At the end of the day Raman is ALL ALONE

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Kiara

@AraBearxo

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Posted: 10 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

Bang on. I always wanted to know Ishita's side of story. Lots to explore there. But the way Ishita behaves make me think her relationship with Subbu was a mere teenage crush that lasted long. She somehow realized and accepted that fact. Otherwise,She wouldn't have so willingly agreed to marry Prateek back in December.

It could be that. What if it wasn't? Twelve years in a relationship isn't an easy task and Subbu dropping her like a hot potato without a simple explanation and backup story makes no sense. When you are in a relationship for such a long time the love and crush factor in the relationship turns into something more, something more than companionship and acceptance. If I had to tell my long time boyfriend that I couldn't be a mother, he would hold my hand and tell me that would fight through this like we did the since the day we met each other. He wouldn't give me a speech merely along the lines of "kids hold a marriage and love fades two years in a marriage", you aren't having having a shotgun marriage, God dammit. There was jo can't keep my hands of you at the moment sort of live.

The dude she agreed to marry in December introduces himself as a suave gentleman unlike our kid kud Kumar. And knowing that her mother's desperation to get her her married to shut all the gossiping mouths. And her reaction to meeting Subbu. As I stated in my fanfiction, the Ishita. - Subbu backstory has so much that could be explored.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#62

Originally posted by: AroraTanya

But Raman has never told her selfish, self-centered. Ishita is constantly ranting this now. When Raman put off her phone thinking she would get good sleep, how was her behavior after that? When Raman tried to clarify his action, Ishita again called him selfish, self-centered. She's deliberately doing this for some time, it's not just random outburst of emotion. Either she's having a retrograde amnesia or she's fed up with Raman. She wouldn't repeatedly label him as "Selfish and self-centered" otherwise.

Raman never called her selfish, okay? But, he told her that she tries to create a rift b/w him and Ruhi, among his family. How is that good?😆 O ha! Once he called her characterless indirectly. As you brought never, then comes the past events also.

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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

I toh dint find that scene that way. I saw sarcasm and a bit sorrow in her face. Cos, Raman's day is not complete without shouting or taunting her. She was wanting him to get out of shock and we know that Raman being normal is shouting. She, as a wife wanted her husband to be normal. No way, she wanted to hear taunts.

there u answered it rightly...when she knows that its normal for him to scold n shout...and doesnt find it irritating...

n now suddenly she find his behavior wrong...and abnormal

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DiVa

@Dihiva

Rocker

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Posted: 10 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: Colt.Pixy

whose words were " you think only for your self, you do only for your self, you never cared for me, you never liked anything in me " , and yeah she before said that she liked ravan kumar but she said recently that she tolerated all taunts . that makes different that her choice is now changed. she does not see what thing of her made raman to do shaq on her. just like mani, some one is needed to show her mirror too where she is going wrong just like raman 's taunts and rudeness were pointed out , her behavior with mani that made raman not to believe her .

problem is her flaws are not glorified or pointed out by ANYONE in show.

When you are angry, you do say a lot of things! You should see me fight with my husband.. you would think he is the most selfish person in the world😉😆 But that is not true.. I know that and he knows it too! In a fit of anger, you say certain things which are mostly for that situation alone but sounds like things have ALWAYS been so! That is how most wife/husband fights are in real life. Raman too says a LOT of things to her in anger and also threatens to throw her out of his house and life.. but he does not mean it. And both are not same.. they are different people trying to co-exist. The fact that he/she is yours, you tend to show your rights on them! And there is no need to apologize as well.. things and intentions are understood even in anger. And that is what brings two people closer!

To me, I look at it this way.. Until recently, Ishita did not expect anything much from Raman because she thought it was only a 'Ruhi ke liye' rishta.. but now, since she feels more for Raman, and feels her right on him as his wife, she has developed some expectations.. That is progress in my mind. Only when you accept a person to be your partner w/o any conditions like 'Ruhi ke liye', a new set of expectations will take shape related to ONLY YOU. That is the phase in which Ishita is right now for me! And as a matter of fact, Raman too! They both want to do things for the other and no other reason. For me, that is growth in relationship.

Again, Mani thing is not something I want to comment on.. I am only talking about IshRa here.

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AroraTanya

@AroraTanya

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

I toh dint find that scene that way. I saw sarcasm and a bit sorrow in her face. Cos, Raman's day is not complete without shouting or taunting her. She was wanting him to get out of shock and we know that Raman being normal is shouting. She, as a wife wanted her husband to be normal. No way, she wanted to hear taunts.

If she does NOT like his taunts. She should SAY that to him CLEARLY. Why is she playing double game? One side I love my Ravaan Kumar and his taunts. Other side I don't like your taunts, you're rude, insensitive, uncaring...

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#66

I guess, it's the perfect time to focus on Ishita's past rather than those dramas. Enough of Raman's character and his irritating past. If CVs are so interested in Raman only, there was no need to call Ishita, Ruhi as main leads. It's always Raman and Raman.

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AroraTanya

@AroraTanya

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Raman never called her selfish, okay? But, he told her that she tries to create a rift b/w him and Ruhi, among his family. How is that good?😆 O ha! Once he called her characterless indirectly. As you brought never, then comes the past events also.

When? 😕 Plz elaborate...

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Pooja

@beingpooja

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Posted: 10 years ago

#68

ishu vs raman going on and on... 🤣 @ colt.pixy liked ur reply...

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

Stunner

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Posted: 10 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: anjs

there u answered it rightly...when she knows that its normal for him to scold n shout...and doesnt find it irritating...

n now suddenly she find his behavior wrong...and abnormal

The way suddenly Raman is thinking himself as bad husband and trying to be a good person. Both is acting weirdly suddenly due to Mani. Raman's change is sweet, that's why you praise him and Ishita's change is good for the relationship, good for a better understanding from Raman to Ishita, you are blaming him like she murdered😆.

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anjs

@anjs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: -Hima-

When you are angry, you do say a lot of things! You should see me fight with my husband.. you would think he is the most selfish person in the world😉😆 But that is not true.. I know that and he knows it too! In a fit of anger, you say certain things which are mostly for that situation alone but sounds like things have ALWAYS been so! That is how most wife/husband fights are in real life. Raman too says a LOT of things to her in anger and also threatens to throw her out of his house and life.. but he does not mean it. And both are not same.. they are different people trying to co-exist. The fact that he/she is yours, you tend to show your rights on them! And there is no need to apologize as well.. things and intentions are understood even in anger. And that is what brings two people closer!

To me, I look at it this way.. Until recently, Ishita did not expect anything much from Raman because she thought it was only a 'Ruhi ke liye' rishta.. but now, since she feels more for Raman, and feels her right on him as his wife, she has developed some expectations.. That is progress in my mind. Only when you accept a person to be your partner w/o any conditions like 'Ruhi ke liye', a new set of expectations will take shape related to ONLY YOU. That is the phase in which Ishita is right now for me! And as a matter of fact, Raman too! They both want to do things for the other and no other reason. For me, that is growth in relationship.

Again, Mani thing is not something I want to comment on.. I am only talking about IshRa here.

@ bold : Raman is genuinely trying...but Ishita doesnt look like she wants to do things for him, except for that bracelet thing...apart from that all her other time is busy in talking to mani only...

also, expectations of love is different, and expectations of changing the behavior is different...earlier Ishita knew that though Raman scolds n shouts at her, he cares for her...now suddenly she is expecting him to change himself...and his simple actions like switching off the phone, got such a cold reaction from her...she is telling him to stop thinking bt her...why, cause he is selfish n thinks only for himself...is this how much she knows him, after being with him for 8-9 months ????