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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Panthera



😆 😆 I tell ya!!



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Panthera


I have seen this before, where there is by many, over zealous and often blind one sided identification with the male compounded by female lead character assasination...and yet lead characters "romantic moments" are demanded!!😆

Yes there are some characteristics they all have in all shows. As for the majority not being able to identify with her even though they too are females has nothing to do with female solidarity and more to do with cultural norms and indian soap indoctrination. Kekta and co know that most women are their own worst enemies. Just have a good looking male lead with a tragic past and all his jackassry will be justified, ignored or admired. Let me add here that raman is better than most. Wayyy better. He has a good heart but that doesn't mean he hasn't been shown to treat ishita like a verbal punchbag on a daily basis. Oh and just coz uptil now ishita hasn't minded doesn't make it right.

As for shagun's arrival back into puttar's life...I don't get your point. To me it implies coz she brought a drunk shagun home for one night, it will be her fault that shagun is back in puttar's life...when it happens.

There is plenty I don't like about how ishita behaves, not just puttar but I don't justify what I don't like about her by vilifying puttar! Am not saying you do I hasten to add. But a lot here do.



Good point ...in future shagun will sure try to come and some will blame ishita ...it will be ishita's fault that time..she brought her so ..lol..😆 Raman is no where near to any fault ..ishita will get the fruit of her past deed ..😆

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Posted: 10 years ago
[QUOTE=]Panthera

There is plenty I don't like about how ishita behaves, not just puttar but I don't justify what I don't like about her by vilifying puttar! Am not saying you do I hasten to add. But a lot here do.
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Ishita is going to soon fall into a trap, with all the leeway she lets Raman have. I mean, not that Raman wants to romance Shagun, but Ishita is a bit too understanding about Shagun and her life. Raman is right. There are somethings that need to be left as they are.

Supposing Shagun gets dumped and has nowhere to go, she will either make an entry right back into Raman's life OR permanently stay at Mihir's house OR take a house somewhere near Raman's apartment and stay with her cook mom.

Either way, am sorry to say, but most of the drama is self-invited by Ishita only.

Right now, that she has decided to stand up for herself, it doesnt fit well because Raman isnt wrong in this particular scenario. Had Ishita been angry with him for lying to her and worrying her to death, I wouldve agreed. But more than that, she is angry that he "doesnt trust" her. What a dumb ass?!

Husband comes into the house, sees wifey and best friend giggling their hearts out, wifey keeps nonchalantly trying the bracelet on best friend's wrist, and then clarifies its for MANI. And then feels sooo happy that Raman Kumar is kudhoing.

Do all of that, but then dont expect Raman to kiss your feet when you gift him man!!
He is just doing what you wanted him to do:KUDHO!

but nai...drama shuru!
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: v_ani_patel



Good point ...in future shagun will sure try to come and some will blame ishita ...it will be ishita's fault that time..she brought her so ..lol..😆 Raman is no where near to any fault ..ishita will get the fruit of her past deed ..😆


Forum members are not biased.Most of the members write what they feel irrespective of leads.Did you forget how severely Raman was criticized in the forum during Adi Accident case or when he asked Ishita to say sorry to Adi in April? Ishita didn't even get 1/10 th of what Raman got.

Just go through the comments of the link I posted bellow:
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4196968#p114715581
Edited by AroraTanya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Haila ye kab hua?

May be I am watching a different YHM but I see them in love and increasing companionship.

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Exactly ...I'm banging my head and trying to figure out if my TV telecasts a different YHM or not.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Absolutely. When Raman was behaving like an ass, am sure everybody felt like whacking him. Now that Ishita is acting like a dumbass, people are reprimanding her in the same manner.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: gravity23


Ishita is going to soon fall into a trap, with all the leeway she lets Raman have. I mean, not that Raman wants to romance Shagun, but Ishita is a bit too understanding about Shagun and her life. Raman is right. There are somethings that need to be left as they are.

