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kumi007

@kumi007

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Posted: 11 years ago

#101

Completely agree with you. I loved the scene in the pic. It was fab.

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#102

Originally posted by: venkata

Yeah I think so. They can not show Ishitha so much dumb for sure. If they show like this dumb no viewers will watch.

I so hope you're right...

Edited by GanBarunFan - 11 years ago

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livelytanu

@livelytanu

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Posted: 11 years ago

#103

Awesome post! Agree with you.

I don't even know what is the problem with this Mahan Ishita? She trusts others rather than her own family. She didn't even speak to Raman about that Sanjana thing before trusting Sanjana whom she had met just two days before. But she was accusing Raman in her monologue about him not sharing everything with her. Double standard much.

She deserved this. She embarrassed herself after all.

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-Gan-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#104

Originally posted by: Nisha0604
Ishradivan
Of course not, he is the worst guy on the planet, he needs someone like HIMSELF. Flawed, short tempered, sullen, passionate, emotional, insecure and hot headed.

He doesnt need someone thats an angel, Ishita is an angel that always thinks about "him and his family, his son, his daughter, his ex wife, his ex wife's brother, ex-wife's Mom"

I mean the emotional load she carries is tremendous

She needs to be with someone like herself "larger than life" spiritual noble being... not a flawed, inconsistent, faulty guy like Raman Bhalla that doesnt "understand or respect" her will to do "good"

The way I see is that both are flawed...but both are caring individuals and more importantly both care about each other...who is better than who, it doesn't matter when the unit: couple works; which they do. So Raman will be there for Ishita and vice versa when one falters...that's the character sketch...but the CVs are butchering to create whatever they only know.

Someone wrote about the mature conversations they used to have...maybe time is there for one more...this time Puttar needs to be in the lecturer mode ...and set some ground rules about trust in their relationship...probably that will curb Ishita's next (mis)adventure..this probably will help salvage the butchering of Ishita's characterization ...but then again...that is the logical path...and desi soaps and logic dont meet eye to eye most of the times.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Excellent post.👏 You took the words right out of my mouth. This scene was so symbolic, Raman didn't move his hand but he moved Ishita's hand to meet his. I LOL! so hard when he did that. You go Raman! Left to Ishita she'll forever hide behind the "Ruhi ki ma" tag and once in a while take a peek from behind the curtain and pay a few compliments to Raman with her "mera pati..(this or that)".

Loved your reply...very nicely written.

the part in blue...you're right! That's the need of the hour I guess, Raman has to take the lead and close the 'baggage' gap and protect their relationship.

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Posted: 11 years ago

#106

Originally posted by: Divya1503
Totally agree G di! 👍🏼
N coming to the mahantha!

I was just when Ishita was trying to convince Mihir that Sanjana was his sister! I mean what on earth is wrong with her boss!!

"I'm correct, whatever I'm doing I'm correct, even when what I think/understand/see is not true,I'm still correct, my entire family says they do not recognize that lady, but since I saw the "PROOF", they all are lying...I"M CORRECT"

What was the limit,even Mihika understood that something could be wrong when Mihir was so clear that he doesn't recognize Sanjana, but Ishita!? 😕 I give up!

Divi 🤗 Love your monkeys😳

yup, Ishita's behavior was just mind boggling😕...your part in bold is the perfect description of what she must have been thinking 🤢😆

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Venkata

@venkata

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Posted: 11 years ago

#107

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Loved your reply...very nicely written.

the part in blue...you're right! That's the need of the hour I guess, Raman has to take the lead and close the 'baggage'

Yeahh loved what both of you have said. see befire all this mess this scene was shown and i for sure may be Raman had shared tgis info with her and may be he only wanted Ishitha to invite sanjana in the fuction. I may be wrong but my gut feeling saying that it is a plan of both Raman and Ishita.

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-Gan-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#108

Originally posted by: venkata

Yeahh loved what both of you have said. see befire all this mess this scene was shown and i for sure may be Raman had shared tgis info with her and may be he only wanted Ishitha to invite sanjana in the fuction. I may be wrong but my gut feeling saying that it is a plan of both Raman and Ishita.

I hope it is so...but from Raman's reaction yesterday, it didn't appear to be so...he was exasperated to the point he just gave up and sat down after Shagun's entry...

I dont think he would deliberately try to hijack Mihir's big day... If it is indeed shown like that...that will be twist ka dhamaka😲😆

Edited by GanBarunFan - 11 years ago

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yhm_craze

@yhm_craze

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Posted: 11 years ago

#109

Lovely post and brilliant caps! Thank you!!👏👏 I was going to open a separate topic but there is already so much on the forum on this topic..didnt want to add to the mess 😆...I just had a few questions to ask and would be happy if anyone could answer them for me.

