i understand tapsya---read why:MOD NOTE PG27

hi guys...i know everyone thinks tapu is evil and a psycho and cracked in the head but there is a reason behind that

i just read ur title and dont want to read further more.. .😊

Originally posted by: mkdeepaa

i just read ur title and dont want to read further more.. .😊

Well its been my exact view for the last almost 3 years. Yet people think IM crazy.😕 Now what to do? However I would love to see what would happen to alot of these people if they were put in the same position as Tapu. I can bet 99% of them would feel the same way! Because its human psyche to feel that way.

Very fresh logic. Never heard in this forum 😉

Originally posted by: crisps21

I *somewhat* agree with you... not totally...

Jogi is not completely at fault here... as far as I noticed in the childhood episodes, he ALWAYS put Tapasya's happiness first... he even let Divya keep a servant's daughter on his daughter's insistence... remember when Tapu fell sick cuz Divya had kicked Damini and Ichha out??

Also, ALL the times when baby Tapu expressed her anger at Ichha being given more love than her - Divya and Jogi were shocked that their daughter was going through a tough phase... AND once Jogi even told her that he will ask Ichha to leave if that is what Tappu wants... anyone remembers that episode??

At that time, miraculously, Nani was nowhere near Tappu so she couldn't be poisoned and she actually thought that Ichha was her best friend and shouldn't leave the house!

She had the golden opportunity to tell her father to ask Ichha Damini to leave!!

PLUS, eventually, just before they showed the girls grown up... Tappu asked for a couple of huge promises from Ichha... she told her how jealous she feels when Tappu's father loves Ichha... but how can Ichha STOP Jogi from loving her? Should she have started misbehaving so that Jogi got angry with her??

At that time agar Ichha jaan boojh kar koi bura kaam karti, taakeh Jogi usko pyar na karein, Nani and Divya would have cursed Ichha that naukron ka khoon hai, aisa to karegi hi... and blah blah...

It's nearly 90% Nani's influence and 10% Tappu's own nature... Insaan ka nature (fitrat) pehle se bani hui hoti hai... usko koi thora bohat to badal sakta hai, lekin drastic changes nahi aasakte :)

Jogi ka qusoor sirf itna tha, ke wo apna 'prayashchit' karne ke chakkar mein Ichha ko pyar dete gaye, aur Ichha apni maan ke diye hue sanskaaron ki wajah se achi se achi hoti gayee...

Jealousy is common even between real siblings... but there's a limit to jealousy... usually when someone's jealous, they try to do better on their own, not try to diminish the other person's qualities in order to shine!!

excellent crisps! Nice reply!

Originally posted by: SRKLuvr

Well its been my exact view for the last almost 3 years. Yet people think IM crazy.😕 Now what to do? However I would love to see what would happen to alot of these people if they were put in the same position as Tapu. I can bet 99% of them would feel the same way! Because its human psyche to feel that way.

Originally posted by: mslucki

hi guys...i know everyone thinks tapu is evil and a psycho and cracked in the head but there is a reason behind that

jogi has loved icha as his own daughter...tapu has had to watch her own dad treat an orphan the same as his own daughter...

who can bear their own parents allow some1 else to call them "mum" or "dad"

personally i feel all this has lead on to tapu turning the way she is- a bit sour at times but this is due to frustration

i know jogi accidentally killed icha's dad why why is he acting all "mahaan" and taking his daughters right away but i feel he has given icha a dad but taken 1 away fron tapu

some people will differ but put ur self in tapu's place,

what if ur dad brings a random child home with her mum and starts calling your dad "dad" and on top of that acts all goody goody to get in ur dad's good books

obviously tapu didn't know why icha is being treated so nicely from jogi and poison is bound to fill in tapu's mind

jogi has over compensated with icha at the cost of his own child

i would love to know ur thoughts on this :-)

wow what a grt selfish thought put up by u ...
Not every child is selfish like tappu ...step out of yr dream world . There r many persons in the world who inspite of having biological kids adopt kids from elsewhere or orphans . I myself know such families where one kid is bilological n one is adopted .
Its common in catholic families in europe or America to have foster kids as part of helping orphans in communities .

Have you ever seen the movie Blind Side . how a white woman brings a black teenager into her home , n how her family one day make him big enough to b a very popular n successful baseball player n no her own kids were not hateful towards him .

how many times did Jogi neglect Tappu ..once when he was teaching Icha a poem n Tappu wanted attention right then n when Icha's fav food was made just once , n yes he dint bring a new cycle for Tappu as she had one working fine ...all thse made her psycho ????


she had thse seed of evil always in her mind thts wy she has kept plotting against Ichcha right from childhood .

n Oh what if a kid gets baby sis or baby brother of his own?? would it be right for a gal or baby to feel hatred for baby bro/sis just coz that new bro/sis calls his/her dad as dad 😕😲


I wonder how Tappu had behaved if Divya had given birth to a child , Maybe Tappu had harmed that child too ...I m so sure

Its normal to b jealous of a new child in the house whther its a cousin, a sibling , biological or adopted but its abnormal to b psycho like tappy ..yuckkk😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

Originally posted by: ankit111

@bold, i can bet no sane person will turn a criminal for tht little jealousy, feeling bad and turning criminal is very different things, some time try to understand other human psychology too except ur baby's😆😆

I didnt say anything about turning criminal😆 I said 99% of people would feel the same thing that Tapasya was feeling at the time she realised she was no longer the sole importance or the sole daughter of Jogi.