Ichha is right. Bundelas and Veer are selfish

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Bundelas and even Veer are acting plain stupid.🤢😡 Its true she freaked out when she did not see Kahna with Veer and did not pick up Yuvi. But for a mother sacrifice of one kid for another is pure unacceptable.
I remember an incident from my childhood. We are 2 sisters and a kid brother. We were having a function in our home the day my brother turned 10 days (namkaran). Just before the ceremony started my elder sister (who was 10 years at that time) fell from the terrace and got unconscious. My father rushed to hospital with her. My mother refused to touch my newborn brother saying that he has come to take sacrifice of her daughter and she does not want him. She refused to touch him till my sister gained consciousness even when my father called from hospital to say that my sister was out of danger. My fathers sister and her husband sat in the puja during the ceremony because of this. When my sister got conscious in the evening, only then my mother picked up my brother. Everyone understood how she felt. Noone blamed her for her behaviour with her son. That too in a country where sons are usually valued far more than daughters. I applaud my mother for considering daghters and son equally always. 👏
Ichha's siuation was similar. She had to sacrifice one son to get another. She refused to do so. It was a matter of luck that Veer was able to save Kanha too. And when Ichha had seen Yuvi she wanted to make sure Kanha was fine before picking up Yuvi. I think that is normal and any mother would/should do that. If Bundelas think that is wrong they are mad and very selfish.😡
And who does Veer think think he is to ask Ichha to trust him with Kanha's life? Is he superman? 😉 When Ichha was being raped she called him, and what did he do? Came in front of a car and himself went to hospital. I'm not saying that that accident was his fault. Only that circumstances are unpredictable. And Ichha did not want to risk Kanha's life by sending him to Avinash even if Veer was there to save him.
I read somewhere that Ichha is going to be pregnant again soon. I think Bundelas will keep being angry with her till then. Then they will be like "we forgive you" as if they are doing some charity. Actually she is just a doormat for them and I dislike Ichha for putting up with them. If I was in her place, I would have left Bundela house with Kanha and Mukta.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
I empathise with your own real-life story.

When I was writing the WU for that episode, I was giving my own comments and at one place where they show Ichha hugging Kanha after accusing Veer.. and Veer looking sad and heartbroken, I wrote "Rightfully so!" because I thought Veer was hurt and heartbroken because his wife didn't trust him.
BUT that was just one of the on-the-spot comments because I was watching the episode AND writing the update simultaneously.
Later when I watched the episode the second time and saw Veer's reaction after that AND him sort of 'banning' Ichha from picking up Yuvraj, I absolutely HATED IT!!!!!
I am a Veecha fan, a Veer fan AND an Icha fan...
Icha has disappointed me a LOT in the past with her over-mahaan, over-sacrificing nature... but Veer had never disappointed me in the past until now!
I am absolutely disgusted with ALL the Bundelas... even Umed broke my 'illusion' of thinking him as the MOST sensible person in that house!!!!!
Now they're gonna show Icha preggers again and Bundelas will be happy with her JUST cuz she's a child-bearing machine!!!!!!
HORRENDOUS!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@gksk, good post...and thanks for sharing your real life story...that's how a mother is, really.
Bundelas are a bunch of hopeless morons...but such people do exist in real life..

Coming to Veer, he did disappoint yesterday...but I think that was just to drag the drama, he is going to speak out today in favor of ichcha as he loves her a lot & really cares for her. He is badly hurt...and all the past episodes of ichcha not trusting him are finally showing in this form. com'mon he is no superman as you said, what iccha did to him several times in the past had almost ruined his life...so he has the right to be upset with ichcha for sometime...ichcha's concern for kanha is justified, but she should not have blamed him for being partial knowing him so well...afterall he accepted mukta & kanha wholeheartedly,agreed to not having their own kids... you need guts to do that...and even she is also not talking to Veer!! I won't be judgmental & say Veer is selfish, he is just heartbroken, problem lies both ends.

