'Have you lost your mind??!!'

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I agree with Raman.

People with Mahaan-ta syndrome often miss the fine, rather bold print that stares them in their face. In their drive to prove that they are doing right, they do more
harm than they do good. Why force something down someone's throat without knowing all the facts ? And why oh why choose a location or timing that is the worst possible under the scenario.

Of all the people that she could have reached out to, she had to pick the red herring Shagun planted. I agree with Shagun's "samaj sevak" tag about Ishita.Well as the adage goes, charity does begin at home. The people she needed to trust, she didn't ...this time the fault is all hers and only hers...Ishita.

The guy who even from a distance understood what she wanted, even something her own dad couldn't..needs a benefit of doubt. needs her complete trust.

The following picture somehow..to me ...symbolizes the relationship of Ishita Raman. Need to close the gap now, Ishita. Time is now...







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Nikki_Titli thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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perfect post...i srsly cant recognise this mahaan soul-Ishita anymore...

but BANG ON ur point on Raman understanding her evn her own dad couldn...tht scene may look simple-bt it spoke volumes n i SO LOVED it..!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful written post and completely agree with u..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post..I loved the symbolizing u mentioned😃😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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this mahanta bug really needs to be treated- where's that mature samajdar ishita off to? leave others alone woman!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

perfect post...i srsly cant recognise this mahaan soul-Ishita anymore...

but BANG ON ur point on Raman understanding her evn her own dad couldn...tht scene may look simple-bt it spoke volumes n i SO LOVED it..!!



Thanks! 😳

Yes I loved that scene as also the havan scene ..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Very well said..
Picture is perfect 😊
Just unbelievable someone trusting outsider so blindly... That too wen she saw param with her..there should hv some doubt...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i so agree with you... its high time Ishita should do some wise stuff and bridge the gap between herself and raman... 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rutu83

this mahanta bug really needs to be treated- where's that mature samajdar ishita off to? leave others alone woman!



yes..ever since she brought Param back home and brought Shagun in their bedroom...I can't relate to this Ishita. She is good at heart..but she used to be the smart sensitive one too...that seems to have gone missing for a while now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Bang on post...loved that symbolism very much!

she should have openly asked him about what Sanjana told her. She blindly believed Sanjana just because of the photo and doubted Raman. Why didnt she think that there must be a big grave reason behind Raman hiding the truth about MIhir's sister?
Added to all that, she should have discussed Sanjana's story with Raman and Mihir in private before getting her into a wedding function. She didnt even think for a moment that it was her sister's wedding related function and any drama would spoil her happiness.

Even if Raman had a past affair, she should have confronted him about it openly. why does she expect that like her, he should also be open about his past affairs...all people arent the same...some may not be comfortable discussing it and wants it to be a closed chapter always. So just because he didnt tell her, getting angry, stopping talks with him is really silly...
moreover, they dont even share a true husband wife relationship...she should first work on that and then fight with Raman for not being honest and open to her!
Some things are best left untouched and Ishita has to really get that into her head!

BTW, that moment when Raman closed the gap between their hands was the only best moment for me in the episode. it also symbolizes that he wants to close all the gaps in their relationship while she holds onto some past messy problems and doesnt want to move forward!


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