Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Hi! Kri,
Weve crossed paths on the LU thread. Great to see your topic, thanks for asking for feedback.
I unfortunately DONT agree that the CVs deserve to be complimented. I witness serious inconsistency in both Raman and Ishita's characters.
@bold...This is why i love them yaar... Hurt souls they are... Committing all types of blunders to come back to the other person at the end of the day. Lovely na... Its there...after 10 months...
Most of it has occured in the last month or so. From the day she brought Param home, once upon a time she said to him "door hato mere raaste se" and there she was out and about in the middle of the night chatting/bringing him home...and that was followed by bringing Shagun home... that was a HUGE FLAW😲 He expressed in many many ways that he didnt care for Mani. She noted some, giggled like a teenager, blew it off, responded to some expression of irritation, gushed to Mani saying "I am loving him get jealous"
He goes one step ahead and stages an accident, she threw an incredible fit accusing him about trust and faith and credence... retuns home dresses up for Karwa CHauth forgets it all... lies about Mani's phone call, records his name under a woman's on her contact list, and meets him secretly...
TWO DAYS ago when they all get ready to go hunt for Raman she notices fear in Romi's eyes and signals him everything will be OK and signals him again to go inside
THIS ISHITA WAS CLULESS ABOUT RAMAN'S displeasure for a MONTH?😲
HOW will you justify it? Its like robbing a bank and claiming to donate the loot to charity😲
How can any wife in her right mind think "Oh! my husband needs to heal, THIS is EXACTLY the prescription for it?"
He fasted for her, he scolded her for thinking about fasting, he ensured she ate every two hours, he stayed up in the hospital when her Mom met with the wreck... he gave up his position for her... and today he forced himself on her.😲
All the baby steps they took from February until October have all been washed away by the huge gaping holes in the plot.
Nothing has been washed away Nisha... Problem with Raman is those mixed signals which he gives Ishita and problem with Ishita is her selflessness... We need some patience to bear with this track...
I DONT see or FEEL the remorse she feels... it was not weighty or intense when she brought Param home or when she brought Shagun home... we DONT see her TROUBLED... speechless... starving... pained... because she hurt him... she walks away like she dusted off a fly...
In order to justify the blatant carelessness she has displayed the last three weeks of IGNORING his discomfort, of being UNMINDFUL of his hurt, irritation and jealousy... because SHE CHOSE to be uncaring, they MADE HIM assault her.
This Ishita is different because this issue is different... After so many months of their marriage, her husband is doubting her fidelity...
HUGE FATAL BLOW to Raman's character... THIS is the guy that hit Romi and drew blood once upon a time, upon hearing he misbehaved with Mihika. HOW can I justify him forcing himself on Ishita Kri?
I am JUST UNABLE TO😲
He never forced himself on Shagun, she actually CHEATED on him, but because he was given HINTS he actually assaults Ishita? Ridiculous...
It JUST does not add up... I am an accountant, things have to add up for me... there are huge gaping holes in the story today... holes they dug up in order to fill previously dug holes.
Raman committed a mistake. But, he didn't stoop low... Copying the reply that i posted in Doc's post...
People say that Raman did a grave by forcing himself on his wife... Those dialogues were derogatory, his approach was not pleasant but he didn't stoop low before my eyes after this incident... Ishita pushed Raman to the floor because he allowed her to do so... Raman was stronger enough to subjugate his wife but he didn't want that...
Since last night, he has been breathing with the fear of losing his love... He got drunk even while witnessing his desire moving with another man... He was touching her...right before his eyes when he couldn't take that liberty with her.
Then, he degraded himself that he's unworthy of Ishita because he couldn't satisfy her... He couldn't stop her from seeking another man... So, he agreed that there is a lacuna in their relationship...
With all these thoughts circulating inside his mind, he took one wrong step...His approach was wrong but the fact was right... There was no 'Intimacy' between them... (Finally, i got that Ruby but i'm restricting myself here. That was a mature thought and this is a public forum) He didn't want to let go of her... Intoxicated by her desire and the love which he has for her, he forced himself on her... But, he allowed Ishita to push him away...That was where his love prevailed over his passion. After opening his eyes, the first thought to strike him was his behaviour towards Ishita... There has was, RKB whom we have been loving from day one of YHM...
cv's clearly have a vision and i respect the same...
How can Raman convince her that he will not go off the edge again?
What justification can Ishita give me that she will not lie again to him?
Trust is the answer Nisha...
Hugely disappointed... Enormous inconsistencies in writing and plot and character building (more like character destruction now).
NOW It seems like ANYTHING is OK to make ISHRA fall in LOVE.
In Delhi they frequently talk about the "chalta hai" attitude... YHM is on a "chalta hai koi gall nahi" track now... as long as they ultimately fall in love, we will SOMEHOW justify every idiosyncratic twist?
Have faith in cv's... They are showing something new... Let us believe in them...
I apologize for the delay in responding Kri... had to take my lil one to the corn maze... as Halloween is around the corner😃
That's alright Nisha...😊