Question for Ishita supporters - Page 5

From my point of view. I don't mind having a friend who is of different gender from you. Nor do I mind her hand holding or hugging. But lying and secretly changing name in phone. Using her friends for every single thing. I don't condemned her behaviour or say she was wrong but why can't she be more outspoken with raman

Originally posted by: NeelM

Excellent post..

Enough of Mani this and Mani that!

Still trying to understand that one day she took off with Mani by the name of clinic, to discuss about Romi and Sarika... she was unreachable for all day!

Raman came to clinic and found she never came to clinic that day...

What took her all day to discuss with Mani.

Shagun saw them going together from in front of the shopping mall...

Ishita has mind of her own. She does things what she feels right and doesn't care about others emotions.

Mani's monologues made me so irritated can't explain.

He the business tycoon couldn't understand that what Raman was hinting.,

Ishu Mani could be a good couple...Self centered + meddler

First. It doesn't matter what ishita did or didn't do for puttar to have the impression (wrong one) that she is having an affair with Mani. NOTHING excuses or justifies how he behaved with her. PERIOD. And another thing..puttar saying to her..."who made me a janwar??! You!!" How wrong and pathetic!!🤢 As soon as puttar pottymouthed that..posts started appearing here justifiying/excusing that disgusting, chheee, attitude and behaviour coz of what all ishita has done wrong.

That saying..."a stitch in time saves nine..."

IF puttar had put his ego and jackassry aside and met with his wife's friend, got to know him etc...AT that point if he had caught ishita hugging mani and saying i love you, he would have walked up to them and asked...yeh kya ho raha hai. There is a phrase..."root cause"

The root cause of this mis-understanding is puttar. He is an insecure and jealous little man who occasionally shows flashes of having a big heart (why I havn't given up on this show). WHY is irrelavant here. A lot of insecure men have huge egos to cover that up and in order to make themselves feel better/higher, ill treat and insult, esp those that they can get away with doing it to...read wives and waiters.😆Puttar until the attempted rape incident wasn't as bad as most lead males shown.

root cause lies with puttar. Mani is just a catalyst. Its a fictional show so god only knows what they'll show next...😆 But in real life..take away the catalyst...another incident ,person, situation will make that jealousy, insecurity rear its ugly head. Fiction inevitabley shows the woman "healing" the man and he becomes a better person. In reality that is never the case.

In some ways the cvs have done a great job of showing that...no matter what ishita does, its never good enough...freaking woman is superwoman and alturistic bordering on sainthood, but everyday its just taunts and put downs because in a twisted sick kinda way it makes puttar feel better to do that, coz if she's bad, bewakoof , incompetent then by some perverse logic (exhibited by some forum members too😆), he is better, more competent, etc . It says a lot for her dignity and self confidence that she carries on being herself and doing what she thinks is right. Yeah she messes up sometimes. So what? I can understand why that is alien to so many girls/woman who never make an independent decision or take an independent action without reference or permission from family or hubby. Its instilled in them from day one.

What do you mean by ishita supporter alwyz hide behind veil? Btw i m nt supporter of any person... I supprt the one who i think was right in the given situation n i personally feel ishita is nt wrong this time! Rkb has issue pblm frm the begining n this time he,s crossed every limit by forcing himslf to ishita! Now if he wnt ishita to forgive him for his wrong doing then he should touch her feet so that he can learn a lesson for nt trusting his wife! But i have to say KP is a brilliant actor... Infact both DT n Kp are natural actor! D

I agree with all ur points...

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No ANY man would NOT insult his wife in public, from a speech podiam, thereby making a fool of himself as well incidently, if he believed she was cheating on him. Nor would ANY man try and rape his wife coz he has a right and as punishment for cheating. In india yes...like a topic the other day said...what was showed was very realistic. Plenty know what goes on behind closed bedroom doors but it doesn't get spoken about it. esp with indians.

Well.. I have something to say..
M neither a Ishit a nor a Raman supporter.. I love IshRa.. But still since its about women's pride ur questioning.. I would like U to acknowledgethe 5th point u mentioned here... U have clearly stated that ur parents mus t have confronted u.. that's it !!! That's whr Raman Went Wrong. He assumed things instead of Confronting her !! NO OFFENCE ! Prace and out. Keep Calm and Love YHM 😳