'Have you lost your mind??!!' - Page 12

Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Very well written ⭐️

Trust and transparency are taken for a toss, when you expect your partner to trust you and confide in you, you have to do the same. Ishita was having monologue of Raman not trusting her and confiding in her, but that is exactly what she is doing, not trusting or confiding in him, with regards to Sanjan being Raman's past., Sanjana being mihir's sister or Sanjana Parmeet alliance .

In the past too, Raman told her to share anything with him so that he can handle it, during Parmeet track where he was advancing Ishu, and during Romie--Bala fiasco, both times he said that she talk to him whatever it is, it's always better to deal in the early stages rather than wait till things go out of hand and there is always a right place and right time for anything.

Today, the occasion was absolutely NOT the right place/time to call Sanjana, after such a bad past and separation, no two people will exchange pleasantries to be called in for a function or even for a wedding anniversary of Bala-Vandu.

Ishita has seen Parmeet-Sanjana couple of times, not once she thought over the nexus.

Respecting other's space and privacy, Mihir has been very clear about his sister, that he doesn't want to talk about her period. Ishu should have respected his space and privacy. Intrusion into someone's past or private life is not appreciated.

Shagun easily understood Ishu's nature and used it against her !

And you have already mentioned the two imp points of the episode, Raman understanding from a distance what she wanted and the other one is closing of gap by Raman,, while Ishu has been hesitant/apprehensive/thoughtful, which is very symbolic :D :D

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yhm craze,

I am unable to quote... I fully agree with whatever you wrote. Raman had no clue about Sanjana how can he claim to have had an affair with her? I just dont get Ishita. Its been ages since Ive watched a typical Ekta soap, so I had almost forgotten how cocky and unnecessarily interfering her leading ladies can be. Bang on... on Ishita equating Raman with Param. It didnt take her a minute to lose the trust of 7 months in a heart beat. There will be noone else in her life other than Subbu ofcourse. Ishita is virginal and pure. She happens to be enduring the torture and committed a mighty sacrifice in marrying a man like Raman Bhalla.

I never thought of Mihika's role... thanks for pointing it out. Its been a HUGE disappointment as well. The feisty articulate confident girl is now a doormat in front of her Akka. Hope they dont morph Ishita into a larger than life creature that is constantly on the look out for trouble

I was totally disgusted with the way Ruhi gave her "blessing" to help Ishita snoop around. As if she needed some encouragement!!!!!!

The only way CVs can redeem themselves at this point is if Raman takes the lead, and quits talking with her for a week, and she makes REAL and GENUINE attempts to woo him, instead of giving a "mere pati" bhashan to Mrs Bhalla. Going off to a button sewing class for "mere pati"

I find the FIRE missing in her attempts to show her attraction/love. Not only is KP a better actor, I am able to see a sincerity and passion ooze from every attempt Raman Bhalla has displayed in order to convince her this marriage is for keeps. 😳😳She DOES things for him all the time, she made the enormous sacrifice of marrying the guy etc etc etc... but her attempts dont have the passion in them... the craving the urge to want to please...

Not sure if its lack of emoting skills or the way Ishita Iyer-Bhalla is supposed to be... a less emotional, less needy, less spontaneous person.

My opinion gets a stimulus also from the fact that even when she makes a big deal about taking cooking lessons, she combines it with a Sooraj Barjatya mission of uniting Sanjana and Mihir🤢

It completely diluted and gutted purpose of the whole cooking class IMO. saving grace was her flirtatious expresswhen she actually fed him the palak paneer that nite PRIVATELY... 😳and did not end the dinner with a "Raman main aapki biwi hoon aur aapke liye main Sanjana ki sachai saamne laakar rahoongi" or some such drivel🤢

Phew! for that Ishita Bhalla!👏

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Yhm craze,

I personally loved Ishita during the accident track, she was soft, insecure, vulnerable, timid and helpless... the way she cried when he said he wanted to take Ruhi and go off on that picnic. Might have easily been her best scene thus far. Every time she has interactwith him privately, on the famous bench or during the picnic or during the button scene or the lying about scraping the car, or waiting up for him when he returns home late, I notice a certain sponateity in the way she talks to him. She LOOKS and acts younger and eager to please. I love that impulsiveness and childishness and crave for that.