt - wondering - am I reading too much here? Is it me who is mistaking here? Are they really just friends?

That according to me is the biggest flaw!! Raman can change towards Ishita.. but how can he overnight change towards Mani??? 😕😡 This sort of dilutes confuses and makes raman's character look strangely different from what we've seen over so many months!!!

I know he hugged Mani. HE HUGGED MANI! And I was like 😲 you call him a homewrecker on the road when drunk, you insuniate you dont like the man when he comes home to drop your wife and now you HUG him - what is Raman high on or the writers? Can I have it too? if not logic I need something to help me beat the blues 😆

Ishita tho chalo has forgiven the man for every lowly thing he's said in the past so we knew she would come around sooner or later - But i really had wished she was shown to have a little more self respect!! But oh well!!! She is after all the ideal bahu of a 7.30 pm show!! can only think of a tamil saying for her - kallu aanalum kanavan, pullu aanalum purushan - translates to whether he's a rock or grass, a husband is always a husband - used in the context of wives never admitting to the husbands faults)

I so am havinga deja vu now 😳- I cant seem to differentiate between Simi and Ishita cos atm they both have the same funda in this case - bhala hai bhura hai jaisa bhi hai mera pati mera devta hai I HATE 730 🤬

Sighhh... Ab what to say.. So while im in agreement with everything you guys say and a part of me is still wishing that just one 4 min scene between the two would have done a hell a lot of good to the entire storyline now.. I'd now say its done.. so best to move along with the story! NO point fretting over things we dont seem to have any slightest influence over let alone control ( really really wish creatives would atleast stop taking us for dumbsters if not doormats 😡).

But afterall this is an Ekta show and i think i belong to the once bitten twice shy (in my case several times bitten) category and therefore no loss of common sense in any TV show disturbs me anymore!

Yes, i loved love and absolutely love how refreshingly different this show has been but in the end it is but a show and i dont expect logic all the time.. 😊 Yes, but still when i see something stupid, i cant help but fret and crib.. 😡😆

feel free to crib darling 😊

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: serendipity.
brb
LOL. Honestly, i dont even think its worth it. Seriously. I dont know if weve been made fools of or the show. THIS SHOW. Honestly, i wouldnt even have expected this from a third class show that hardly has TRPs. ANY track and not just this track ANY track does NOT deserve a pathetic ending like this. This wasnt pathetic. This wasnt an ending at all.

at the moment we are the fools Reens - no matter who we supported or were neutral - all I know is we are all disappointed

Till yesterday, i still kept hopes... i kept them, because i really thought that this track wasn't over. I kept telling anyone who discussed it with me, on the forum or personally that im pretty sure, the track is STILL ON. Raman now perhaps trusts Ishita, but he still doesnt trust Mani. So he will continue to be jealous. That will be the cute jealousy... harmless... nothing hardcore. And we WILL get a proper closure to this track... but after yesterday... LOL. THIS... WAS A JOKE.
Both the episodes... day before's and last night's as stand alones were really cute, nice episodes with the typical IshRa back... couldnt they keep the same... couldnt they do this after showing ONE LITTLE CONVERSATION? A SERIOUS ONE THAT DOESNT END WITH one-liners or usual taunts and banters? What are we asking the makers here for? Honestly, I at times feel we're taken soo soo for granted. I mean its US who make the show what it is... why is the need to forget that? Honestly, we're the MOST PATIENT FANGROUPS EVER. EVER. EVERRR. The show is a year old. Congratulations to you, but in this whole year, we've gotten some really good tracks, no denying, unbelievable chemistry, none denies, some very bold concepts and sequences... but of all the tracks that weve been shown uptill now... tell me ONE where they had a proper closure. A proper ending. ONE! no, youve got NONE! Theres always something amiss.

I started having a bad feeling about this since the moment I saw that BTS about their banter in the bedroom about the bracelet, seeing toshiji in the BG though I thought it might be all for show but the worst was confirmed when I saw the epi - it was FREAKING REAL 😵 I agree the show has not always given us the end we expected to a track - but so far we could see okay may be this was fine. we couldnt like but accept - this isnt even acceptable.

Everytime the track is high-voltage, high on drama basically high on everything... and the ending is just so... what do i even call it? I mean, the problems are like they can never come out of it, but obviously one of the leads emerge as the Knight in the shining armor for the family or the spouse, problem solved :D and the next day... EVERYONE including the leads behave like NOTHING EVER happened. Like the Parmeet fiasco never happened. Like Amma's accident and the whole Adi-Shagun drama never happened, Like Ruhi's DNA drama never happened, like Ishita's concerns and insecurities never happened, like Ishita never almost blurt out she loved him... there's honestly so so much more... all the tracks thatve been shown from Day one.

Amma accident track - I say it was better resolved than pervy and this one. What was the cute smiles and saying sorry to each other when the pervy track ended? i dont know still and if this is the end of the J track I say this is even worse 😡

What do I ask them for? All I want is a proper closure of tracks. One conversation for this one wouldn't have hurt anyone or cost a lifetime. This was the MOST IMPORTANT track in the history of YHM. This was supposedly my favorite track, and trust me, even today if they show us that they did have a conversation (even if it ended with banters, seriously!) Im ready to forget this and move on and be happy and enjoy the ISHRA that im getting... not that im not enjoying them... but this thing... its holding back my heart i canot fathom how EVERY DOUBT... EVERY SUSPICION that Raman had on his wife and her friend is all cleared in a whiff with his sister coming and telling him only that Abhimanyu and Ishita saved his position. LIKE REALLY? WHAT ABOUT THE I LOVE YOU? THE HUG? THE LEAVING THE HUSBAND AND KID AND ELOPING WITH HIM? How and WHY did he doubt her then, in the first place if it was so easy to get his trust back and correct himself?

