Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 7

Originally posted by: Tanyaarora11

I agree.
Ishita bringing Shagun home was a disastrous mistake by the CVs. But thing which is bothering me is that the set up was decent, she tried all alternatives, Ashok's house, Amma appa. It was to justify her stance of bringing her home but I agree with you they should have shown her dilemma and her state of mind and I would have loved to see her sorrow and pain in watching Shagun at her bed in their bedroom, Raman's frustration was correctly portrayed, would have loved to see Ishita's as well. She needed to have a sense of ownership towards her husband and their room, but nothing of that sort was shown. She was just silent, that bit irked me. My point is what was the need to put this track, it doesn't really gain anything, had they shown Ishita's possessiveness and fear, would have made a lot more sense, but she's portrayed to be too maahan and selfless which is so unreal.

Originally posted by: Tanyaarora11

I agree.
Ishita bringing Shagun home was a disastrous mistake by the CVs. But thing which is bothering me is that the set up was decent, she tried all alternatives, Ashok's house, Amma appa. It was to justify her stance of bringing her home but I agree with you they should have shown her dilemma and her state of mind and I would have loved to see her sorrow and pain in watching Shagun at her bed in their bedroom, Raman's frustration was correctly portrayed, would have loved to see Ishita's as well. She needed to have a sense of ownership towards her husband and their room, but nothing of that sort was shown. She was just silent, that bit irked me. My point is what was the need to put this track, it doesn't really gain anything, had they shown Ishita's possessiveness and fear, would have made a lot more sense, but she's portrayed to be too maahan and selfless which is so unreal.

Originally posted by: Shanig123

<font color="#0000cc">Your Mum is absolutely correct .No woman on earth in proper sense will do what she did . I dislike Ishita's character and have no idea on what grounds CV's are doing this . Any secret in the house she is the first to find if anyone needs help she is the first to run like bionic woman . all this is good in terms of Humanity and nature . but sadly she ignores and dis respects her husbands feelings . come of it who on earth will invite a rapist home when you have a growing up daughter in the house does it make sense that she fought and got angry and left the house and wanted justice ? why and who would invite trouble on there own like this I have no idea . </font>

Originally posted by: Shanig123

Your Mum is absolutely correct .No woman on earth in proper sense will do what she did . I dislike Ishita's character and have no idea on what grounds CV's are doing this . Any secret in the house she is the first to find if anyone needs help she is the first to run like bionic woman . all this is good in terms of Humanity and nature . but sadly she ignores and dis respects her husbands feelings . come of it who on earth will invite a rapist home when you have a growing up daughter in the house does it make sense that she fought and got angry and left the house and wanted justice ? why and who would invite trouble on there own like this I have no idea .

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Now I see lots of posts defending ishita actions saying Raman also did something similar

But as they say

Two wrongs don't make a right

If Raman jumped into a well then ishita also doesn't have to jump into same damn well

And as they say timing is important

Wet is ishita who has feelings for Raman and disdain for Shagun shouldn't have done it

Tthia mahaanta route doesn't suit her
And bring person non grata to family house is not sensible

Originally posted by: venkata

Here the basic thing everyone is forgeting is Raman did not helped Shagun he was just protecting his son for the mistake which was done by airhead and Ashok. See i will not have any problem if Ishita would have one call and ask Raman abt his opinion. She knows how Shagun is and by now she understand that every member of bhalla family hates that lady. You did mistake and you have to accept it.

Pros:

Mrs Bhalla totally nailed it when she said Ishita is going to pay for it dearly. Ishita Bhalla lacks passion. She is a half sanyasi, she is better off living her life as a jogan/sirf Ruhi ke liye Ma.

I have begun to love Simmi. What she is she is... no cloaks. Every home with an Ishita needs a Simmi

Raman's frustration was done beautifully. His line "It took me six years to get her out of my life AND OUT OF MY HEART" THERE! He said it! To all those that feel Ishita Bhalla is not getting any hints, here is the biggest one.

KP was amazing... so fabulous

Happy I didn't have to be subject to Ishita Bhalla's torturous speech about how "insensitive husbands are" because Raman didn't care for Shagun

Father-son conversation was damn cute

Raman's restlessness was adorable, when he said "I will apologize now but kill her in the morning" was to DIE FOR. KP does that with aplomb

I have lingering hope that Ishita will woo Raman and will apologize, but that wont happen I know. She will caress the name plate when she is alone or give a bhashan unnecessarily at some random conference instead.

Cons:

Ishita had NO REMORSE. MANY MANY times during the Adi track Raman would cringe in her presence, he has been extremely generous in saying he is sorry and in apologizing. She did not say ONE SORRY to the guy today. Its his EX-wife, if he doesn't care she is left on the street why should Ishita?

She was extremely nonchalant when she asked him to let her and Shagun enter. Like she really didn't care what Raman's opinion was?

AFTER she made Shagun comfortable, there was not one apology or mellowing of body language, no plea in her eyes.

Tomorrow when Raman will lose his temper she will jhaado a bhashan and walk away

Ishita couldn't find one vacant hotel room in Delhi?

Anita totally OTT, sorry, but she was...

Bringing water as the dutiful wife made me sick. Like ALL she cares about is if her husband is fed and hydrated?

Ishita has not only humiliated the institution of marriage, she also has insulted Raman by making him endure Ashok.

I hope this script change is going to cost Ekta Kapoor. I cannot imagine any EDUCATED urban, upper middle class working wife in Delhi, in her 20s or 30s wanting to bring her husband's ex-wife to her husband's bed.

Ishita Iyer has long disappeared. The caricature we see is merely a very common avatar of Ekta's other leading ladies.

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Now I see lots of posts defending ishita actions saying Raman also did something similar

But as they say

Two wrongs don't make a right

If Raman jumped into a well then ishita also doesn't have to jump into same damn well

And as they say timing is important

Wet is ishita who has feelings for Raman and disdain for Shagun shouldn't have done it

Tthia mahaanta route doesn't suit her
And bring person non grata to family house is not sensible