My questions to Raman his defenders and writers | DT note p.21 - Page 4

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Raman has a terrible case of "I want what I can't have." there are a lot of reasons why he is so crazy about adi, reasons that has been discussed in the forum already.

what really bothers me is that ishita seems to be only there to solve raman's problem. first it was his relationship with his daughter, then it was the DNA fiasco, now it is the accident mess and soon, she will straighten out his bratty son as well. Ishita keeps on giving and giving, any normal woman in her place would have turned bitter by now.

well thats an interesting perspective

To solve that

They need to show Raman realising ishita pain and trust

He also needs to realise how much he has hurted ishita in name of majboori

Originally posted by: mnr123

Dear Dolly Heart .. i agree to wh u've said except raman's blackmailing Ishita...I thought that he didnt knew Ishita was thr n he was just expressing his memories to Vandita n Ishita was hearing from Behind ... but still its insensitive of him to think abt Adi in such a situation n being happy abt it when he knws that Adi is the reason for Ammas accident...

His main problem is he's still living in his past n not accepting his present ... n this is gonna mess up his future for sure ... but unfortunately its not gonna hurt him alone but ishita n ruhi as well...
the only reason he's stopping himself in falling in love wid Ishita is coz Shagun betrayed him ... its like he's running around in circles n not reaching anywhere...

n also he needs to make up for all the time lost wid Ruhi ... for a change he must stop thinking so much abt Adi

Originally posted by: Imanezara

Ask writers i feel they r complitely lost with their characters

yes I too think so

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

Thats an interesting perspective

Which can be considered

Originally posted by: ambrzk

<font size="3">Dear i am also always one of raman defender but that's true i am also very sad today b/c watching this one of worst episode. I am trying my best to give you answers but please forgive me i am very biased towards raman.</font>

Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth well i know things were bitter then
between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can at least try to
remember now

<font color="#FF0000">the simple answer is adi his first born child so may be he attached more with adi birth and when adi was born shagun are his lovely sweet heart wife to give him world best thing so he never forget normal person doing same in that situation so there i am support raman. when Ruhi was born situation of raman and shagun going worst day by day so may be he deleted all worst memories in his brain. Raman is very normal emaotinal fool person jo achi yaadon ko yaad rakta hai worst ko bulana. </font>

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi

<font color="#FF0000">my answer is same when ruhi was born shagun totally even khulum kula involved with ashok so how he remember his worst days as a man yeh raman ki total insult thi ke uski biwi uske hote hue kis aur ke sath bhag gayi.</font>

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident
<font color="#FF0000">i am agree with you that point i also think he always blackmail ishita to taking adi name continuously b/c he knows that ishita is very sweet nature person so when she knows how raman loves adi or adi is his kamzori than she forgive everthing b/c raman knows ishita loves ruhi and him.</font>


What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos

<font color="#FF0000">yaar uska jawab dena mere liye bhi muskil hai i also don't understand why he behave so strange in today's episode.</font>

You have given very good answers

Originally posted by: soapliker

Exactly the questions I have too. For a longest time since the Adi this and Adi that , I thought Ruhi was adopted. Gosh why so much importance on Adi and never on Ruhi.

Why is Raman shown as a coward, when ready totalk to Ishu, goes round the bush and uses other methods but when he is angry with her, screams at her non stop.CV's have totallyassassinated his character since the accident track.

You have put it aptly

He never talks of importance of Ruhi

It really seems she is adopted or ishita daughter

Yes he never directly talks with ishita

Originally posted by: Anita.patel

At least with ishita he has to discuss about ruhi's birth and some stuff (as much as he remember) because ishu doesn't know it ..she is ruhi's mom..but no...his Adi jaap starts always...

yes perfectly valid point

Originally posted by: tptwi

this is what happens to Ekta's shows

i love this show and will continue to watch it but the damage that this track has done to all of the characters and especially raman cannot be easily fixed

raman's hypocrisy has reached a whole new level...at one moment he yells at shagun for accusing and insulting ishita and in the next moment he is doing the same thing just because of shagun

Yes, he doesn't love shagun anymore and it is evident that he doesn't... but then why does he allow her to control him so much

Ishita has done so much for him, it's about time he realized who she really is

Yes agree

It is as if only he had right to hurt ishita

Aha! I've always defended Raman as much as I can but I do think it is quite unfair that he doesn't remember Ruhi's things as much.

I do agree that Ruhi was born at a time when he was going through trouble and wants to forget about it. But isn't Adi also related to that painful past? Is what I fail to understand.

But he does take care of Ruhi? I mean dancing for her, feeding Ishu for her and one of the major steps of his life - Marrying Ishita for Ruhi ke liye?

I honestly have no answers for you. But a question ..

Sorry .. Just taking out my mixed thoughts..

Ignore me 😆

Originally posted by: akruz

I too have the same questions to Raman or CVs or whomsoever concerned...

Raman has not had a sweet moment in this entire serial where he explains Ruhis importance in his life...ok agree to many who says things were not well between him and Shagun at that point...But then atleast that angel deserves some minutes of Ramans life right...to tell the truth i have started hating that expression that comes on Ramans face when he talks abt Adi...as if no one else has a son...and the expression on Ishitas face was damn annoying tooo...ok agree kids...but then y different treatment to Adi and Ruhi...

Yes i also agree on the part where he doesnt show any guilt to have questioned Ishita abt the photo...

Basically this track sucks and the CVs r confused..I wish this ends soon...lest i hate Raman to the core...

Well you have made all perfect points

Ruhi needs a bit of importance in his life