Originally posted by: nandipandi15
di! how's it going? enjoying the hotseat? ๐
im back with my questions ๐ณ
Totally enjoying!! You guys are nice and gentle. The last time I was answering so many questions was when I FINALLY graduated ๐๐ I am having a lot of fun๐
1. who do u prefer character wise (no looks) between neel and akash? why?
That's a hard one, because I think I don't know akash well yet. I am enjoying the introduction to several layers of his character. I see a whole lot of resemblance between neil and akash, which makes me truly like him already ๐.
1) sensitivity to women in need (apparent from their similar reaction to Bhoomija's unfortunate event)
2) immense sense of responsibility for supporting and taking care of people they love
(akash's love for bhoomija & mom, neel's love for vaidehi and mom)
3) genuinity and charming personality
4) anger!! I remember when neel went and beat up karan, while aryan sat around. Akash, was also ready to pounce of karan! being younger, has a very raw anger within, which is treat to watch. That anger will bring down the devil jaisinghs, ๐ whereas neil tried and unfortunately failed.. ๐ญ๐ญ
Now coming back to the question- who i prefer leaving aside the cuteness and dimple cheeks ๐ณ๐ณ awww.. how much i neel ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
I prefer neel so far because i KNEW him better
1) he was funny
2) he was shy yet naughty at the same time
3) he really adored vaidehi and showed excellent transitions on his journey from a family friend, a trust-worthy close friend, an ardent admirer, a person sharing her sorrow to her soul-mate.
i do hope to see all these phases with akash, if neel is a goner.. ๐ญ
2. how do u want this show 2 end? (with and without neel's return)
Since this is the story of vaidehi, I want her to take that revenge herself.
I want Vaidehi to put Aryan and Harsh behind bars. I want Bhoomija to have found a real soulmate in Siddharth, who truly supports and loves her even after coming to know the truth, which will happen sometime. I want janaki to breathe fresh air in open with no fear, and re-united with her daughter and I want Seeta to be liberated and peaceful.
with neel's return, oh.. i sooooo want vaidehi to have her house of dreams with the swing... and a little neel to make their lives richer.
if neel doesn;t reurn, i'll be happy to see vaidehi in loving care of akash.. she deserves to be loved.. in fact, every good person does..
3. what is ur biggest dream in life?
I always appreciate how people change with passing time and so do their dreams. My biggest dream in life has always been to win the Nobel prize. I find myself doing the kind of research I always dreamt of doing.. Yet sometimes I fear if my negative experiences will chase my dream away! There is politics in everything. Hard work and dedication fails to be sufficient. That doesn;t mean one should stop dreaming.. So, I am hanging in there!!๐
If I were in a pagent, i would have said world peace.. ๐๐
4. if u had 3 wishes what would u wish for?
haha.. now i get to say world peace ? ๐
kidding, but not really
1) all living souls to understand other living souls - to live and let live๐ no abuse, no humiliation to anyone
2) children, sick, physically/mentally challenged, old people and animals should be always WELL-FED and never needed to do hard work for food๐ญ๐ญ
3) a healthy happy big family with all elders happy healthy and me and my husband and our many many children in a house with Butchard garden in backyard ๐ and view of Athabasca glacier in front, with friends frequenting the house
pick one - Gosh.. this one tells me how i am 33..
pyaar ya farz? - Pyaar ( I have tried very hard to hold on to my love while not forgetting my farz. that has been the biggest challenge in my life)
romantic or practical? - Romantic (learning to be practical )
what advice would u give to people younger than u? (me included ๐ณ )
1) Follow your heart. One thing I have done and have no regrets of mistakes made on the way.
2) "When you lose, don;t lose the lesson" - a great quote to follow
3) Love comes by in different shapes, sizes and forms. Appreciate it in every one of them, because that is how you can feel God's existence in life.
4) Grab every opportunity, as they are rare..
5) Laugh and Cry Ample - an easy way to stay in touch with yourself!
whats ur motto in life?
To live my life and touch many others such that I'll be missed and remembered long even after I'm gone. My parents worked very hard to provide me everything and more. I want to pass it on and make them proud.
whats ur average day like?
I have taken leave while submitting my research publication. My parents are visiting me. I have been so busy past 15 years, building a CV, that I have missed out on living with them. I am trying to be a child again and enjoy.. so my days are spent on forum, while they watch tv / cook yummy food for me. i also take them around and travel to show them places.
My average day normally is very busy ๐คข.
I get up, get ready, commute 2 hours to university, work really hard (bench work and writing etc), come home to hubby, cook fresh dinner every night, watch tv / sports with him, while browsing the forum, discuss / argue ๐ small and big things that matter / don;t matter.. and call it a day.
thats all for now ๐
take care ๐ค
nadia