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I am a silent reader and have just started watching this show. caught up with all the episodes.
So he started putting on a defensive nature by simply being rude and mean. He built a wall around him of such behavior so no one can break that wall and look into his vulnerable side, and take advantage of it.
Raman is a very complex character. He was extremely nice and bhola during his marriage with Shagun and she turned out to be someone who didn't appreciate him.
So he started putting on a defensive nature by simply being rude and mean. He built a wall around him of such behavior so no one can break that wall and look into his vulnerable side, and take advantage of it.
Both Ishita and Raman are correct in their own perspectives.
Raman, well .. I am not happy with his reaction towards Ishita. He cannot just burst out , do what ever and then feel sorry and expect the other party to understand.
Before, when he did this behavior, (towards Ruhi during the father track) Ishita understood him and kind of helped him out. But that is not the case any more.
That Ishita was a third person. Ruhi's mom. She had no emotional connection what so ever (not to that of an extent) with Raman. To her , Raman was Ruhi's father and his behavior and balance was important to her , as much as it concerned Ruhi and nothing more or less.
Where as now, she is in love with Raman. So what ever he does effects her. She is not thinking with her brain, she cannot think with her brain anymore as her heart has taken over. So now even the smallest of remarks from him will hurt her.
When he used to do shagun shagun , she never really cared before and actually sympathized with her, now when he did the same , she got hurt and started crying. That does not mean she is weak, its just that she loves him.
we cannot compare ishita of before with ishita of now. But I am proud that Ishita has decided to let Raman work this out on his own. She is right that no matter what she says he will not listen to her cause he believes something else to be true and for that to be shattered, he has to find out on his own.
same with bracelet case, she did try to tell him. It didn't work. He just reacted and when he found the truth out, he pulled out some silly stunt , which again Ishita said I cannot tolerate lack of trust. There is no relationship where there is no trust.
he needs to understand that. SHe trusts him. She knows that when he is going out with shagun or hanging out with other girls, yes she can feel jealous, cause she is a woman, but that does not mean she is thinking he is going to leave her. And she is expecting the same from him.
Anywayzz my 2 (lamba) cents :)
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