Love & Parenthood - IshRa - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Well fabulous post aani

I also liked the conversation

I liked the fact the most that stuff they discussed in that conversation is not something you would discuss in compromise and sirf Ruhi ke liye type marriage and it has moved beyond that


What makes this pair special is that it was made by daughter and if you look at it that their relationship is going in reverse order to normal so first they had kid then got married then respect now understanding and friendship and love later as compared to normal couple


Well I do think that he slightly hurt ishita by talking about not being father again to Shagun and if in conv he had tried to reassure her when she was talking about infertility it would have been perfect what do you think


Thanks Vyas

@bold - yep they are well beyond and above the sirf ruhi ke liye zone and thank god for that 😆

@blue - yep, in fact when Mr. Bhalla had to convince Raman to marry Ishita I rem his words were your daughter has found a mother for herself, all you have to do now is unite them so their love story is going in reverse but that is the uniqueness and beauty of it

@red - she was hurt but he never meant that to happen and of course that was never his intention, also I think IshRa will discuss these things someday but at the time I think it would have been too much you know, one step at a time is always the best approach and then they were discussing the need to parent both their kids, the ones they already have and it would have been weird if they started discussing the ones they cant or don't, not only because they haven't consummated this marriage but because emotionally too they aren't there yet, at least Ishita isn't hence her words - mere life, mere issues, once that isn't the case - once the word mere/meri doesn't exist among them, these things can be talked about more and Ishita wont take any words by Raman then as his platitude or pity or compromise, but his understanding and acceptance which is what she needs, she was left by a man she loved, a man who loved her because she is infertile, but if a man loves her now regardless of that - it would help solve a lot of complexes she has developed because of that one problem she has.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: divyanka-mira

😊aahhh amazinggg post..👏


thank you :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: blue5sky

Great post!

Today is my lucky day. Just read Ashu's update and now this post. Awesome!!!! YHM rocks. All those pictures and awards make me mad about this show! Just got to see sat's epi. Love your post even more after that!.
Well done please come with another of your lovely OS!👏


Thank you so much and am right now I have a writer' block sadly hope I find my muse again to write and be back 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved the perspective you saw the whole convo between Ishra. How the parenthood brought together people who couldn't stand each other because of their maternal/paternal instinct. The show emphasis not only on motherhood but also the unexplored fatherhood.
Loved the line to the core.. Hats off 👏👏👏👏

It won't be a man falling in love with his wife, rather it would be Ruhi and Aditya' father who would fall irrevocably in love with the woman who is being their mother in the truest sense of the term.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Too good yaar... Amazing... You have written very well...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Fridays episode was very bittersweet because of the much awaited heartfelt conversation between ishra. Bitter because ishita had to listen in on shagun and raman's conversation, and because that epi proved that raman will always have a connection with his ex due to adi. I must admit, that was a bitter pill to swallow.

one thing I wonder is, are ishita and raman considering the possibility of an intimate relationship? her infertility was at the center of the emotionally charged conversation, so I didn't think either of them were thinking about it but now I'm rethinking that. I was going through


the comments the other day, and someone said creatives should introduce consummation in order to keep up with the mature theme. it makes in a way, raman and ishita are both mature, they are married and if not love, then they have respect, understanding, admiration and attraction. is that not enough for a physical relationship?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Glad u made this post...😃

I liked the most the way you reasoned Raman's tears👍🏼...KP was so superb in emoting so well...👏

Also the way you compared Subbu's reason of nt marrying Ishita with the result of Raman's broken marriage...very ironic...kinda eye opener ...very well put👏

Also very well agree that they didn't talk further abt Ishu's infertitlity as u replied to some here she still has her wall around her regarding her issues...and its better things are done with time...they are progressing gradually...so everything will have its own right time to talk...😳

Thnx for this post...


Edited by cool_aparna - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on Aani! Wonderful post. There is only a small part I disagree with. I will come to that later.
Friday's episode was fantastic. Just when you think the writers can't do better than this, they prove their mettle. I am totally in awe of them. I admire and respect them so much that I am ready to accept Mihir as the culprit behind Amma's accident. It is something that, as of now, makes no sense. But I am giving them the benefit of doubt because it feels like they know what they are doing.
The entire conversation of Raman and Shagun infuriated a lot of people. Not me. Because there was one thing you had to keep in mind watching that scene. It was Aditya's father who spoke to Shagun. She was and is still under the delusion that she has an influence on Raman, her ex husband who is slowly ceasing to exist. I guess that is the reason of her delusion. Sub consciously she is aware of the changes happening and is trying her level best to resist it.
Ishita! I don't know what to say about her. Her perspective amazes me. I mean, who thinks like that!👏 If it wasn't for her small idiosyncrasies it would be very difficult for me to accept such a person who is so good and perfect. I can't stand such people. She represents the definition of a life partner. Raman's reaction to her words was expected. Being a shy guy by nature, he actually controlled a lot. What maturity and understanding! Ishita is new to parenthood yet understands every facet. What's more, she notices those tiny emotions Raman displays and perfctly and completely understands his love for his children and the special place Adi holds in his heart.
It was lovely to see Raman being polite to Shagun thereby proving she no longer holds the place she did once in his life and heart. Or at least, she is rapidly losing it. Not only Ishita playing a role in bringing a father close to his children, she is also helping him move on. I loved the way the writers are handling the latter issue. I was very curious to see it.
With Ishita and Raman it is always tiny things that changed the dynamics of their relationship. Drama happens in their life but it is always simpler things that brought them closer.
Now coming to the disagreement. I agree that it is the mother in Ishita that started to affect the father in Raman but the husband will surface because of it and he will fall in love for the woman she is. With Shagun, Raman definitely would have felt insecure. She was constantly taunting his abilities and worth. His ambition to become rich was fuelled by that hurt ego. Ishita will make him see himself in a different light, make him realise what he is actually worth. I remember a similar discussion regarding Ishita where it was about Raman making her get rid of her insecurities regarding her inability to be a mother. I hope I made sense.

Edited by Metamorphmagus - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome and most heart touching post ever read on Ishra. Simply Beautiful! Thanks for sharing your thoughts EkPaheli
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Posted: 11 years ago
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AANI. .so beautifully said..brought tears to my eyes because youare ABSOLUTELY RIGHT in every point you stated.. especially the last where RKB the fathet will fall deeply in love with Ishu who became his kids mother in the truestsense!

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