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redwine1

@redwine1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#621

Ruby

Thansks for the correction. You are right she does say that verbatim and as she sees it she does have reason..but some dialogues are out of character for Ishu ... RKB character has been extremely well sketched and has remained trued to his character to date in the show whereas IMO Ishu's has faltered at times. Chalo aage aage kya hota hai...looking forward to IRB and RKB confrontation, which I hope is soon😉 and then RKB setting about becoming IRBs HERO!!!

ab ispe toh maar pitwaogi tum .. but chalo whats life if theres no drama

Raman has the author backed role .. Ishita is a character .. the female protagonist . in a serial u can't play much with the female protagonist anyways .. she is borderline perfect .. hence when u show any deviation or such ..its caught & proclaimed a mistake ... ur immediately under scanner

but when u show a flawed character .. u can hide any mistakes under flawed character hai .. 😉😉

Ishita as a character cannot grow .. she can't change . she is the one who affects change . so she can't change .. u can only see change in Raman .. now in a similar case .. after she sees Shagun in raman's arms .. coming out of a hotel in the middle of the night .. she agrees the next moment to send them off to a picnic .

whoa ... whoa ..

so this character is this ..she cannot change . she will be borderline perfect ..

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#622

Originally posted by: -Anku-
BTW Ruby I am on your side 😆

😆 ROFLMAO

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Aani

@EkPaheli

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#623

Copy pasting another reply

I understand all the anger that is aimed at Ishita now and that she should understand where he is coming from since she has been through a breakup too...but there is a difference in their cases - he was killed with slow poison as we saw, something Ishita NEVER learned when Shagun cheated on him and left, she doesnt know the abc's of their marriage and relationship and her relationship ended in a flash - like a bullet through the head, a bandaid ripped off...she didnt even know what hit her when it did...he saw it coming.

Also Mani has been around her even before Raman - now if you compare the two things - two relationships perhaps Subu was cooler and hence Ishita doesnt have any idea what is bothering Raman - he never has been open about it. Last night she said she saw him act like a typical hubby, his anger and all - she realizes he is jealous at some level - but the fact is she wants to see him behave that way rem she said she wants to know if he gets jealous and if so how does he react - it may prove he loves her...she has not realized the gravity of the situation cos she doesnt know what hell is she putting him through...she doesnt know she is giving him the recollections of memories he buried deep down.

To her it hasnt yet occurred what was the case - yes she knows Raman was cheated on, I agree but has anyone ever said to her how long did this take place? How Raman got to know of things and kept quiet like we know, for all she knows Shagun just came up to him one day and said I cant do this anymore - like Subu did - and walked off into the sunset with Ashok.

You cannot expect Ishita to be a mindreader based on the knowledge of infidelity right? We sometimes know the outcome of certain things but do we know the processes that make them always? No we dont - this is what is as per me the reason Ishita is being so casual. She hasnt the faintest idea of what she is doing and the moment it hits her is the one to watch out for- yes she is gonna be sorry as she should be but it was vital in a way for her to be ignorant - she will connect the dots only when she sees things clearly.

This track is perhaps hence being shaped the way it is to let her know his trauma, his experience. All she has known is Raman loved Shagun, she left him for Ashok and they got divorced even after two kids - but the how' and why' were never asked or answered.

Every person, every marriage and relationship - even the way it ends and the processes that it goes through when it does, if it does are varied. What happened to abc need not be the case for xyz, but how can abc and xyz work it out if they meet like Ishita and Raman? They need to TALK, this track is actually ending the Sirf Ruhi Ke Liye thing finally and the BIGGEST thing that could end it is if they TALK. And by talk I mean about everything - their pasts included, how would they proceed if they dont close things behind them, saying I want or have had a closure doesnt necessarily mean you got one.

This is the gist of things as per me

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redwine1

@redwine1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#624

Originally posted by: EkPaheli
Today Remya and I got into a little discussion too - as per her Ishu has never asked Raman about things because she is scared that she may hear he still loves Shagun - which isnt the case for me...the thing is as per me the this track is about opening up, talking - which is what even Mihir said today - Thank you Mihir I could hug you for this... but it is about Raman getting over his insecurity the most, it is about him STOPPING the comparision he inevitably draws between the two women in his life that he married - an ex and a present...he has to let go off the past completely - have his closure to do the trick and live in his present for it and his and Ishita' future...when he starts to appreciate Ishita for who she is all by herself, show her he cares with gestures that come from his heart - Happy' heart - he would win the war