IKR? its as if he just heard her plan his surprise bday party and left - oh so that is what she was upto, this wasnt an affair I am getting a bloody bday bash - I so wanna strangle someone

We've been such a patient fanbase of this show. SO SO PATIENT. I STILL dont demand a confession or consummation... all i ask for is a proper CONVERSATION. I dont know WHAT the creatives and writers of this show are scared of. Its so so obvious that theyre always scared of a serious conversation happening between Ishita and Raman... like i dont know what it will end up in -__-

I am so with you on this - is a conversation too much to ask for - I am not saying make them confess, not asking make them consummate the marriage too just get them to bloody rip each other' throats for real but not this asinine comedy

I have a few bits and inside news BTW, on why this happened, and why such a sudden closure (i dont even want to call this a closure 😆) of this track... apparently there are reasons why this happened, and the channel plays a role... but i dont know if I would believe in all that, I cant get myself to... although it is pretty reliable. But still 😳 we still dont deserve to be treated like this.

PM me what you know please 😳 I want some peace of mind and right now I am grasping straws
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I feel cheated too. This is one really big topic Aani, but i would really recommend you to send this to Sonali Jaffar? atleast she can read some of it if not everything? It is ALL the writers' fault. ONLY to delay the confession, theyd do this... make a pathetic joke out of such a serious track. Because now everyone knows, the only scope left for IshRa, the only step next is Confession... and all they want to do is delay it. But this still doesnt make sense. We are entitled to be given an answer to, we deserve it. We cannot just be treated like this.

Wrote to Jaffar dunno if she will read though

sorry for repeating time and again what i did, lol i couldnt help it, i was ranting and im furious.
I really liked yesterday's episode, it was cute and very IshRa... but i would have loved this same IshRa had they had a lil conversation before all this. Im still praying they show one. :|

No need to be sorry Reens

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: EkPaheli

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appuss

@appuss

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#65

bang on post aani!!!

I think CVs owe us. ... to givea proper ending.

Dont know why they show such stupidity just for postponing confession.

As a viewer I felt cheated

Edited by appuss - 10 years ago

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janu12345

@janu12345

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#66

Aaniii...🤗 Lol... I promise this will be shorter... most of what i wanted to say have been told ...😃

I can agree with most of the posts here...! Nothing explains my thoughts better than your title..! 😛

How does this all start? With the entry of Mr.Shani... I did a facepalm when I read the news about Sumeet being introduced in the show as the "male" Ishita... my only grouse was is the cliched jealousy track the only way to proceed...? Khair I loved this show.. wanted to give this track a chance..

Then what do they do... its handled in a comical way the initial scenes.. RKB as Mirchi Kumar was fun to watch... If they REALLY had to solve the MU between the leads by exchanging sweets (I am sorry but the way they have handled it i don't want to see the meaning in the scene)... they may have finished it during navratri itself.. why drag it till Diwali. We could have been fed with Mihika's stupidity in the meanwhile...

And then... it takes a sinister turn.. where RKB's insecurity is brought to the fore... right from the horribly shot kidnapping track till the scene where Romi is back from the hospital.. the build up was phenomenal...(raining cliches i admit)... these 2 ppl were not even talking... or exchanging proper words.. and then all of a sudden its a bright new day?!

Maybe I can look beyond what is shown.. try convincing myself that from the outburst in the room and the scene that followed ishita understood her husbands problem... and decided to tell him its only you and no one else... but the way they showed it to me on screen there was HUGE HUGE gap... and I felt cheated...

Don't even get me started on Raman's realization scene...

Yesterday's romance (and not to miss the bromance with Shani) what I would have enjoyed left me disappointed.. It was as if makers decided are humne toh Diwali miss kar dia.. how can lead couple not have their first Diwali... and jumped across all issues they had taken great pains to highlight! It was as if the makers were saying please forget some of the scenes ever happened..

As you have said... i dont expect a confrontation...conversation... confession...consummation... none of this... just some time for the normalcy to be restored in their relationship... some silence in their scenes where they understood what had just happened and how affected the other was.. (they did give one partial scene to Raman.. but bah the way they shot it)...

For me the bedroom scenes was one of the most intense, well-performed and well-directed shot and I was expecting some thing to come of it.. and that I guess explains my disappointment with what they showed over the past 2 days...!

As people have pointed out... maybe the director is trying to stall the confrontation coz they have assumed confrontation means confession next. .. may be... but they could have found a way around it if they wanted to...they have left sooo many scenes incomplete.. this they could have..

Ruhi's track is actually very relevant to kids coming from broken homes like you pointed out.. but so far they are using her like a doll...

Mihika and Shagun.. I don't want to comment.. I am not even sure if Mihika knows if she wants to stop the wedding or make it the best wedding for her newly found BFF!

Ideally Raman should be confused about ILU scene that he witnessed himself... coz what i interpreted the words affected him... will it be addressed in the future.. i dunno.. we have to wait to find out..!

Now that they have concluded one track with mere exchanging of sweets (Sorry but still not in a mood to see beyond this...) can we please tell the makers stop Mani being omni-present in every problem in the Bhalla house. there are other characters who can be put to use.. he has been one poorly sketched character in a quest to create lots of drama which they just let be atleast till now!!

The only silver lining in what they have fed us over the past few days.. the female did not have to sacrifice her friendship with her male friend to prove her loyalty..!

Phew I am done... 😆 and i made sure it is different from what I PM'ed you.. yday's episode did that to me! 😃

Edited by janu12345 - 10 years ago