Is Raman justifiable....? - Page 12

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Haha tanni

That's why we are designated and marked bashers

And anything we say is biased and bashing

Now nichus dangerously close to joining terrible 5

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Everytime he hurts ishita

We will have to find something from his past to support him haha

Originally posted by: luvsagar

My POV...
Justifiable is not the word I would use..I would say his behavior and reaction is understandable. Roman used to be a rather simple man .A man content with his life .. being married to a woman he loved unconditionally. .being a father..A devoted son and a loyal emploee! He became completely shattered Mand due to Shagun's betrayal..despite remaining a responsible son and father he emotionally withdrew from life and became cold and heartless where the only thing that mattered was making money and becoming more successful than his ex wife's lover, his ex boss. That became muksat in life. And BANG along comes Ishita. These two people despised each other because of their interaction and pre conceived notions of each other. They entered into the institution of marriage for Ruhi.. Neither thought of the relationship between them that how can two people live together that can't be civil to one another and present a facade of a normal husband and wife.
I won't get into the progression of both since their marriage but will say that I Ishu has wholeheartedly accepted the marriage his family and him as a husband so there were expectations formed on her part. She expected Roman to undoubtedly trust and stand by her cause that's what normal husband's do. RAman on the other hand despite thawing to a certain degree has still held himself distant from this marriage.
Therefore for me his reaction though i didn't line it and wanted to tell him that silence is holden completely understood it.
He became a controlling man post betrayal and yesterday things were out of his control making him in his mind vulnerable. Him asking for the phone to me was not an indication of his LACK OF TRUST in Ishu but he needs verification a major reason being his past experience and the FACT that he does not love Ishu and has yet to FULLY ACCEPT this marriage.
He has changed but i doubt he will ever open himself ever be as open as before...He will never expose himself that way...He has realized Ishu's importance and Is beginning to appreciate her however this situation involves his sister and brother in law. ..how can he pick Ishu just like that...He needs proof...which led to him asking for the phone...The messages being read by everyone which indicated the lack of husband wife relationship between them...of course he would question on how does Param know...it was an understandable question ..reaction.
However it should be noted he didn't YELL..MANHANDLE HER to get answers ..He was trying to figure the facts...can't blame him for that...This to me made it evident that he TRUSTS HER over Param.
Silence would have been better but that's not Raman but he is fair and will get to the truth...
sorry for long post and spelling mistakes but this is my POT
Nina

his daughter lay abandoned like a trashed doll, his personal life lacked the beat, he was just a robot until she walked into his life.

she became his daughter's mother even more that her birth mother could ever be.

he doubted his parentage over his daughter on the word of a third person and she realised it and went to the extent of proving it to him that his daughter is HIS.

when she felt his sister and husband are in trouble, she helped them out despite the fact that he hurled insult after insult.

I can go on and on but the beeline is that .. when she craved for his protection ... when she needed him the most in her life ... he stood like a spineless disaster ... Raman Kumar Bhalla .. ur ex wife got one thing right .. u just live your life ONLY to prove that u are the best in front of her but reality is that you are a pathetic excuse for a man and at the same time u are one lucky asshole that you have Ishita Raman Kumar Bhalla as your wife.

no matter what you do now ... even if you lay the world at her feet or even your heart out for her ... it will never be ENOUGH. coz when she needed you the most, a situation where you should have believed her without a second thought ... you abandoned her and let the wolves descend on her while you stood by and watched.

Originally posted by: chinudolly

no i dont think so ,

raman is not justifiable dii

his silence is not justifiable , even after knowing her

his doubt on ishu's character is not justifiable , even when knowing how many times ishu helped him

his distrust on ishu is not justifiable ...

he didn't stood for right .. that is not justifiable 😡

he didn't supported his wife after knowing that how good she is ... thats not justifiable

and

they were not in a relation ... this was not just ishu's decision but raman's too

then how can he let simmi blame her for all this ... he is wrong ..

very wrong ..

HE IS NOT JUSTIFIABLE IN ANY CASE

AND ISHU SHOULD NOT COME BACK 2 HIM , RATHER SHE SHOULD TAKE RUHI ALSO WITH HER 😛

aur raman ko chup rehne ke liye milna chahiye THULLU😆😆

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Raman deserves a slap from Amma...the return slap of Simmi's one to Ishita.

Originally posted by: chinudolly

no i dont think so ,

raman is not justifiable dii

his silence is not justifiable , even after knowing her

his doubt on ishu's character is not justifiable , even when knowing how many times ishu helped him

his distrust on ishu is not justifiable ...

he didn't stood for right .. that is not justifiable 😡

he didn't supported his wife after knowing that how good she is ... thats not justifiable

and

they were not in a relation ... this was not just ishu's decision but raman's too

then how can he let simmi blame her for all this ... he is wrong ..

very wrong ..

HE IS NOT JUSTIFIABLE IN ANY CASE

AND ISHU SHOULD NOT COME BACK 2 HIM , RATHER SHE SHOULD TAKE RUHI ALSO WITH HER 😛

aur raman ko chup rehne ke liye milna chahiye THULLU 😆😆