My questions to Raman his defenders and writers

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Indomitable

@Indomitable

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
Well here are my questions to Raman his defenders and writers of show so here it goes

Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth welli know things were bitter then between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can atleast try to remember now

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident

What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos

Another thing added-in today's episode where Raman is trying to confirm whether Ishita has witnessed Adi driving the car he thinks in his mind that "Ishita ne nahi dekha hoga nahi toh woh bakti" i mean what kind of language he uses. No repentence at all. I hate this guy to the core coz whatever bad has happened in his life it's no way related with Ishu/Ruhi or any of his family members then how cum he always disrespects/ taunts & looses his temper on Ishita without her fault even shows his frustation on that innocent Ruhi. Such a hypocrite. Do hell with ur Adi / Shagun. U don't deserve such great souls Ishu/Ruhi. Shagun & Adi are perfect to bend u.😡 And i hate Ishu understanding his troubles & forgiving him for his bitter words, taunts & accusations which shakens her self respect all the time. In a way she is also committing a crime by forgiving such a head strong creep...

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Tanyaarora11
He ruins Ruhi's dinner plans for Aditya. ( when he made Ishita apologise to Adi )
He forcefully separates Ruhi from Ishita and takes her on a picnic unwillingly for Aditya
He finds Sheila ki jawani as a tutor for Ruhi and The great Bala for Aditya. :P :P :P
He remembers Aditya's weight when he was some grams, but has no such memories for Ruhi.
He scolds Ruhi and takes out his anger on that angel and that son which actually deserves some bashing up, he quietly listens to everything he says.
I am a second child and my parents love me the same, even if they don't which is definitely not the case but still they never ever let that reflect upon their kids., this shit increases sibling rivalry.
CV's really need to stop this or if they really want to show that then please equate Adi Jhaap with Ruhi Jhaap!
That we can handle.

brilliant points Tanya

I need to change my post title

My ten questions to cvs defenders and Raman haha

You have made even better points

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Tanyaarora11

@Tanyaarora11

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
brilliant points Tanya

I need to change my post title

My ten questions to cvs defenders and Raman haha

You have made even better points

Hahahaah! Thank you buddy!
I really wish CV's read your post and make the necessary changes, it is actually quite frustrating to watch this shit.

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Tanyaarora11

Hahahaah! Thank you buddy!
I really wish CV's read your post and make the necessary changes, it is actually quite frustrating to watch this shit.

non worries

Yes Raman and ishita talking about Ruhi birth would be nice

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Sandysprings

@Sandysprings

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#25

At least with ishita he has to discuss about ruhi's birth and some stuff (as much as he remember) because ishu doesn't know it ..she is ruhi's mom..but no...his Adi jaap starts always...

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Well Vyas you have asked some valid questions.

Why does Raman not remember Ruhi's birth with the same feelings.

I believe that Raman associates the birth of Adi from the good time he had with Shagun. That said as a father to be partial to a child just to remember the good time with your wife belittles the importance of a second child and that just goes to show Raman only laments his loss more than the gift of a beautiful daughter.

First or second or any other reason there is no good reason for a parent to show favouritism for one child over another.

And Raman has failed as a father from the time Ruhi was born as we have seen how he treated her before Ishtia came to smooth out their differences.

It is not only unfair how Raman has treated Ruhi but when Ruhi grows up and sees this

side of her father she will not forgive Raman easily and may destroy a bond that is very important in a girls life to have a special connection with her father.

And yes, Raman was emotionally blackmailing Ishita by fondly remembering Adi .

It was sneaky and low of Raman to use that tactic to sway Ishita's decision just to gain

sympathy for his rotten son.

Here again Raman tries emotional manipulation rather than being honest with Ishita.

I do not know how many more ways he will insult Ishita's intelligence.

The the expression on his face is one of triumph of knowing how to push Ishita's buttons to get want he wants from her without taking responsibility for all the mistakes he has done to date.

Raman needs to be a man and own up to his short comings before he can be the hero in his daughter's and Ishita's life.

Right now he needs to look for a small cup of water to drown himself . He must surely feel that small.

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BombayTroll

@BombayTroll

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Dolly-heart
Well Vyas you have asked some valid questions.


Why does Raman not remember Ruhi's birth with the same feelings.


I believe that Raman associates the birth of Adi from the good time he had with Shagun. That said as a father to be partial to a child just to remember the good time with your wife belittles the importance of a second child and that just goes to show Raman only laments his loss more than the gift of a beautiful daughter.


First or second or any other reason there is no good reason for a parent to show favouritism for one child over another.


And Raman has failed as a father from the time Ruhi was born as we have seen how he treated her before Ishtia came to smooth out their differences.


It is not only unfair how Raman has treated Ruhi but when Ruhi grows up and sees this
side of her father she will not forgive Raman easily and may destroy a bond that is very important in a girls life to have a special connection with her father.


And yes, Raman was emotionally blackmailing Ishita by fondly remembering Adi .


It was sneaky and low of Raman to use that tactic to sway Ishita's decision just to gain
sympathy for his rotten son.


Here again Raman tries emotional manipulation rather than being honest with Ishita.


I do not know how manymore ways he will insult Ishita's intelligence.


The the expression on his face is one of triumph of knowing how to push Ishita's buttons to get want he wants from herwithout taking responsibility for all the mistakes he has done to date.


Raman needs to be a man and own up to his short comings before he can be the hero in his daughter'sand Ishita's life.


Right now he needs to look for a small cup of water to drown himself . He must surely feel that small.

Thanks

Agree with everything

Your last few lines describe the situation perfectly

Raman must find a cup of water to drown himself

Now even if he associates Ruhi with bad times with Shagun

Now he loves Ruhi he could atleast try to remember

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617251

Hibernated

Posted: 11 years ago

#28

this is what happens to Ekta's shows

i love this show and will continue to watch it but the damage that this track has done to all of the characters and especially raman cannot be easily fixed

raman's hypocrisy has reached a whole new level...at one moment he yells at shagun for accusing and insulting ishita and in the next moment he is doing the same thing just because of shagun

Yes, he doesn't love shagun anymore and it is evident that he doesn't... but then why does he allow her to control him so much

Ishita has done so much for him, it's about time he realized who she really is

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--Megha--

@--Megha--

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Dear Dolly Heart .. i agree to wh u've said except raman's blackmailing Ishita...I thought that he didnt knew Ishita was thr n he was just expressing his memories to Vandita n Ishita was hearing from Behind ... but still its insensitive of him to think abt Adi in such a situation n being happy abt it when he knws that Adi is the reason for Ammas accident...

His main problem is he's still living in his past n not accepting his present ... n this is gonna mess up his future for sure ... but unfortunately its not gonna hurt him alone but ishita n ruhi as well...
the only reason he's stopping himself in falling in love wid Ishita is coz Shagun betrayed him ... its like he's running around in circles n not reaching anywhere...

n also he needs to make up for all the time lost wid Ruhi ... for a change he must stop thinking so much abt Adi

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Sree

@Katyayani_devi

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

on light note
now raman is ek majboori baap on whom emosanal atyachar is done lol ek victim baap may be in majboori telling his majbooris tat as he said previously also tat adi is male kid his waaris his weakness n woh papa pe gaya n majboori pops can't ve another kid n only male kid his majboori away frm him n ruhi is female kid n woh shagun pe gaya n ruhi is with him n not his majboori.ek majboori pops ke dastaan tat woh majbooris ke aadat se majboor Lol.

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