Originally posted by: yyy
She went with him as a friend and even invited Raman ...she was taking Mani;s help to save her husband's position...not roaming with him...there is a difference...i know the next question will be why didn't she share it with Raman ...does he take her seriously ...when she shared about Ashok's talk at Mani's party ...he blamed her at the end after his so called plan failed..when she shared about anonamous pregancy report he yelled at her ...whenever she has tried to talk to him..he has taunted her about her voice and has showed zero interest ...
She didn't need to serve buckets of lies to Raman to roam with Mani in the first place. Raman never ever objected their meeting. She's got serious emotional attachment with Mani tbh. She roamed with Mani all day telling lies, ditching all day work for what? Just to decide they would meet Sarika next day!! She's always impulsive, it doesn't depend on Raman's mood. She brought Param, Shagun in Bhalla house without consulting any of the Bhallas.Same thing she did for Romi-Sarika case, didn't bother to inform it to Mr. & Mrs. Bhalla who always support her. So it's not about Raman but always being adamant about her decision.
She is in love with the same Raman ...if she really wanted him to be like Mani she would not have fallen in love with him...excepcting him to be sensitive to her feelings is not wrong ...expecting him not to shout at her in front of others is not too much to ask...
What good it did to Raman that Ishita is in love with him? Earlier when they were just friends, she could understand him and now she claims she's deeply in love with him but she doesn't try to understand what he feels and even what he says!!!
And, regarding shouting or taunting, it's very cliches. She also plays double game here. She says she loves Ravaan kumar more on the other side she labels him rude, insensitive. Say it loud and clear, na. If she's got a problem with his behavior she should tell him rather than beating around the bush.
At every stage Raman has brought Shagun in between them in the name of Adi ke liye ...he still has a soft corner for her and expects Ishita to accept that..she has accepted it and has supported him at every stage...she was the same person who trusted him blindly during Amma's case ...she didnt trust her sister and what did she get in return...a backstabber who was destroying evidences behind her back in the name of helping her ...
Ishita is called double faced for meeting Mani secretly and talking to him right ...didnt Raman do the same with Shagun ?Atleast Mani is a friend and they were never in a relationship but Raman has a past with Shagun ...it's even more painful to see your husband with his ex wife...If Ishita is blamed for calling Mani hero then Raman is at fault too for dedicating his award/position to his ex wife
Adi is his son and Shagun is his mother. No one can deny the fact. Raman also got overboard at times with his obsession with Adi and that hurt Ishita too. But he NEVER brought Shagun in between. Ishita also knew he was doing it for Adi.I do not justify Raman's action at all but parents tend to do that coz they are parents after all.
Regarding giving credit, I think some of us different speech all together. He gave credits to Shagun's BETRAYAL. Any woman wouldn't count it as credit rather a thunderous slap on her face and dignity.
Ishita was hurt as she found that she has no value in Raman's life even after doing everything in her control to accept him with all his faults ...Regarding Sanjana ...she never doubted his character like he is doing ...she was upset that Raman didnt share it with her ...Raman was purposely hiding things from her ...
She has no value in Raman's life? Really? He wanted to make new memories with her for the rest of his life, gave a name plate of hers to mark Bhalla house belonged to her where he didn't have his name plate, never objected her decision of bringing Param or doubting him about Sanjana. Out of curiosity, what she did solely do for Raman to feel that he had special place in her life? She never ever gifted him anything until this bracelet and that too she trialed on Mani first.
Well, Sanjana case was really serious and It was good for her that Raman didn't say anything to her. She thought Raman as a HOME-WRECKER who wrecked Arora family due to his alleged affair with Sanjana. She blamed it publicly defaming her husband. She chose to believe an outsider whom she knew for few hours but didn't trust her husband at all. She didn't even see them together once. That implies Ishita has serious trust issues.
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