Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 8

Originally posted by: kuhu_d

after seeing today's episode, i think

-it was not shoguns plan to come back to raman (she was hardly in sense)

-ashok cares for shagun (kabab mein hadi to nahin rahengi ms apshagun)

in general i believe we all overreacted a bit, as we didn't know that ishita tried to bring shogun back n was thinking of getting her to her mama's place.

on the whole yes, no normal person would have done what ishita did in real life, but i strongly believe the whole situation was created to make ishran realise that

-raman is over shogun

-ishita has feelings for raman

i strongly believe, that todays episode was really good n meaningful, at least the viewers understood how much ishita loves n cares for raman. n raman could not sleep, becoz he has moved on in his life n he really does not want to have shoguns shadow on his life.

Originally posted by: v_ani_patel

I too think v overreacted ..here ishita didn't bring shagun to bhalla house to give her entry in Raman's life...nor shagun is interested to come back in Raman's life..she wants ashok and because of only him she did all talli drama..at least in present condition..

Today we get to see Raman's POV openly...and ishita has to realize that raman is completely moved on ..she still thinks that raman is not...hope CVs show it properly..otherwise why to do all this drama..I wonder if subconsciously Ishu wanted to be sure that Raman didn't have any trace of his past feelings for Shagun.

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Siree

I am sorry don't agree with this

Ruhi is different thing

She loves ishita and gives her love and respect

Shagun has treated her like dirt and garbage

Still she choose to help her

Shagun is shameless

You shouldn't take chance with ppl like her

She will put a dagger in ishita heart for this good deed soon

We can justify everything she does

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Originally posted by: kt25

Absolutely right Vyas. I see posts where people say that wouldn't Raman have done the same if he was the one to see Shagun on the road in her drunken stupor. Yes, he would have done the same but not talked to her like how Ishita was reasoning with her like as though she was talking to a 6 year old Ruhi. He would have given her his piece of mind telling her exactly the way it is and making it loud and clear that she is an irresponsible mother who does not have an inkling of concern for her son who is all alone at home and might be worried sick for her. Being the guy he is he would have fought with the guard at Khanna house and might have dumped her in the couch after giving Ashok some galliyan LOL. I will give it to Ishita that she could not have done that and hence she brought her home. If Raman would have not been successful in leaving her at Ashok's house he would have brought her home to his house but would have put her in the couch and would never take her to his bedroom and would not have created a situation where Ishita has to sleep on the couch just so Shagun could take their bed. He would leave it up to Ishita to decide where she wants Shagun to sleep. I beleive he is that much sensitive to take her feelings into consideration given the fact that their relationship has undergone a good bit of transformation where they can relate at an emotional level. Before he would not have cared for her feelings but now he knows enough not to hurt Ishita and the vice versa should be the same for Ishita which is what the CVs fail to convey in her recent actions where she makes hasty decisions without taking Raman and his whole family in account whether it is bringing Param home or Shagun home.

Agreed that she brought Shagun home because there was no where else she could take her. As I had said in another post, Shagun was in a state where she had no idea where she is or with whom she is and she was ready to sleep on the road. Given the circumstances, Ishita should have let Shagun sleep on the couch in the living room or taken her to Ruhi's room. That is the only complaint I have. Just like Ishita, Raman has helped Shagun when she was stuck on the road during a roit and has taken her to Ahsok's place on humanitarian grounds. Ishita did not have that choice but what bother's everyone here in the forum including me is that she doing all the service like taking her to their bedroom and covering her up with the blanket and asking her to sleep. The same bed that she does not even share with her husband and knowing how the memories still haunt Raman she was inconsiderate to take Shagun to their bedroom. Besides helping currently homeless Shagun, she also has the responsibility of a daughter-in-law and a wife which I believe she failed miserably by taking things in her own hand and making decisions for the whole family. Raman is not heartless, he would have calmed down a little bit if she had taken him into her confidence and told him ahead of time by calling him prior to bringing Shagun home since she had no where to go. He might have yelled at her in the beginning but would have given in eventually.

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

<font size="3">Pros:</font>

<font size="3">Mrs Bhalla totally nailed it when she said Ishita is going to pay for it dearly. Ishita Bhalla lacks passion. She is a half sanyasi, she is better off living her life as a jogan/sirf Ruhi ke liye Ma.</font>

<font size="3">I have begun to love Simmi. What she is she is... no cloaks. Every home with an Ishita needs a Simmi</font>

<font size="3">Raman's frustration was done beautifully. His line "It took me six years to get her out of my life AND OUT OF MY HEART" THERE! He said it! To all those that feel Ishita Bhalla is not getting any hints, here is the biggest one.</font>

<font size="3">KP was amazing... so fabulous</font>

<font size="3">Happy I didn't have to be subject to Ishita Bhalla's torturous speech about how "insensitive husbands are" because Raman didn't care for Shagun</font>

<font size="3">Father-son conversation was damn cute</font>

<font size="3">Raman's restlessness was adorable, when he said "I will apologize now but kill her in the morning" was to DIE FOR. KP does that with aplomb</font>

<font size="3">I have lingering hope that Ishita will woo Raman and will apologize, but that wont happen I know. She will caress the name plate when she is alone or give a bhashan unnecessarily at some random conference instead.</font>

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<font size="3">Cons:</font>

<font size="3">Ishita had NO REMORSE. MANY MANY times during the Adi track Raman would cringe in her presence, he has been extremely generous in saying he is sorry and in apologizing. She did not say ONE SORRY to the guy today. Its his EX-wife, if he doesn't care she is left on the street why should Ishita?</font>

<font size="3">She was extremely nonchalant when she asked him to let her and Shagun enter. Like she really didn't care what Raman's opinion was?</font>

<font size="3">AFTER she made Shagun comfortable, there was not one apology or mellowing of body language, no plea in her eyes.</font>

<font size="3">Tomorrow when Raman will lose his temper she will jhaado a bhashan and walk away</font>

<font size="3">Ishita couldn't find one vacant hotel room in Delhi?</font>

<font size="3">Anita totally OTT, sorry, but she was...</font>

<font size="3">Bringing water as the dutiful wife made me sick. Like ALL she cares about is if her husband is fed and hydrated?</font>

<font size="3">Ishita has not only humiliated the institution of marriage, she also has insulted Raman by making him endure Ashok.

Bringing Delhi's crime rate into play IMO was unnecessary. Shagun voluntarily got drunk and misbehaved and was kicked out. Its an insult to all those girls that work in call centers and return home by public transport and encounter the fate. While I dont want her to endanger her virtue, I really dont care for Ishita's emotional blackmail using Delhi's crime rates

P.S. Shagun slept with Ashok while married to Raman. Thats a crime too, I would love to hear Ishita justify that😃

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<font size="3">What a sad sad day YHM has come to</font>

<font size="3">I hope this script change is going to cost Ekta Kapoor. I cannot imagine any EDUCATED urban, upper middle class working wife in Delhi, in her 20s or 30s wanting to bring her husband's ex-wife to her husband's bed.</font>

<font size="3">Ishita Iyer has long disappeared. The caricature we see is merely a very common avatar of Ekta's other leading ladies.</font>

<font size="3">Most startling shameful conclusion of the day: "Ishita's urge to help Shagun. It overrode everything. Despite being fully aware of every hurt and pain Shagun has caused her "mera pati ". As if all of Raman's pain is immaterial faced with her urge for somenari mukti aandolan.</font>