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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nirankesan

Khana is there only.Why Iccha wants Khana to be in this family.I cant Understand.Better she can send him to residential school where they will treat him properly.Is bundela family name is a charity she can give to any baby.She is not practical .Khana is there oly He can come and sit.If he stands then Ok.Iccha wants to become a mahan in others sacrifice.

she loves veer, very much i dont she can leave him again , the last time it was too painful for both of them
agreed she ddint handle situation perfectly in this yuvi faisco but that doesnt mean bundelas r better, its high time they learn to appreciate her inspite of some of her faults
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gksk

I think Bundelas and even Veer are acting plain stupid.🤢😡 Its true she freaked out when she did not see Kahna with Veer and did not pick up Yuvi. But for a mother sacrifice of one kid for another is pure unacceptable.

I remember an incident from my childhood. We are 2 sisters and a kid brother. We were having a function in our home the day my brother turned 10 days (namkaran). Just before the ceremony started my elder sister (who was 10 years at that time) fell from the terrace and got unconscious. My father rushed to hospital with her. My mother refused to touch my newborn brother saying that he has come to take sacrifice of her daughter and she does not want him. She refused to touch him till my sister gained consciousness even when my father called from hospital to say that my sister was out of danger. My fathers sister and her husband sat in the puja during the ceremony because of this. When my sister got conscious in the evening, only then my mother picked up my brother. Everyone understood how she felt. Noone blamed her for her behaviour with her son. That too in a country where sons are usually valued far more than daughters. I applaud my mother for considering daghters and son equally always. 👏
Ichha's siuation was similar. She had to sacrifice one son to get another. She refused to do so. It was a matter of luck that Veer was able to save Kanha too. And when Ichha had seen Yuvi she wanted to make sure Kanha was fine before picking up Yuvi. I think that is normal and any mother would/should do that. If Bundelas think that is wrong they are mad and very selfish.😡
And who does Veer think think he is to ask Ichha to trust him with Kanha's life? Is he superman? 😉 When Ichha was being raped she called him, and what did he do? Came in front of a car and himself went to hospital. I'm not saying that that accident was his fault. Only that circumstances are unpredictable. And Ichha did not want to risk Kanha's life by sending him to Avinash even if Veer was there to save him.
I read somewhere that Ichha is going to be pregnant again soon. I think Bundelas will keep being angry with her till then. Then they will be like "we forgive you" as if they are doing some charity. Actually she is just a doormat for them and I dislike Ichha for putting up with them. If I was in her place, I would have left Bundela house with Kanha and Mukta.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: gksk

I think Bundelas and even Veer are acting plain stupid.🤢😡 Its true she freaked out when she did not see Kahna with Veer and did not pick up Yuvi. But for a mother sacrifice of one kid for another is pure unacceptable.

I remember an incident from my childhood. We are 2 sisters and a kid brother. We were having a function in our home the day my brother turned 10 days (namkaran). Just before the ceremony started my elder sister (who was 10 years at that time) fell from the terrace and got unconscious. My father rushed to hospital with her. My mother refused to touch my newborn brother saying that he has come to take sacrifice of her daughter and she does not want him. She refused to touch him till my sister gained consciousness even when my father called from hospital to say that my sister was out of danger. My fathers sister and her husband sat in the puja during the ceremony because of this. When my sister got conscious in the evening, only then my mother picked up my brother. Everyone understood how she felt. Noone blamed her for her behaviour with her son. That too in a country where sons are usually valued far more than daughters. I applaud my mother for considering daghters and son equally always. 👏
Ichha's siuation was similar. She had to sacrifice one son to get another. She refused to do so. It was a matter of luck that Veer was able to save Kanha too. And when Ichha had seen Yuvi she wanted to make sure Kanha was fine before picking up Yuvi. I think that is normal and any mother would/should do that. If Bundelas think that is wrong they are mad and very selfish.😡
And who does Veer think think he is to ask Ichha to trust him with Kanha's life? Is he superman? 😉 When Ichha was being raped she called him, and what did he do? Came in front of a car and himself went to hospital. I'm not saying that that accident was his fault. Only that circumstances are unpredictable. And Ichha did not want to risk Kanha's life by sending him to Avinash even if Veer was there to save him.
I read somewhere that Ichha is going to be pregnant again soon. I think Bundelas will keep being angry with her till then. Then they will be like "we forgive you" as if they are doing some charity. Actually she is just a doormat for them and I dislike Ichha for putting up with them. If I was in her place, I would have left Bundela house with Kanha and Mukta.



