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Juhi, finally got to reply here. Lol sorry for the delay.
I'm not an ishita supporter here. For me what she has done is beyond foolishness. But saying that, I'll also say that no matter how much I dislike ishita's behaviour and attitude, I will not call her names.
If she has sacrificed so much for raman ruhi n his family, even Raman has sacrificed so much for ishita n her family.
They were not even friends when they married but when ishita was drunk by mistake and embarassed everyone in her parents aniv party, it was only raman who stood for her.
When whole family was against ishita during param molestation track, it was again him who went against all n supported ishita and broughy out the truth.
The above two are just examples, there are many more things that raman did for ishita.
And about physical abuse, no raman didn't do anything. He just wanted to threaten her n remind her that he is her husband and it pains him seeing his wife roam around with another guy hand in hand and hugging every minute!
He hadn't done anything wrong that night. Period.
Any husband in his place would act like that or even worser.
What ishita did is not small mistakes but huge ones.
First she hides the ashok-using sarika to defame Raman issue [which was not needed at all to be hidden from Raman in the first place!] n then lies to raman and meets mani behind his back. Flirts with him and calls him once in every 30sec and then changes his name to manisha knowing well that raman hates it to see her talking to mani all the time.
And then cry because raman didnt give credit to her in his speech! Lol yeah ishu you bring his past, his ex wife to his bedroom at night without thinking what pain he'll go through when his past comes infront of his eyes!
Wah! She can do anything, lie to raman, hurt him, do all sort of mani jhaap n even cross the limits by saying I love you (even if it was a joke, its a terrible joke!), call mani from dhobi to even find her husband in the middle of the night ,
Then raman has done no wrong even if he hurt her. He is only reacting to the actions of ishita.
If she really loved raman, then ego shouldn't come inbetween. He never asked her character certificate. But she owes an explanation to him about her and mani's hideous meetings.
You're right, taali ek haath sr nahi bajti. Hence ishu ki galti hai that's what made raman to react the way he did. Calling that as physical abuse is so wrong. And even if it is physical abuse, then it is nothing compared to the EMOTIONAL ABUSE that ishita gave him through all her stupidity and foolishness!
She asks a sleeping raman to give her all the pains and asks him to share it with her else how she'll understand. And then when he's clearly telling her that she n mani broke his home. When he asked her "kisi aur ka haath thamna chahti ho?" And his other questions, it is easy for anyone to guess that he's misunderstanding about her having an affair.
And in marriage, you are answerable to spouse. You can't just hide things, tell lies (even if its for good), ignore your spouse and his pain and then expect the spouse to praise you in the award function! Lol.
A relation eapecially of husband wife should be transparent. If one starts doing suspicious things and then show attitude that she wont give any explanation for what she did, then yeah, I so wish raman just leave her and let her go be ishima of Mani's 2 children n do mani jhaap whole life.
Little ruhi is enough for raman to tc of him.
I'm not an ishita supporter here. For me what she has done is beyond foolishness. But saying that, I'll also say that no matter how much I dislike ishita's behaviour and attitude, I will not call her names.
If she has sacrificed so much for raman ruhi n his family, even Raman has sacrificed so much for ishita n her family.
They were not even friends when they married but when ishita was drunk by mistake and embarassed everyone in her parents aniv party, it was only raman who stood for her.
When whole family was against ishita during param molestation track, it was again him who went against all n supported ishita and broughy out the truth.
The above two are just examples, there are many more things that raman did for ishita.
And about physical abuse, no raman didn't do anything. He just wanted to threaten her n remind her that he is her husband and it pains him seeing his wife roam around with another guy hand in hand and hugging every minute!
He hadn't done anything wrong that night. Period.
Any husband in his place would act like that or even worser.
What ishita did is not small mistakes but huge ones.
First she hides the ashok-using sarika to defame Raman issue [which was not needed at all to be hidden from Raman in the first place!] n then lies to raman and meets mani behind his back. Flirts with him and calls him once in every 30sec and then changes his name to manisha knowing well that raman hates it to see her talking to mani all the time.
And then cry because raman didnt give credit to her in his speech! Lol yeah ishu you bring his past, his ex wife to his bedroom at night without thinking what pain he'll go through when his past comes infront of his eyes!
Wah! She can do anything, lie to raman, hurt him, do all sort of mani jhaap n even cross the limits by saying I love you (even if it was a joke, its a terrible joke!), call mani from dhobi to even find her husband in the middle of the night ,
Then raman has done no wrong even if he hurt her. He is only reacting to the actions of ishita.
If she really loved raman, then ego shouldn't come inbetween. He never asked her character certificate. But she owes an explanation to him about her and mani's hideous meetings.
You're right, taali ek haath sr nahi bajti. Hence ishu ki galti hai that's what made raman to react the way he did. Calling that as physical abuse is so wrong. And even if it is physical abuse, then it is nothing compared to the EMOTIONAL ABUSE that ishita gave him through all her stupidity and foolishness!
She asks a sleeping raman to give her all the pains and asks him to share it with her else how she'll understand. And then when he's clearly telling her that she n mani broke his home. When he asked her "kisi aur ka haath thamna chahti ho?" And his other questions, it is easy for anyone to guess that he's misunderstanding about her having an affair.
And in marriage, you are answerable to spouse. You can't just hide things, tell lies (even if its for good), ignore your spouse and his pain and then expect the spouse to praise you in the award function! Lol.
A relation eapecially of husband wife should be transparent. If one starts doing suspicious things and then show attitude that she wont give any explanation for what she did, then yeah, I so wish raman just leave her and let her go be ishima of Mani's 2 children n do mani jhaap whole life.
Little ruhi is enough for raman to tc of him.
p.s: Juhi, you know our views differ on this matter, hope I haven't offended you yaar 😳
P.S: @ALL , anyone wanting to disapprove my comment are welcome to d so coz to each, his own.
But refrain from bashing me or others here😳😳😳
And be assured that no matter how much anyone may try to prove me wrong, EVEN I STAND BY my WORDS- I SUPPORT RAMAN. PERIOD.😃
Lastly I want to add:- I don't support physical abuse either, but for me that night, Raman had done nothing WRONG!
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