Rajma Idli Rantings(APOLOGIES VYAS) - Page 2

Since Mihir and Mihika are the poster children for yeh hain MOHABBATEIN, I agree, their romance should not be nuked

i actually liked what raman said in the balcony, people were so quick to dismiss it as mahanata or scoff at him but there was a lot of truth to what he said. One cannot live the rest of his life hating a person with so much intensity because it will eventually poison you, just like it poisoned raman. you need to let things go and free of yourself, Hate can slowly begin to feel like burden but forgiveness can bring a sense of peace. No one said raman and mihir need to like shagun, it was just about forgiving her and moving on.

Very very nice post i also actually loved the episode especially the acting was great raman mihir and shagun and also ishita rocked

Finally I got a place where I could vent out my views. Thanks Nisha.. I never expect much logic or rationality in a daily soap, that too from Ekta camp, I still feel there should be a considerable level of it.

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@susheela - I saw a post yesterday where the TM was hoping for the same that you were expecting from Ishita that she was playing all along with Sanjana just so she could get Mihir to spill the beans. Just like I said in that thread, I am going to say the same here. To me Ishita's character has been butchered to the nth degree. Just like you, I fell in love with Ishita's charcter who was portrayed as strong, independent,calm, rational and collected from day 1. She made well thought out decisions understanding the ramifications and impact of what she and family will be faced with. It all went down the drain the minute she brought Param the disgusting pervert home without putting any thought and then goes and talks to him when he shamelessly drools over her. Is that man even worth going near without her skin crawling considering what he did to her? To top it all off, she asks him about Sanjana as though he is a well wisher who would tell her exactly what was going on? Then she brought Shagun home which Shagun herself mocked at her asking her if she couldn't find a hotel to put her overnight. I had no issues with her helping Shagun but issues with her taking Shagun straight to her bedroom. The Ishita who was portrayed in the inital episodes would never do things like this. She had a good heart then and even has now but then she was logical and thought rationally now she is acting dense, illogical and unintelligent. There was no remorse about the way she behaved over her assumption of Sanjana and Raman's relationship and I felt there was inconsistency all along where last episode she was chopping his head off and today no remorse or apology to Raman and/or MIhir and went directly to lovingly gazing at Raman and calling her "Mere Raman". I have no issues with her adoring her husband who is a good hearted, loving and selfless individual but where is the continuity from last night's episode. May be they will bring that up in Monday's episode I hope.

M Susheela

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Mrs Bhalla hurts and humiliates her mercilessly, the whole complex watches on.

How many single girls that live in India would do that?

Not only did she became the object of unnecessary ridicule and mockery of all the residents living there, she placed her DEAR DARLING AMMA in a position where she had to endure her daughter being torn to pieces by Mrs Bhalla😲

I am not big on conjectures, may be that bag represented Ruhi's love and she was trying to take it on.🤢

After they gain custody at the court house, Shagun trashes her cruelly, she stands there like a speech impaired person, Mrs Bhalla walks over to her and reminds her "I have no clue if you are truly as angelic as you pretend to be, but if you can go ruin my son's reputation at the TV station you can as well STAND UP FOR YOURSELF, Cant you?"

Ishita Bhalla is a glutton for humiliation and punishment... Somethings never change.

I want to know from all those that live in post marriage set up like Ishita Bhalla "Would you have done a similar act at your in-laws's wedding event?(bring a girl off the street and accuse your husband of sleeping with her followed by forcing that girl down your devar's throat?)'

Even if you had gotten away with it, would your husband have stolen your speech and narrated it to the groom like Raman did?

Would there be no remorse? Why do we justify Ishita having no shame or embarrassment?

@Nisha - You can call me Priya. I used to live with my parents up until last year and then I had to leave them to pursue my studies. As far as I can tell, I have seen my sister in law's interactions with my parents and her family and if I were to place her in Ishita's shoes she would never do such a thing in a million years 😆. My SIL is an educated working woman and so was my mom until she retired recently. Anyways like the other poster mentioned, it is Ekta's way of saying that she is catering to what is expected of her which is like swallowing a hard pill for people like us. I remember in one of the Koffee with Karan episodes where they questioned about the TRPs of one of her shows and how illogical some of the tracks were she got very upset and said that she is doing exactly what she knows would bring TRPs and if people have problem with it then they can switch off their TV. I thought that was callous and rude yet she is the reigning queen of television. Go figure! However, one good thing she is for sure noteworthy is that her lead pair are always scorching and have sizzling chemistry. Even if they lack in the beginning she makes them work and makes it happen. Just like how we have become suckers for Ishra😆

Well, Ishita did not do wrong, though chose a bit wrong way.
So, no argument on that.
Ishita said sorry to mihir or not, it's like a confusion to me. I assumed she said sorry or felt guilty infront of Mihir when they weren't shown. It's just assumption, so don't jump on me😆. And, we are yet to see Ishita's sorry to Raman or a whole hearted talk where she gives explanation to her actions. Aise, she gave explanation to Mihir that forgetting the past and accepting the sis-bro relationship will spare him and Raman from present tortures. Though she dint know that sis is Shagun, but Mihir's pain is Raman's pain. For me this is obviously a selfish motive of Ishita doing all this drama😆.
I just read Rubi's post. God...she is the best ever in explaining things...positive or negative, her analysis always makes me thing that why I dint think like this. There she said that, first and final time Raman said clearly to Mihir to let Shagun go, he too has let her go and he has progressed in his life. He many time said tp Ishita that Shagun doesn't mean anything to him, most of the times in anger. So, it's rational for Ishita to think that Raman doesn't like Shagun and doesn't want Ishita to be upset about Shagun, that's why he says those. But, for the first time may be (I may be wrong), he said it in a sensible mood and thought to let Shagun go, and that time he dint even see Ishita. This is why Ishita thought, now it's only the genuine him, who said the genuine truth not for her not even for Mihir, just expressed his mind clearly. And, now what's the problem if she calls Raman her Raman as he closed that Shagun chapter forever with a smiling face. There's a difference when he used to say those before from that balcony scene. It's not like that Raman forgave Shagun and that's why Ishita is happy about that Raman became like her, it's about Raman erasing the Shagun forever...a women in his life whom he loved, she doesn't hold any place in his life, it was his expressions of relief along with his words, which made Ishita think that wise.
If Ishita wanted Raman to be like her, she wouldn't have cherished the rain dance moment even when Raman again taunted and shouted at her and made fun of her. She loves Raman the way he is, only thing was missing from this Raman that he isn't open to his feelings. And, he did this in the balcony scene, Ishita knew about his mind status about his past and present. There was only present, there was only Ishita, Ruhi, Adi and his full family, but no Shagun. The insecurity of Ishita about Raman's past kinda vanished by Raman's words. Doesn't that make Raman only her Raman😉??