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Posted: 10 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: geethika

Phyiscal and verbal abuse has to be punished...Agreed.. What about the punishment to be given for enjoying the insecurities..of others.. Is it not a kind of harrassment??



That is why RKB said : dil ke tutne ki awaz nahi hoti 😉 CVs failed to give justice to mental torture and emotional abuse
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Posted: 10 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: bscorp13


this..👏
TM ...i hope you do take the time to read most ofv the posts that have been refereed to inn this thread..the apparent ones supporting raman...it wasn't supporting his action. ..no abuse is ever justified. ..
it was venting at the writers for butchering a character which was close to everyone's heart...
yest it was Raman and today it was Ishita...
.i am sorry if I sound very obtuse when i say if a womans self respect was hurt yesterday...what made me sober up was the man regretting immediately next morning... he still owes a huge apology and explanation. ...nobody has said he can go scot free...
today a man's dignity and self respect was hurt badly...but i don't see any guilt or apology forthcoming for that...and therein lies my problem with this track and the characterization. ..

As a married woman..as much as the first scenario made me cringe...today gave me equal measures of pain..if not more...and we have every right to express that I hope...

I am sorry ..as a woman. ..the use of words such as dignity, self respect and self esteem has to be consistent...it cannot vary from situation to situation...

That said if the cvs really want us to relate to this love story anymore...there is huge damage control needed and quick🥱




Superb post @ramkijanaki n bscorp13 👏

Yes I also agree totally wrong behaviour from raman!
But even ishita fault is der! Especially yesterday.. She told mani abt all that...that was unbelievable!!
The day ishita was drunk.. N created so much tamasha in iyers anniversary party n raman supported her.. But she misunderstood him n slapped him.., raman didnt even tell this to his own mom!
Anyways we hv lost old ishita! Not able to connect her anymore!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: mnr123

Completely agree with u.

We as a forum is getting too carried away. Both sides Anti Ishita people n Ishita supporters too.

I agree to the fact that Ishita is wrong in the way she is portrayed in Mani track but calling her bitch and characterless etc is too much IMO, not just as a Woman but atleast as a Human being one deems some respect.

I know its reel etc etc but just saying what I feel.

agree @JUHI.HI Awesome post.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#84
True i agree with ur post i know what ishita done is wrong but calling her charecter less n bitch is too bad we have to be in ur limit i know we have a right to give ur analysis but using harsh word
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Posted: 10 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: cocololo123

To the people who are offended by this post I don't think you fully understand what the TM meant to say. She is not targeting the people who support Raman but are against what he did. This isn't for you nor is she talking about you guys. She is simply talking about the people who are actually justifying Raman's actions and some of the foul language used against women on this forum. Again you shouldn't be offended if you know you are not wrong.


And to people talking about the quote on this whole topic is based. Lets say the TM misinterpreted what the member actually meant. Thats not really her fault because the commenter words of choice were wrong. We should all really careful with the words we use to explain our thought process because words can be misinterpreted. We are not all Einsteins to understand someone thought process.



this post IS EQUALLY against BOTH raman n TM who wrote tht comment n ppl who supported the comment...

this one line by TM-n thtsy many of us r here

Originally posted by: JUHI.HI

this post is intented to those ppl who actually are HUMANS..n respect evry1 irrespective of the person being a HUMAN or an ANIMAL(as of now a bitch)😛 !!



so wht does this mean?v r not humans?..😲😲.. u said the one who made post should hv wisely chosen her words as v r not einstein...so i wanna say same thing here too... Juhi also should hv wisely chosen her words as v r also not Einsteins to understand wht she din meant or wht she meant..!!
Edited by Nikki_Titli - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

had to come back here for u PB...PB excellent post...n WORD to wht u said..!! but its of no use yaar...as ppl hv already gave us new titles...badhaai ho..🤣

this forum NEVER fail to surprise...evn aftr sayin many times tht raman ws wrong in physical abuse,v r being targetted by saying v the heartless who support abuse...breaking news...😲🤣

really..much as you take a neutral view...labeling people is just not done..if the TM has a problem with that one post and language ?.no harm in pointing that out
but the title of this post is just misleading...and the comments here tell a diff story...
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i really don't see too many posts when Raman is called god knows what because of his temper and language...left on the floor as a punishment ...and given emotional torture day in and out...shouldn't the man deserve self respect too...or should we make posts demanding that...i am sure now people will pounce on me saying I m a raman supporter...

