My questions to Raman his defenders and writers | DT note p.21 - Page 2

bang on post..

Ask writers i feel they r complitely lost with their characters

Res Leo. will come back after watching the epi...


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Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth welli know things were bitter then between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can atleast try to remember now>> I think this has been covered some time ago. Ruhi's birth may have resulted from a last-minute attempt for them to try and resurrect their marriage. So, subconsciously she was not a product of love but of necessity. The whole fact that Shagun was in an intimate relationship with Ashok at that time (considering the paternity track we had) is something that a man would like to forget and not re-live. I think that is why Raman doesn't remember anything about Ruhi's birth fondly.

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi >> You have partially answered this in your first question yourself!

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident >> When Leo? Are you talking about the precap? If yes, then I answered in your Rajma post

What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos >> I was uneasy about it too. I think the script fell really loose here and the CVs lost control of Raman's character. There is really no answer to this question. I dont think Raman is a remorseless, guilt-free man, but he was portrayed like this yesterday.

Originally posted by: posterity

who says he doesn;t remember anything about ruhi...maybe he does...adi i think he is obsessed with cuz ,adi and his affection is unattainable for him...u always crave for something out of ur reac

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Dear i am also always one of raman defender but that's true i am also very sad today b/c watching this one of worst episode. I am trying my best to give you answers but please forgive me i am very biased towards raman.

Why doesn't he remember Ruhi birth well i know things were bitter then between him and Shagun but know he loves Ruhi so he can at least try to remember now

the simple answer is adi his first born child so may be he attached more with adi birth and when adi was born shagun are his lovely sweet heart wife to give him world best thing so he never forget normal person doing same in that situation so there i am support raman. when Ruhi was born situation of raman and shagun going worst day by day so may be he deleted all worst memories in his brain. Raman is very normal emaotinal fool person jo achi yaadon ko yaad rakta hai worst ko bulana.

Why does only adi come to his mind as good memory and not Ruhi

my answer is same when ruhi was born shagun totally even khulum kula involved with ashok so how he remember his worst days as a man yeh raman ki total insult thi ke uski biwi uske hote hue kis aur ke sath bhag gayi.

Was he trying to emotionally blackmail ishita with adi talk now that he realises she knows adi did the accident
i am agree with you that point i also think he always blackmail ishita to taking adi name continuously b/c he knows that ishita is very sweet nature person so when she knows how raman loves adi or adi is his kamzori than she forgive everthing b/c raman knows ishita loves ruhi and him.


What was the expression he was carrying throughout the episode and no remorse or guilt for accusing ishita of switching photos

yaar uska jawab dena mere liye bhi muskil hai i also don't understand why he behave so strange in today's episode.

i agree it is a sort of indirect blackmailing look Ishita how much I love my son you can't punish him for my sake.
By taking him to the juvenile detention center, he will emerge as the hero once again but not as a good father.

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21

i agree it is a sort of indirect blackmailing look Ishita how much I love my son you can't punish him for my sake.
By taking him to the juvenile detention center, he will emerge as the hero once again but not as a good father.

absolutely

It seems like that only

And how did he suddenly change his decision and punished adi

No one knows

Lets see what happens

He ruins Ruhi's dinner plans for Aditya. ( when he made Ishita apologise to Adi )
He forcefully separates Ruhi from Ishita and takes her on a picnic unwillingly for Aditya
He finds Sheila ki jawani as a tutor for Ruhi and The great Bala for Aditya. :P :P :P
He remembers Aditya's weight when he was some grams, but has no such memories for Ruhi.
He scolds Ruhi and takes out his anger on that angel and that son which actually deserves some bashing up, he quietly listens to everything he says.
I am a second child and my parents love me the same, even if they don't which is definitely not the case but still they never ever let that reflect upon their kids., this shit increases sibling rivalry.
CV's really need to stop this or if they really want to show that then please equate Adi Jhaap with Ruhi Jhaap!
That we can handle.

Exactly the questions I have too. For a longest time since the Adi this and Adi that , I thought Ruhi was adopted. Gosh why so much importance on Adi and never on Ruhi.