I can't have children n today's episode did hurt me

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Pardesindian

@Pardesindian

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Posted: 11 years ago

#11

I agree with this male child syndrome. With raman he is always like adi is my 1st child, my1st son, I m crazy for him etc but what did he do to his daughter??? Ignored her till ishita came in his life, dint even bothered to speak to her over the phone. What was her fault??? That she is a daughter???

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Anju.

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Originally posted by: rockstar29
U know what thosji and Raman are obsessed with adi because he is male .
I hate the fact that male child still considered as superior and family rulers bullshit few male kids leave there parents in a bay when they are old leave them to die alone crap in this age also such attitude .

Rockstar, you said that that male children always leave their parents but Aditya already left his father when he was 5 yrs he repeatedly wants the police to arrest him still the father mind is blocked...
He asked the father to sign the change of name document still the father is suffering from Alzheimer and he keeps forgetting he also wants a trophy from Aditya to be proved as the BEST Father of this world like Ruhi gifted one to Ishita...

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Anju.

@ALUJNA21

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Posted: 11 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Pardesindian
I agree with this male child syndrome. With raman he is always like adi is my 1st child, my1st son, I m crazy for him etc but what did he do to his daughter??? Ignored her till ishita came in his life, dint even bothered to speak to her over the phone. What was her fault??? That she is a daughter???

I read he was getting emotional while talking with his Shagun baby I was really surprised how come well she's his 1st love...and she gave him a male child FIRST TIME ON EARTH a male child is born😡😡

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ZaaraBB

@ZaaraBB

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Posted: 11 years ago

#14

i felt bad as.well but Raman did not mean it like thay..It came out the wrong way

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Elita

@Elita

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Posted: 11 years ago

#15

True... so far we have seen Raman respect, admire and support Ishita. He also knows Shagun in and out and yet he gave in to her cheap tactics. Shagun wanted to humiliate Ishita and used her children as a pretext...when she very well knows Ishita's condition. But Raman should have known better...he may have said it with no intention of hurting Ishita's feelings...but still there was no need for him to express/share it all with Shagun. They were discussing about Adi and should have just stuck to it.

When anyone points out barrenness in a women it hurts a lot... nothing can ease that pain. Pain of infertility and also hurting many people associated with it. Even Ishita said that today...It's not just a physical disability, but also an emotional trauma and a social stigma.

P.S: Do not mean to hurt anyone's feelings. It's just my POV.

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947708

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Posted: 11 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
Rockstar, you said that that male children always leave their parents but Aditya already left his father when he was 5 yrs he repeatedly wants the police to arrest him still the father mind is blocked...
He asked the father to sign the change of name document still the father is suffering from Alzheimer and he keeps forgetting he also wants a trophy from Aditya to be proved as the BEST Father of this world like Ruhi gifted one to Ishita...

Raman some how obsessed with adi can't change him .
He likes Demons not angels .
If I was in raman's position I would have been happy with ruhi and lead a decent life but for adi I would support him if needed but crying no way because Ashok is legal father now.
Who will tell Raman he will never get it .
I think when he looses ishu for adi he will realize till then this rat race is on .

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smilydear

@smilydear

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Posted: 11 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: ALUJNA21
Sorry for your state but as you said life continues though initially it is difficult to accept but everyone of us has to face some difficulties in some other forms, way then again we continue to live leaving the problem behind.
Coming to the show
It was the phrase that he can't become a father again which disturbed a few viewers.. he should not have said it, as he's targeting Ishita indirectly but he's targeting her biggest pain...He should not talked about it with Shagun and by the way he knows his ex wifey with whom he was getting emotional a bit I think...
Again I'll add Ishita is a character which Cv's makes a joke of she never reacts, she's never angry ,she never feels bad...Cv's makes her a character who does not respect herself as if an easygoing lady.

@bold ---->I am going to disagree here CV's make a very strong Women here ... Till now she didn't find a person who could understand her and she could open up her wounds, her fears, her sorrows with him/her. She herself said today to RAMAN YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND... THIS IS MY PROBLEM ,... I HAVE TO HANDLE THAT ,... THOSE WHO ARE IN MY LIFE HAVE TO ACCEPT ME AS I AM.

