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Posted: 11 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: kt25

As I had mentioned in your yesterday's post, I have been hesitant to watch today's episode as well but I am glad I watched it. It was very good and despite being high on drama I thorughly enjoyed it and it was perfect end to this week long mind numbing episodes. Thank God, they showed some rationale behind Ishita bringing Shagun to Bhalla household. It's all fine and dandy but it is wrong in so many levels to take Shagun to her bedroom when she could have been allright sleeping on the couch in the living room. Shagun was completely drunk and had no clue where she is or with whom she is and hence there was no need for Ishita to treat her like a guest. Even guests don't get to sleep in someone's bedroom they only get to use guest room if there is one or stay in the living room. Raman and Mr.Bhalla scene was very cute and I loved the fact Raman was listening to his dad and was ready to say sorry even if it wasn't his fault. That was very sweet of him to be so concerned for her and wanting to say sorry to patch things up. Leave it to Ishita and her mahanta she can make even a saint get mad and go crazy. Raman's anger was totally justified since it brought back all the memories of the past that he was trying to bury the minute he saw Shagun at his doorsteps and that too sleeping in his bed. Ishita was so busy trying to help the currently homeless Shagun that she forgot to think about what her husband might be going through emotionally seeing his ex in his house and that too in his bed. Badly done Ishita! He is deprived of his own bed and gets to sleep in an uncomfortable couch where his back is still hurting from her mother's kand. What greatness did she see in Shagun that she gets the bed and Raman is forced to sacrifice his bed to sleep on the couch? I am done ranting and special thanks to you Vyas for this thread where I can rant away 😃. I can only hope that she learns something from this act of hers and atleast take Raman into her confidence going forward. At the end of the day, what Raman thinks is what matters and besides herself, Ruhi and Raman should be her priority and she should get that straight.


Param is mindblowing when it comes to kameenapan. He chose the right set of words to ignite fire by calling Ashok and telling him that Shagun is sleeping in Raman's bed and left out all the other details as to she was drunk and Ishita brought her home leading to Raman sleeping on the couch. Job well done. This is what you get by bringing the kameena home and Param seems to be having a gala time with Ishita's acts. What is the rush to get Mi-Mi get married in court? All the parallel/side characters get more time/space than the leads. For this drama, DT had to sacrifice her calendar shoot. Poor girl! her time would have been worthwhile if she had gone to Jordan instead of this mind numbing track. But it is really commendable that she takes this show seriously and the CV's should make use of her fully by giving some decent tracks where her potential could be put to full use.


More drama in store for Monday with Ashok showing up at Bhallas and Mrs. Iyer is also there to spice things up. This time I want Mrs. Iyer to talk some sense into Ishita and tell her that she cannot make decisions on her own. I was hoping that she would do so when she brought Param home but I guess no one told her that it was Ishita who brought him home and not anyone from the Bhalla household. Atleast, this time I want her to know if she doesn't from Mrs.Bhalla or Simmi or Raman. One of them should make her aware that it was she who brings all the trouble makers home in the name of humanity.



Priya

Excellent post

You have described it perfectly

Yes it is all and well

Whatever ishita did was perfect and justified by writers

But they should think what they are showing

Bringing ex wife home was not acceptable

And on top of that ishita who has been treated like dirt doing this was not acceptable

Like you said

What Raman thinks should matter

She should put her family Raman and Ruhi first then try to help others

Lets see where it goes

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Posted: 11 years ago
#52
I am thoroughly loving the sensible reply's here from everyone. Extremely good discussion to read 👍🏼
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Posted: 11 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

Today's episode was probably the best of the week (but definitely nowhere close to previous YHM standards)

I liked the fact that they showed Ishita going to Ashok's house first, thinking about taking her to her mother's house first but I still cannot digest her taking Shagun to the bedroom.

Mrs. Bhalla was bang on and looks like what she said is an indication of what we might see in the future.

What annoyed me the most was Ishita constantly trying to justify her act but not trying to understand what Raman or the rest of the Bhalla's felt. And even if she did - it wasn't shown well. Ishita has to get out of this "I'm right" mode to realizing that sometime even the right actions can have unwanted consequences.

I think its very interesting that Mihika is taking something as a "court marriage" lightly and wasn't even planning on telling her parents or relatives. I get that she doesn't want to make a big deal out of it but not even informing them seemed weird.

Param does what Param does best - he just knows what to do at the right time.

P/S: At some point, I would at least like to see Ishita apologize for hurting Raman by bringing Shagun home and not consulting with him beforehand.




