When YHM Falters.

Originally posted by: xxRiaKapoorxx

Hey guys :) My opinions and thoughts after tonight's epi. No hard feelings, I still love the show loads, but theres just this ONE thing I really dislike, that CVs happen to do once in a while with some episodes... and they are doing it again now. This time, I think I will talk about it... because it needs to be criticized.

They do this in the show many times, they have done it in the past, and here they go doing it again. Earlier it was ok, because I thought theek hai they are giving Ishra the time they need to develop and change...but now its been quite some time since their marriage, and they are even realizing their love for each other... now they REALLY need to fix this. Its time, YHM! Its high time!

The last time that I got REALLY pissed when something like this happened, was during the whole Ishra-Shagun salsa dance fiasco. I was really, really upset that Ishita was immensely hurt by Raman, and she did nothing. There was no real discussion, no realization on Raman's part of where he was wrong, no efforts to touch on this topic... nothing. It was really disappointing and frustrating. I can never forget that.

Even after that whole thing, CVs continued to show this angry, rude Raman blasting Ishita... and I was like ok whatever, just ignore it Ria... its an indian show, whatever. But NOW, because Ishra are actually in love... this is getting too annoying to ignore!

I understand that this is defining Ishita and Raman's characters. Ishita is not the kind of person to react in zest or yell, shout and whatever. And Raman is the kind of person that will shout and say a lot of things in anger. I get it, I understand this is their character. But as Ishra's relationship has been developing, they as people should naturally change and adapt accordingly. We have reached a point in the show where Raman loves Ishita, and has drastically changed as a person because of her. Why and how does he go back to his rude self? I dont understand.

And Ishita? Isnt she supposed to be a strong, independent, professional woman? This is the same woman that had no inhibitions yelling at a man for mistreating his little daughter, even though she had no relation with him. And now when she is MARRIED AND IN LOVE with this same man... she all of a sudden never says a WORD when he makes rude comments to her every other day?!! she doesnt tell him when he is wrong now?? This is the same woman that fought back against this man when he charged her parents with kidnapping, when his brother allegedly made an MMS of her sister, and so many other instances. And now, this same man who she had no problems fixing before when he was a stranger... all of a sudden when he is now her husband and love... she ignores his unfair anger bursts and doesnt say a word to him?!? I dont understand.

YHM is notorious for this. One week, Ishra are in love... romancing, being all sweet and cute. The next week, we see Raman go back to his rude self, say something mean to Ishita, and Ishita keeps quiet. Then, in the next episode, we see Raman Ishita back to some random nokh-jokh. WHY?? AGAIN, they are doing this now. Raman in tonights episode threatens to kick Ishita out of his life (again!)... and in tomorrows episode, we are going to see Raman back to his cute self, playing pranks??!! And Ishita, as always, does nothing.

It does not matter why Raman says what he does in anger. He can have whatever reason, but that does not mean he can always say whatever he wants. And not once does he think back and regret what he has said?? Ek scene mein itna kuch bol ke, doosre hi scene mein bhool gaya?

It does not matter if Ishita understands and knows Raman is like this. This being his nature, character or whatever, does not give him an excuse to be rude. She should help him change for the better... she should TELL him he is wrong, make him realize, stop him from saying things he shouldn't in anger. But she never does!! She goes around lecturing about everything else, why does she not touch this topic??

It just annoys me when they do this, and now even more so. I am waiting for the day Ishita shuts Raman up right then and there, when he is angry and says something stupid. I am waiting for the day Raman realizes his problem and attempts to fix it. I am waiting for the day Ishra face this flaw, and actually do something about it. More than all of this, I am waiting for the day YHM CVs stop jumping for one anger burst scene, to nohk-jokh, to anger scene.

Ladies and Gents, this... what we are seeing here this week... is typical Ekta. This makes me remember and never forget that I am in fact watching an Indian Ekta soap opera.

xxRia

Originally posted by: kuhu_d

I agree with your post, ria! in fact i don't like the lack of flow when it comes to raman shouting like crazy-ishu sulking and in the next scene... Raman is normal n ishita smiling at him again. i mean don't the cvs understand that no other woman or human being in general would tolerate being shouted at n then not saying anything or behaving like if nothing happened. i m not sure if this message can be conveyed to the cvs, but its a horrible flaw, which irks me now. in the beginning like ishu taking shogun home, i thought ok raman n ishu had that talk in their room after his shouting session, but hello-how come raman is rude, aggressive, respect less n whatever else. i know its his nature, but dude, ishita has a self-respect as well. its kind of domestic violence (i know thats a harsh word) but its unbearable as a woman to accept the way raman treats her. even in yesterdays episode, many blamed raman for being insensitive calling her kachra n comparing her with dinosaur. i didn't mind that much, BUT todyas episode was way too much. infact because of RAMAN ishu has all the KACHRA (shogun, ashok, suraj, adi) in her life.