Rajma Idli Rantings(APOLOGIES VYAS)

I HATE the idea that he can be loveable ONLY IF HE MEETS HER EXPECTATIONS

Very disappointing... Why cant he be the way he wants to be and yet be loved by her? She is cocky, reckless and immature and irresponsible... YET he seems attracted to her

Why should he pander to her so called "superior" expectations?

Why cant he remain flawed?Where is the magic if they all start looking and sounding like Saint Ishita Bhalla? WHAT IS LOVE? Isnt it all about learning to accept the other person the way they are? Is he an alcoholic? Is he unemployed? Is he a bum? Is he a womanizer? Is he a philanderer? Why cant he maintain his character traits? WHY should he tow her line? Who mandated that Ishita is the most rational pragmatic human being? Why didnt she choose to "reform Subbu" and marry him? Why did she give up on him so easy?

She could have spared Raman Bhalla all this unnecessary psychotherapy sessions.

He has expressed displeasure, annoyance, anger, frustration, and sheer dsiappointment, when she brought Param home, when she brought Shagun home, when she forced him to have amoral thoughts about Sanjana. Will she quit now and stop interfering in other people's business? If that were Raman's precondition for becoming "MERI ISHITA?" I doubt it...

I just dont get it. I was OK with Raman and Mihir hating Shagun.⭐️

Ishita's personality is beginning to balloon out of proprtion. Its not love when you change the person completely. Is he only entitled to her lust and love if he acts and talks like her?

What does that make him?

Many words come to mind but wont put it down here.

An HOUR ago, she suspected her husband of having an affair with a teen, and now he is HER RAMAN?😡 Why? Beacuse he looks and acts like her clone?

No longer "YOUR RAMAN?" Mrs Ishita Bhalla?

You bet...

LOVED

Raman Bhalla and Mihir Arora today, even without the emotional sappy exchange in the balcony their bro-mance is quite evident. they share a effortless rhythm.

What an unbelievably good looking guy KP is, I posted elsewhere the color blue was created by God for HIM and HIM alone

I hold out on hope that I will get to see him in blue jeans and white shirt soon

Now coming to today's episdoe, I liked it but felt that it lacked continuity from how Ishita was acting based on her assumption that Raman might have had a relationship with Sanjana. She did not even have a ST that how wrong she was in thinking that way while she was lovingly gazing at Raman whom she called "Mere Raman" today for the first time. As much as I like and want to cherish her statement, this was what was going on in my mind "do din pehle woh katne ko daud thi thi" aaj Raman mere Raman kaise ho gaya? I would have felt better if she had acknowledged her stupidity at least to herself and then said the above.

Raj as Mihir was mindblowing today and he is an underrated actor. He plays his part so well and he is so sincere and genuine in his actions and emotions that you want nothing bad to happen to this guy or to his relationship with Raman. KP as Raman was perfect as usual and nailed every emotion and every expression. I was a little surprised when Raman actually started looking at Shagun's perspective and it was Ishita who made him think that way. If I remember correctly it was Raman who always made it a point to put Shagun down for maintaining a live-in relationship with Ashok and telling her that she is just his girl friend who has no last name. Today, he told Mihir he does not want anyone calling his kids mother out for having an illegitimate relationship. That was a shocker to me. It was a bit odd to see this 180 degree change. Is it because of Ishita's Sangath ka asar? I mean he sounded a tad bit Mahan to me but redeemed it nicely when he said that by giving Sahgun what she wants their lives would become so much better since she will stop bugging them once and for all. That reasoning I liked it and I am good with Raman saying that and not the one above where he was worried about someone else calling her bad names.

Precap was hot where he was getting closer and closer to Ishu and I am pretty sure it will be to get her all sweaty and bothered and then walk away. He is very very good at that. He has done that before too when he confessed his love while treating her broken arm. I kinda like this teasing and I would be glad if he just teases her and leaves her blushing and not taunt her. It's about time they show some cute moments and I believe they have already started feeling comfortable around each other and they should not go back to square one and say "chee". That word from Ishita has a jarring effect on everyone I am pretty sure 😆