Well yes ishita has to get off I am right mode

She should realise what she did was wrong

And try to apologise

Anyway no major expectations

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Posted: 11 years ago
#54
@ Vyas yeh even i too like Ishu but past 2 weeks have been horrible and i am on raman side this time.
I don't know but mujhey tou raman and Ishita duno hi psycho lagtey hain. Aik main dangerous hed tak anger hai tou dusrey hain extreme hed tak goodness. Goodness and Anger both are necessary as well as too much of it is dangerous. I think that's the reason sometimes we enjoy them and sometimes we dislike them.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: venkata

Just saw episode. Happy that story is moving a little bit.

First complain to writer. Please kindly watch wha t are you writing. Simmi dialog to Raman regarding taking care of your two wife is totally wrong. Here i do not understand why simmi and param has to get involved in every matter of Raman. I never involve myself in brother married life.

Ishita i do not understand what should i say. It is very difficult to say whatever she did is write or wrong. But if she would have called Raman and took his opineion it would have been good. But madam on the mission of becoming punching bag😃. No one can stop her😆.

Raman by today episode it is very clear that he is fully accpted this new relationship and accepted Ishita as his wife. Lets see how he is going to confess.

Mrs Bhalla loved her. Though she is angry on madam she indirctky shown her concern.

Precap look pretty scary as it is difficult to bear Amma.

Have a nice weakend.



Well simmi and pervert are just trying to settle scores with ishita

Agree with you writers need to watch what they are writing

They have to tone down drama
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Posted: 11 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: paru_rox



Vyas ... I did not hear Simmo-Pervy ki prem katha ... will see it if I get the strength to stomach it.

But seriously, Simmo of all ppl cannot judge Ishita. I understand the entire family's concern but Simmo ...nope she gave up those rights long time ago.


Someone needs to gag that girl. She spews utter nonsense. I 😆 when she accused Ishu of using the Bhalla residence like a dharmasala, the irony of it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: felciya

Raman was fidgeting around the hall for Ishu was nice.On top of it senior Bhalla gave a valueable piece of his mind to his son .That was a sensible advice loved it.It would be better Ishu could ask either Raman or Miku or Ashok for help she knew very well about the bhallas didnot like shagun They had a valid reason for disliking her.Toshji Raman even Simmi too was right in their place n their reactions were justifiable .Raman understood her n didnot scold her much.Ishu aaj kal bahut man mani kar rahi hai. She is behaving like a typical tv bahu not like a real mature bahu n hurting her beloved ones.She took important decisions without elders n hubbys consent. Such mey punjabion ka dil bahut bada hai sahan kar rahe hai ex n current bahu ko bhi. It was too much to take shagun to her bedroom. couch was better or she could sleep with Ruhi.Param was throughly enjoying the situation n informed shaguns where abouts to Ashok .



Yes agree with you

She has to stop taking unilateral decisions

She should ask for help from her sister or Raman

Bringing her home is not a great solution
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Posted: 11 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

@ Vyas yeh even i too like Ishu but past 2 weeks have been horrible and i am on raman side this time.

I don't know but mujhey tou raman and Ishita duno hi psycho lagtey hain. Aik main dangerous hed tak anger hai tou dusrey hain extreme hed tak goodness. Goodness and Anger both are necessary as well as too much of it is dangerous. I think that's the reason sometimes we enjoy them and sometimes we dislike them.



Moderation is required

Too much of anything is dangerous
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Posted: 11 years ago
#59
I agree.
Ishita bringing Shagun home was a disastrous mistake by the CVs. But thing which is bothering me is that the set up was decent, she tried all alternatives, Ashok's house, Amma appa. It was to justify her stance of bringing her home but I agree with you they should have shown her dilemma and her state of mind and I would have loved to see her sorrow and pain in watching Shagun at her bed in their bedroom, Raman's frustration was correctly portrayed, would have loved to see Ishita's as well. She needed to have a sense of ownership towards her husband and their room, but nothing of that sort was shown. She was just silent, that bit irked me. My point is what was the need to put this track, it doesn't really gain anything, had they shown Ishita's possessiveness and fear, would have made a lot more sense, but she's portrayed to be too maahan and selfless which is so unreal.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Your Mum is absolutely correct .No woman on earth in proper sense will do what she did . I dislike Ishita's character and have no idea on what grounds CV's are doing this . Any secret in the house she is the first to find if anyone needs help she is the first to run like bionic woman . all this is good in terms of Humanity and nature . but sadly she ignores and dis respects her husbands feelings . come of it who on earth will invite a rapist home when you have a growing up daughter in the house does it make sense that she fought and got angry and left the house and wanted justice ? why and who would invite trouble on there own like this I have no idea .

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