Well said I agree your with each and every point. I dont get veer's accusations on iccha not trusting him, dint she trust him when he hugged sanchi (thinking she is iccha), didnt she trust him for that whole rape attempt case fiasco. (I dont remember more incidents at this moment).

He is the one never trusts here, sachi & satya issue she shared her concerns he brushed it off she had to drink poison to make him believe (i dont think it is sane option but anyway)

Tappu pregnancy issue, she had to leave him. I think she forgave him too soon here.

When she claimed their child is alive. he never paid attention to her.

in my view Veer is not a good husband (sorry veer fans) he is lovey dovey only in good times. At all the times she needed him badly he was never really there for her.
Mai because of whom fake vansh came into their life all tragedy got forgiven sooo easily ( i hate iccha to the core in this matter)
Iccha who is concerned for her both sons safety is being treated like this very unfair. Atleast he could have called her for pooja.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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icchha is indeed right who can scarifice one child for another
but her nature or rather her character in which she wants to do everything on her own is wrong.
she never involve her family the bundelas in anything and when she did tb tk bahut der ho chuki hoti h.
if she had hugged yuvi first and thn asked abt kanha would be somewhat relaxing fr her family but she didn't do tht and started interrogating veer.
and ya i agree she need to fight fr yuvi also she cant just cry everytime .if she can fight fr kanha she should do the same fr yuvi.
we can see veer concer abt icchaa during the pooja.he wants to call her but didn't do the same which makes me feel upset.

she should have trusted veer like in all the past scenario.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Luv4games

although i dont see the logic in the incident that you mentioned i respect your moms feelings...however picking one child over another is not the best option...i mean if she cared for your little bro it wouldnt mean that she hates or does not care for her daughter...but making one child suffer for another is also not right...this is the same way of some fathers hating their newborn child if their wife died during labor and neglect the child...that is not fair...it is not the child's fault...

I agree that if my sister fell from terrace, it was not my bro's fault.
But I understand my mother's POV too. She had 2 daughters and she loved both a lot but always wanted a son too (you know Indian's usual obsession about having a son). So my brother was born after lots of prayers. When my sister's life was in danger, my mother thought that she was destined to have only 2 kids and because she was not satisfied with the 2 that she had God decided to give her a son but take back an existing child. She actually prayed to God that day in front of everyone to take back the son if he wants but dont take my sister. I know its not logical but mother's love is never logical.
Her situation was a lot similar to Ichha's in this case. Avinash wanted to take Kanha to give Yuvi. Ichha refused the exchange. My mom also thought that it was an exchange that God was doing and refused it.
In a country where some people abort unborn girl child or kill newborn girl, my mother's refusal is applaudable in a way.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree that if my sister fell from terrace, it was not my bro's fault.
But I understand my mother's POV too. She had 2 daughters and she loved both a lot but always wanted a son too (you know Indian's usual obsession about having a son). So my brother was born after lots of prayers. When my sister's life was in danger, my mother thought that she was destined to have only 2 kids and because she was not satisfied with the 2 that she had God decided to give her a son but take back an existing child. She actually prayed to God that day in front of everyone to take back the son if he wants but dont take my sister. I know its not logical but mother's love is never logical.
Her situation was a lot similar to Ichha's in this case. Avinash wanted to take Kanha to give Yuvi. Ichha refused the exchange. My mom also thought that it was an exchange that God was doing and refused it.
In a country where some people abort unborn girl child or kill newborn girl, my mother's refusal is applaudable in a way.



Oh my god... what a difficult situation to be in...thanks for sharing this with us

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