Remember, how Veer was upset with Ichcha after she reminded him rudely that she was his bhabhi...I just adored the way he showed his frustration for many days & got one call ... just ran to save her..😍
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but you know? Veer is very much partial.!!When taps prego fiasco was going on, he gave maa adhikar to tappu and ichcha as chotte maa🤢 Even when Ichcha told the truth he said how could she be jealous and so many examples..even ystrday he didn't even make khana sit with him😡 Whenever his ego is hurt he turns out to be a worst personality
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey @hermione8, you liked my post...good to see you after a long time on forum, & miss your wonderful posts.😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Khana is there only.Why Iccha wants Khana to be in this family.I cant Understand.Better she can send him to residential school where they will treat him properly.Is bundela family name is a charity she can give to any baby.She is not practical .Khana is there oly He can come and sit.If he stands then Ok.Iccha wants to become a mahan in others sacrifice.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: FunLyfe

Hey @hermione8, you liked my post...good to see you after a long time on forum, & miss your wonderful posts.😊


Hi Vijaya, thank you.. I like Veecha, but if any of them make blunders, I get annoyed and thrash both of them 😆.. As you know I had stopped watching, but started again when I came to know that there is a chance of Yuvi's truth getting exposed and Nani getting punished.. But alas, Nani has not been reported to the police either by Rathore or Jogi or the Bundelas and she is happily living in Rathore's premises like a queen. The CVs' idea of punishment is a few slaps for Taps when she was exposed in Aug 2010 for her crimes and just a few beatings to Pushkar (not even that to Nani😲) for Nani's crimes..😡🤢😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: hermione8


Hi Vijaya, thank you.. I like Veecha, but if any of them make blunders, I get annoyed and thrash both of them 😆.. As you know I had stopped watching, but started again when I came to know that there is a chance of Yuvi's truth getting exposed and Nani getting punished.. But alas, Nani has not been reported to the police either by Rathore or Jogi or the Bundelas and she is happily living in Rathore's premises like a queen. The CVs' idea of punishment is a few slaps for Taps when she was exposed in Aug 2010 for her crimes and just a few beatings to Pushkar (not even that to Nani😲) for Nani's crimes..😡🤢😆


Right Chitra, even I was waiting to see nani & pushkar getting punished by law...that's really very bad. Criminals never get punished in uttaran, in fact they get all the good things in life without any effort..🤢..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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although i dont see the logic in the incident that you mentioned i respect your moms feelings...however picking one child over another is not the best option...i mean if she cared for your little bro it wouldnt mean that she hates or does not care for her daughter...but making one child suffer for another is also not right...this is the same way of some fathers hating their newborn child if their wife died during labor and neglect the child...that is not fair...it is not the child's fault...

of course it wouldnt be right for iccha to give khana to his uncle but the least she could do was tell everyone what the kidnapper wanted...but she didnt do that...she let yuvraj suffer and kept him in danger...she could have kept khana and told the police and rathore and veer that she was getting phone calls...what was her plan?? let yuvraj die and keep quite because she had to protect khana...

when she saw khana she was hugging him and kissing him and she fought with mai and veer for khana even before this incidence when the adoption thing came up...but for yuvraj she is not fighting with mai or veer...she is his mom...she should go and snatch her child from mai and keep him safe with her just like she did with khana...but no iccha is very partial...she feels that she needs to love khana and mukhta more because they are not biologically hers but she doesnt feel the same way about yuvraj...crying is not going to help...she has to take action just like she did with keeping mukhta and khana...i

and she needs to understand that she cant just bring any child and make everyone accept them...she knows that khana and mukhta are not treated good there so instead of making them suffer more and having abusive childhood why doesnt she just move out and give them a good life like veer always wanted too...


iccha's biggest problem is that she will get herself in trouble and then complain or cry and act innocent...

1. she allowed tapu to sit in mandap instead of her and then cried buckets...she should have said no and gotten married to veer herself...

2. she didnt tell veer and family about his infertility issues and tapu's pregnancy and then cried buckets and act like a victim when no one believed her later on coz of her previous lies...

3. she let nani abuse her and never said anything to the point that nani had the audacity to insult her in her own house

4. she went to a strangers house and then got involved into all of the khana inheritance issue

5. she forced khana and mukhta on the family when they made their feelings quite clear from day one and did not move out like veer wanted to give the kids a better future

6.she would go breastfeed yuvraj and lie to veer and then cry when veer got mad at her

7. she is the one who didnt tell anyone that she knew who took her son for days and let him in danger because she picked one son over another instead of keeping them both safe.

8. she is the one not taking an action against mai and taking her son from her...

in all the situations iccha put herself into them all...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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this is show is going insane now...poor!

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