Remya mentioned how on Varahlakshmi he narrated Shagun never could keep the KC fast for him - he asked her not to do this drama for him - she was measured with the same yardstick as his ex...so no matter what she does she ends up being compared to Shagun? even the dances that they had when he called her light to Shagun' darkness - yes he appreciated her - BUT comparing her with Shagun...do you want to be appreciated or loved by comparision or because of who you are? When she kept a fast for him - he expected her to do what Shagun did, he has been unable to let go of the comparisions, yes he is seeing the good here but does that mean it doesnt get to her? Of course it must. It makes her feel she would always be measured no matter what she does and on that scale she thinks she would loose not only because she came second but because she cant claim one thing which Shagun always can and will - the fact she has kids with Raman which she never would be able to give him...yes she is possessive about him now that much is true which is why Sanjana rattled her. But I think while Raman has stopped SEEING Shagun in Ruhi, he hasnt stopped comparisions. Even this thing - he is measuring her against Shagun which is where Mihir' lines come into play - Kaach and Heera -they may look similar, we could be under the illusion at times regarding them but that doesnt mean they are interchangeable

AANI UNCANNY ...

I AM GONNA SEND U THE POST I had written for today .. i have written most of these points ..

the rick one .. then the dance one ..

😆

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Bhuvana

@Ohgod!

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#625

Originally posted by: redwine1

AANI UNCANNY ...

I AM GONNA SEND U THE POST I had written for today .. i have written most of these points ..
the rick one .. then the dance one ..

😆

Hawww,, if not posting hume bhi bejo... subah ke 3 baje hum yahaan sirf aapke khayalon ko padne bhaite hain 😳

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#626

Originally posted by: redwine1

😆 ROFLMAO
🤗

Positive team always rocks and I am always there. Sometimes I may not like something, but I never get worked up over it especially when the story is gaining momentum.

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-Anku-

@-Anku-

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#627

Originally posted by: EkPaheli
Today Remya and I got into a little discussion too - as per her Ishu has never asked Raman about things because she is scared that she may hear he still loves Shagun - which isnt the case for me...the thing is as per me the this track is about opening up, talking - which is what even Mihir said today - Thank you Mihir I could hug you for this... but it is about Raman getting over his insecurity the most, it is about him STOPPING the comparision he inevitably draws between the two women in his life that he married - an ex and a present...he has to let go off the past completely - have his closure to do the trick and live in his present for it and his and Ishita' future...when he starts to appreciate Ishita for who she is all by herself, show her he cares with gestures that come from his heart - Happy' heart - he would win the war

Remya mentioned how on Varahlakshmi he narrated Shagun never could keep the KC fast for him - he asked her not to do this drama for him - she was measured with the same yardstick as his ex...so no matter what she does she ends up being compared to Shagun? even the dances that they had when he called her light to Shagun' darkness - yes he appreciated her - BUT comparing her with Shagun...do you want to be appreciated or loved by comparision or because of who you are? When she kept a fast for him - he expected her to do what Shagun did, he has been unable to let go of the comparisions, yes he is seeing the good here but does that mean it doesnt get to her? Of course it must. It makes her feel she would always be measured no matter what she does and on that scale she thinks she would loose not only because she came second but because she cant claim one thing which Shagun always can and will - the fact she has kids with Raman which she never would be able to give him...yes she is possessive about him now that much is true which is why Sanjana rattled her. But I think while Raman has stopped SEEING Shagun in Ruhi, he hasnt stopped comparisions. Even this thing - he is measuring her against Shagun which is where Mihir' lines come into play - Kaach and Heera -they may look similar, we could be under the illusion at times regarding them but that doesnt mean they are interchangeable

WOW 👏 love this post. Nothing more to say to it.

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luvsagar

@luvsagar

Voyager

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#628

Aani, Anku, Ruby

I LOVE reading your guys posts they always provide a positive POV and are bang on and inspiring to delve deeper into the characters and the show itself!

Thank you!!🤗

And Me too positive but sometimes get hung up on certain things shown for dramatic effect!!!

Nina

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redwine1

@redwine1

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#629

AANI UNCANNY ...

I AM GONNA SEND U THE POST I had written for today .. i have written most of these points ..

the rick one .. then the dance one ..

😆

Hawww,, if not posting hume bhi bejo... subah ke 3 baje hum yahaan sirf aapke khayalon ko padne bhaite hain 😳

half post hai based on yesterdays episode .. not updated todays stuff .. yaha paste kar deli hoon .. no mood to make a thread . ? is that ok ?

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Bhuvana

@Ohgod!

Sparkler

+ 7

Posted: 11 years ago

#630

Originally posted by: redwine1

AANI UNCANNY ...

I AM GONNA SEND U THE POST I had written for today .. i have written most of these points ..
the rick one .. then the dance one ..

😆

Hawww,, if not posting hume bhi bejo... subah ke 3 baje hum yahaan sirf aapke khayalon ko padne bhaite hain 😳

half post hai based on yesterdays episode .. not updated todays stuff .. yaha paste kar deli hoon .. no mood to make a thread . ? is that ok ?

Whatever you feel like ma'am😳