All that we have been lamenting all these days is the death of IshRa. ..aND that means both characters have undergone their share of butchering...

During the accident track...and later people made posts saying Raman is gay...and that he has a mental problem...and ruhi should be kept away from him. ..I never bothered to react on any of them ..because they were plain childish. ...for every balanced post there are 10 others like this...

But now this taking the turn of a WRONGED WOMAN.being a victim...and strong words like dignity. .and pride. And then supporting Ishita's actions today.. ..is offensive to me as a woman too...criticism should always be taken with a pinch of salt...and that should apply equally for all...not become different for man and woman...
it becomes distasteful then🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: cocololo123

To the people who are offended by this post I don't think you fully understand what the TM meant to say. She is not targeting the people who support Raman but are against what he did. This isn't for you nor is she talking about you guys. She is simply talking about the people who are actually justifying Raman's actions and some of the foul language used against women on this forum. And please dont tell me there aren't people who are not defending Raman's action. Just look at the poll from yesterday and its really sad to see 44% people said yes. Again you shouldn't be offended if you know you are not wrong.


And to people talking about the quote on this whole topic is based. Lets say the TM misinterpreted what the member actually meant. Thats not really her fault because the commenter words of choice were wrong. We should all really careful with the words we use to explain our thought process because words can be misinterpreted. We are not all Einsteins to understand someone thought process.


Absolutely brilliant👏.
I too dint target to those while writing my 1st comment in this post who just supported that 'Characterless' Post😆. I was mostly surprised seeing the votes in a poll saying Raman is justified doing so😲! So, I had to say it. And, the 'Characterless' post which has fueled everyone...the TM directly told why she found Ishita characterless...the reasons which are not even deemed to say a woman characterless if thought from the woman's pov. Supporting that post means indirectly that they were supporting Ishita being characterless and thinking from Raman's pov only. Those who said what about Raman's abuse, I don't want to refer, but that one poll was enough for me to understand the mentality of people. Accepting that Raman did wrong by abusing, doesn't minus out accepting Ishita characterless cos Raman thinks so.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#88
This post isn't just for a certain member or certain fan-group but for everyone on the forum and especially those who have commented in this thread.

While there is no limit to the ideas or your opinions you post on the forum, please learn to post them within the section rules. Please learn to debate in civil manner. Pin-pointing/accusing fandoms/forum members or personally attacking them will not be allowed. When you do make a post remember that it should not be targeting any other post/member. References are alright but remember that one cannot attack the members directly or indirectly. What happens in one thread, leave it there - No need to get it to another thread and demean that user/topic.

Whether the member is the TM or a general viewer, personally attacking is not at all permitted here.
Trying to prove your point by getting personal directly or indirectly in a sarcastic manner, doesn't make you right.

Any further posts against the forum rules will lead to the topic's closure, Please bear this in mind. This post is now open for discussion, sorry for the delay. :)

Hoping for members co-operation in this matter. Moreover, please leave what has happened in the previous pages back and continue a fresh discussion. Misunderstandings can be cleared over by the PM services.

YHM DT.
Edited by BubblyR - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli



this post IS EQUALLY against BOTH raman n TM who wrote tht comment n ppl who supported the comment...

this one line by TM-n thtsy many of us r here



so wht does this mean?v r not humans?..😲😲.. u said the one who made post should hv wisely chosen her words as v r not einstein...so i wanna say same thing here too... Juhi also should hv wisely chosen her words as v r also not Einsteins to understand wht she din meant or wht she meant..!!


I actually edited my comment because I missed one sentence I really wanted to say. But to the quote you reference from the TM maybe the topic maker would like to clear up the misunderstanding you have because I doubt she meant to target you!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#90
thnk u DT fr reopening my post.. n ya extremely sry fr my sudden rude post in protest... :)
I APPOLOGISE😊

once again thnk you 😊

n thank u to those who supported me...really..it means a lot...thanx a ton 🤗 i vil nt take my words bk..i stnd by wat i hv said in d post..n to all those who supported me, i m really vry obliged.. thank u all 😃
Edited by JUHI.HI - 10 years ago

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