Supposing Shagun gets dumped and has nowhere to go, she will either make an entry right back into Raman's life OR permanently stay at Mihir's house OR take a house somewhere near Raman's apartment and stay with her cook mom.

Either way, am sorry to say, but most of the drama is self-invited by Ishita only.

Right now, that she has decided to stand up for herself, it doesnt fit well because Raman isnt wrong in this particular scenario. Had Ishita been angry with him for lying to her and worrying her to death, I wouldve agreed. But more than that, she is angry that he "doesnt trust" her. What a dumb ass?!

Husband comes into the house, sees wifey and best friend giggling their hearts out, wifey keeps nonchalantly trying the bracelet on best friend's wrist, and then clarifies its for MANI. And then feels sooo happy that Raman Kumar is kudhoing.

Do all of that, but then dont expect Raman to kiss your feet when you gift him man!!
He is just doing what you wanted him to do:KUDHO!

but nai...drama shuru!


Exactly. Ishita willingly wanted to make Raman jealous during bracelet scene and she agreed it to Mani too. But she didn't want to bear the consequences of it, rather she was sulking why Raman was angry at her. What a joke!
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Posted: 10 years ago
Seriously. I mean, common sensically, if I want to make my partner jealous and i SUCCEED in doing that, I cant suddenly step in and try to do damage control and make him react the way I want him to.
Raman bhi..wat an ass! Why is he falling into this "accha pati trap" laid by Mani?

He got yelled at by Ishita more for trying this nonsense, than anything else he has ever said or done.

If she bawls her eyes out at Shagun's re-entry, I am just going to say, "I told you so!"

See, that's why I feel..what woman would get her husband's drunk ex and make her sleep in his BEDROOM??? with a lech/LEECH like PARAM around????

I would be shit scared before trying something like this. It could have so many consequences!

And then she is trying to set Shagun's life. Wahan Mihika is trying to get Shagun to catch Ashok red-handed and has agreed to go on travel tours with him. And I bet my life, he will get her drunk and take advantage of her. Mihir-Mihika drama will start. Shagun will accuse Mihika of being a bad frnd, blah blah.

What's with the Iyer sisters yaar? Why cant they keep their noses out of other people's business??
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AroraTanya


Forum members are not biased.Most of the members write what they feel irrespective of leads.Did you forget how severely Raman was criticized in the forum during Adi Accident case or when he asked Ishita to say sorry to Adi in April? Ishita didn't even get 1/10 th of what Raman got.

Just go through the comments of the link I posted bellow:
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4196968#p114715581



Im not saying members r biased..all write whatever they feel including me ..did I say forum is biased ..mostly I just ignore the posts where I feel topic is like that ..
I criticized both in past ..I'm a ishra fan ..not only Raman or only ishita ..
Well , what can I say why people criticized raman more and ishita less ..and I no matter what other do I write whatever I feel..

Here i m commenting because I felt its healthy discussion..
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Posted: 10 years ago
Panthera
Its a Desi soap
I watch it for the entertainment value
Iam EXTREMELY SHALLOW AND CAPRICIOUS I will admit
I am not a social scientist or a women's libber
I fight enough battles everyday in my real life
Desi TV is for PLEASURE alone for me
I LOVE RAMAN BHALLA I LOVE KARAN PATEL
No i dont harbor a secret desire to marry him
I WATCH IT FOR THE MINDLESS DRAMA
AND COMBUSTIBLE CHEMISTRY
I rarely identify with Ishita I am married to a man like Raman sans the verbal abuse part... but with other flaws instead

I have NO IDEA why Raman is more loved
I know why "I" love him more.
I am a die hard romantic, a part time freelancing cupid and a moonlighting romance author..😉. Its my hope to hook up as many jodis as possible in my lifetime😆
I suck up every bit of nonsensical romance Ekta Kapoor happens to throw at me

I am sorry if i sounded combative not my intention at all
Cheers!!🤗
Hope your discussion goes well


Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago

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