They all are very powerful statements and definitely complete statements. they shows the strength of a women.

Next part I am copying as i wrote on other post of today --- this is just a turmoil of Ishita and i compared that with Raman .

Raman only get cheated by his First Love and She took away or we can say she snatched his first child But still he had his second child his family and friends who understood that he got cheated by his wife BUT ...

Ishita , not only cheated by her First Love But during that cheating she got discarded by her love because of her physical inability and then after Don't know how many times how many people time and again reminded her that she is being discarded because of her problem.

DISCARDED listening and writing itself feels so Bad think about people who have to face all this .BUT ... she did with a smile and tremendous amount of storm in her heart, still she is having those storms as she already listens to Raman that SHE IS DESPERATE , SHE IS EYEING ON HIS CHILD ...during Ruhi's custody case ... They can't go from her mind can be suppressed but still there somewhere and this is what we saw today and during pregnancy track also ... SHE related to those words with her inability( which she thinks she is having. ) She herself is so much shattered by the community that even today she feels she is incomplete and she can never be complete ... even though Little Ruhi knows what she is But she couldn't ...

Edited by smilydear - 11 years ago

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vidya.anand

@vidya.anand

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Posted: 11 years ago

#18

The latter part of Ishra was heart warming and perhaps that was the intention of bringing in the bitter scene initially but still I felt very bad for Ishita when Raman uttered those words

Yes he is impulsive and always wavers away in emotions and goes over the top but still, I had tears when he said "tumse jo khushi mili hai woh kisi aur se milne ke umeedh bhi nahi"

A lot of meaning in that one sentence and Ishita getting deeply hurt was bound to happen. it pokes directly on her life's worst reality that she cant have a baby and whats with "kisi aur"

Ishita is ur wife Raman..how can u say kisi aur? and who is he opening up to? Shagun? the woman who left her small baby and went away for money??? is she even a mother?

Just by giving birth one doesnt become a mother. Raman giving that value and importance to such a woman and telling her intricate personal details about his marriage and relationship with Ishita is really sad. No wife can tolerate or bear with such things.

He can apologize for forgetting the date and also explain himself for the mess up but the rest of the things really hurt! He says yaadein mitt chuki but ehsaas ab bhi hai aur rahega was also hurting. may be Ishita isnt the typical wife and so she didnt feel much abt it but for any normal wife, these words coming from her husband for another woman is like unbearable.

Ishita's words about her own problems and why he married her if he really wanted such joys again was heart wrenching. Raman really has to heal her broken heart...its his duty! Ishita is right and well justified in saying that dont show any emotions be it love, hatred or anger to Shagun. She is depicted as such a perfectly right person. He just needs to give some respect and be done with Shagun.

Ishita should be the focal point of his life now.

Edited by vidya.anand - 11 years ago

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smilydear

@smilydear

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Posted: 11 years ago

#19

What you are is a gift a GOD to you ... If we respect GOD we should respect there creations in every form. I respect GOD and always has trust ... whatever he will do that is always for our benefit. I heard this ... there are few special mothers who have Love that can go beyond boundaries and flourish Love for needy kids too .. Like ISHITA ... She has Love for all ... She didn't think twice to accept Ruhi as her own child. Like Mother Theresa she was not the mother of a single child , she was mother of lots of children.There are mothers without kids there are kids without mother's when they come together GOD shows us the real meaning of LOVE , HUMANITY.

The way RAMAN open up with Shagun was wrong or we can say he still feels somewhere down there in his heart that she has that special place in his life that he can talk heart with her AND that was DEFINITELY NOT because she is ADI'S MOM .

Today's ISHITA's questions were straight, to the point, and very beautifully she showed him a mirror showing him where he is ! Like a true friend, BUT today I didn't find RAMAN as a true friend for ISHITA.

Edited by smilydear - 11 years ago

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priyanka chakraborty

@pscmp

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Posted: 11 years ago

#20

i feel bad for ishita...raman always hurt her,if raman has any problem then he understand how does this matter for a person who cannot birth a child...i am very much hurt he is very insensitive in this matter. i think ishu too much polite with him...this is so rediculus.

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