1. Agreed that Mihir and Bhallas have hidden the truth about Mihir's past from the Iyers and it was wrong. But before the court wedding fiasco Mihir did mention that he has a mother and he is not with her anymore and after the court wedding fiasco it was known to Iyers that he has a sister too and that he is not ready to disclose the details of his family. Then if it bothered the Iyers so much why did they agree to still go ahead with the wedding? Mihika could have taken some time to try and convince Mihir to atleast tell her about his family and she could have backed out if it bothered her so much. Was it right to make Mihir and the Bhallas believe that they dont bother about Mihir's past and then go behind his back and try to investigate and then bring out in the open in front of all that too without even confirming Mihir's side of the story in all this?

2. The main point of discussion is that Raman is not open about his past. But how could he tell Ishita about Sanjana when she was not a part of his past in the first place??? and regarding Shagun Ishita knows about her and that he has to tolerate Shagun for Adi's sake. If it bothers Ishita then why doesnt she tell Raman so? She brought Shagun home saying she is Ruhi's mother and not a stranger. But when Raman agreed to let Shagun stay back for Vandu-Bala's party for Adi's sake she was clearly not happy. Is she sure about her feelings for Shagun in the first place? Mind you he never invited Adi for Vandu-Bala's party since it was not his party to invite whoever he likes. After the mess that Raman created in the accident track he has not gone about looking for Shagun unless she creates trouble for him has he? It is always for Adi that he has to tolerate her and by now Ishita knows it right? Ishita was not open about her feelings for Subbu till Raman actually went out and asked her straight if she was over him. And Raman can never let go of Shagun the way Ishita has let go of Subbu because of Adi and Ruhi. Would the scenario have been same if Adi was with Raman too the way Ruhi is? I dont think so but unfortunately for Raman that is not the case now..and we all love to hate Adi but being a father he cannot just let go of his responsibilities towards Adi.

3. Lets still believe that Raman is not open about his past. Still if Ishita does not know about Raman's past other than Shagun then even Raman does not know about her other than Subbu. Tomorrow any random guy may walk up to Raman and tell him that he was a part of Ishita's past..should Raman believe him? Yes Raman clammed up whenever Ishita asked about Mihir's sister...still where does that prove the reason for hiding? He did try telling Mihir in front of her to tell all the truth after the court marriage fiasco. It was not his secret to tell then what could he do?

4. I did not understand the way logic seemed to make a fleeting appearance in Ishita's mind but immediately made a hasty exit too . Raman did tell her to just give Mihir some time and space. She could have said no if she did not agree to it. Again when Mihika showed her the bro-sis infamous pic in the bench scene Ishita herself told her to give some time and space to Mihir and he will disclose everything...then what happened? Again when she came to know about Sanjana and was discussing it with Mihika she did say that they should not do anything in haste till they know for sure the actual reason for the bro-sis estrangement..then immediately she decided to invite Sanjana to Vandu-Bala's anniversary party! 😕

5. How does the bro-sis pic that Sanjana flaunted in front of Ishita prove that Raman was the cause of their rift? that he dumped Sanjana? So clearly its not about trusting his feelings for Shagun..she does not trust the man at all? She looked like she agreed when Sanjana told her that Raman cannot sustain any relationship. And to think she herself convinced Ruhi that Raman loves her the most 😕. In a moment it looked like she brought Raman in the same category as Param 😆. So confidently she declared in front of the likes of Pammi aunty that her husband ditched Sanjana and caused a rift between the bro-sis...all on the basis of that blasted pic 😭. And now when Raman blasts her he will be bashed for yelling at her in front of all 😆. Poor guy looked heartbroken there 😭

6. And finally I am quite appalled at Mihika's role in this entire mess 😲. CVs have always established that she is spirited confident girl then she should have been the jagga jasoos here. And she was with Ishita all the way yet when the moment of reckoning came she did not stand by her and left her akka alone to face the music? 😲😆

OMG that was a long rant😳...but had to get it out😛..now waiting for answers...please somebody..anybody 😭😭😆

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 11 years ago

#110

I think yesterday's epi was needed to show that Ishita's mahanta at all time, Samaj Sevak at unneeded times is not needed. She needs to realize that she is not the only person to take on each and every problem and attempt to solve it.

I hope with this we see more trust between ISHRA, less nite time involvements and more focussing on her own family.