i understand tapsya---read why:MOD NOTE PG27 - Page 10

Originally posted by: mslucki

easy to say that if ur parents loved n adopted the maid's children the same as u it would'nt affect u but when it happens then u can talk .

it's human nature to feel unsecure n especially if it is an 8 yr old child :-)

jogi made a mistake by killing icha's dad but tapu had to pay for it by sharing her dad...

lots of accidents happen everyday...does that mean u adopt everyone n bring their family home??? be practical

if people make a mistake then they help as much as they can but they put their children 1st!!!

there is hell lot difference in feeling and doing same and by the way hell lot accidents happen every day but is it logical to run away from the situation like a coward and not all people come as servants to your house whose one family member you have killed by accident and hearing damini's story only a heartless person will not do what jogi did to them ..that woman was not a born servant ..she was thrown out her villiage because puhskar the great said that her husband is jailed ..she became like that because of jogi's one mistake ..in such condition what a person should do let them die out because you were not wrong and please do tell me where he neglected Tapasya ..Tapasya is only a spoilt brat not insecure ..do you really think she did all the crimes for her insceuirty of love towards her parents only one crime she did so far leaving ichcha in forest we can overlook that by saying she was a child but in others pure jealousy cases nothing else where was insecurity of love there do let us know ..and one thing more jogi did that accident by mistake no doubt but he became culprit when he ran away from the situation and left every thing in pushkar's hands not accepting his mistake and doing repentment for it ..contacting the victims family even thinking about them which costed damini a lot and this is for what he feels himself guilty of till now

i wonder where people have lost their sense of judgement😕 ..Tapasya did all the crimes in her insecurity of love really ..so far she has done only one crime as a child leaving ichcha in forest but others,... her marriage to veer was her insecurity of love great ..what an awesome insecurity which arised after seeing the bracelet , car, house ,all that stuff that too in presence of a boyfreind who has pierced her name on his arm ..that too for that person whom she neglected before and even jogi asked her before fixing veecha's marriage but she had no problem insecurity suddenly arised after seeing ichcha one step higher than her ..she planned ichcha's murder for her insecurity of love towards her parents really ? she was happily saying two people love me the most one ichcha , one sid ..who can do anything for me this was her insecurity of love she planned that murder to get that man's love who didn't accept her i think when something terrible happens to one person he / she avoids doing it to others but Tappu the great could not bear ichcha taking a small share of her father's love and on other hand she was expecting veer to love her after taking his love away from him ..and don't balme nani here because ever since Tappu grew up most of the times she dragged nani into her planning ..it was she who gave the idea she wanted to marry veer ..it was her plans to spoil ichcha's mehndi , sangeet , even seducing veer ...similarly nani never knew about ichcha's murder attempt , nani never knew about vansh it was Tappu's planning entirely where she dragged nani too, i think nani always told Tappu to calm down and win veer's heart politely but she was blackmailing him.. she robbed because of her insecurity ?..nani's idea was fake pregnancy but she never knew about her having rathore's child ..it is absolutely illogical to say that someone can create anything in your heart others can only fuel ..ever read the play Macbeth ..Macbeth was a man of high esteem , but he murdered king ..he was instigated by his wife but no one justifies his act even shakespear didn't and killed him in the end why because the greed of becoming king was already there in his heart which was fueled by his wife and he did the crime he was not small baby who cannot think about right and wrong so is Tapasya all the crimes she did when grew up her own full intentionally . she was not illetrate woman who doesn't know what is right what is wrong ...she only listened to nani when things are of her benefit otherwise she never gave her a damn ..so who is to be blamed here and going by the great logic been given here she would definitely felt insecure like that if ichcha would be her real sibling because you are getting all the love and suddenly someone comes and you have to share your love ...jealousy happens to a lot people.. people murders others in jealousy ..Tapasya's approach with jealousy is understandable but this insecurity of love is very much illogical..i am not saying jogi has no role in spoiling her yes he has but not why he brought ichcha home but the thing is he never gave her chance to repent properly each time she did a mistake or i should say sin he punished her but later forgive her without even letting her apologise and start his laad pyar ..divya she never did anything..ichcha the biggest responsible she fulfilled her each unnceassry demand spoiling her more and more ..Tapasya is nothing but a spoilt brat even rathore said that laad pyar day kar bigar diya so true ..and i think even rashmi desai does not justify her character Tapasya like that she always come up with this Tapasya is like this i am not like this..i never read her saying Tapasya is like this because of her parents partiality she is like this,..she always call her spoilt brat , psycho ..i think a person who plays a character knows well what his /her character is really like than outsiders 😆

@kikyo ..well said 👏 and hey you are coming under company effect with me writing long long posts😉😆...

i agree with the post...but the thing is...many ppl the will just appreciate the projected goodness of icha...they wont take into account the pain of taps and what made are become like that or what's it to feel to be in her position...good that ppl are there who come to understood such complexity

i think religion is most prestigious one ..we all follow some religion ..in every religion there is defined logic of sin.. what is sin? , does any religion justifes a person's wrong act that has done bad of any innocent whether in jealousy , insecurity , pain, in instigation ? certanily not ..so who are we to justify think about it before justifying Tappu's acts

Clearly we have a reason for feeling sorry for Tapu if there are so many people that are ready to feel sympathy for someone who has attempted murder and done other bad things which I certainly dont deny. But so many of us are not insane to feel bad for her. We have our reasons.

well no one says don't feel sorry for her its your wish you feel sorry for Hitler or osama ( i am not comparing them just an example appreciate anyone ) its your wish then don't object others views too ..there is reason for other persons actions too..if anyone proclaims he / she can see the reasons than see others too if can't then better not bring real life logics here just say i love Tappu thats why she is angel for me ..if you bring then accept others pov too ..they are not insane either

Originally posted by: intruderfast

di r u in😆 , i think this show will rock big time my father had watched dhoop kinarey and he said it was a magical show, i expect this to be good too, promos r very good the the pair is nice

Originally posted by: mslucki

easy to say that if ur parents loved n adopted the maid's children the same as u it would'nt affect u but when it happens then u can talk .

it's human nature to feel unsecure n especially if it is an 8 yr old child :-)

jogi made a mistake by killing icha's dad but tapu had to pay for it by sharing her dad...

lots of accidents happen everyday...does that mean u adopt everyone n bring their family home??? be practical

if people make a mistake then they help as much as they can but they put their children 1st!!!

its even easy 2 follow wat i preach!!and i m v.much practical but wid a humane approach. my father used 2 bring same amount & same things 4 his bro's kids but we never felt bad or jealous. we'd maid wen i was young who was given new clothes & oder things but i never called her servant & even never felt jealous of her!! even now we'd a maid who has a 3yr. old daughter & on her birthday my mom prepared halwa but i didn't feel jealous. may b sum ppl feel it who've not a bit of humane approach 2wards ppl poorer or subordinate 2 them!!

forgiveness is attribute of strong people , not cowards, says Gandhi, we all make mistakes, if we want to switch over to good life, why people feel itchy about it? I believe in leaving your mistakes behind and move on, so I forgive Tappu, she is now choosing the right path and she now deserve all happiness. no comments on Iccha, I dont believe in pushing others down to move upwards. Just my point of view I know fastists will not agree with me but do I care ? certainly not...