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Arunima

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: mslucki

we are not talking about sibling we are talking about a servants daughter being given the right to call tapu's dad "dad"

even i fight with my bro's n sis but we also love each other very much but if my parents decided to give a random person brought into the house the same rights as my siblings and that too since childhood...it would get to me

i'm not mahaan enough to share my parents with a servant but looks like some people on this forum are :-)

guys be real even if u show that u are okay with how jogi treats icha, if this happened in your house and u had a person like icha who is an absolute angel...u will feel like poisoning her at 1 point in your life :-D

It depends on values & thinking if u can accept a person who is adopted as a sister. When people refuse to grow up n b mature n then commit crimes , there is no justification

n one more thing servants...well oh ..how many servants do u have , I wonder if u dont feel uncomfortable if Ur servant does come n u hav to cook n clean all by yrself ...Oh 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

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rani-lucki

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Posted: 13 years ago

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It depends on values & thinking if u can accept a person who is adopted as a sister. When people refuse to grow up n b mature n then commit crimes , there is no justification

n one more thing servants...well oh ..how many servants do u have , I wonder if u dont feel uncomfortable if Ur servant does come n u hav to cook n clean all by yrself ...Oh 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

i have been born n brought up england and we don't have servants here so daily i do everything by my self but when i go back to asia to visit family i do have servants to cook, clean n drive for me because i'm on holiday :-)

so servant or no servant----i can survive :-D

but i treat the servants and their children nicely but i don't give them the same place as my siblings or children (when i hav them)...do i hav to adopt one of them to show that i respect them??????

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I come after 6months , its same thing in forum , i love taps caz she was manipulated or she is jealous as her father was loving a orphan more , just give it a break , like said , so u have a bro or sis and if she gets more love from parents start behaving like taps, or a step brother or step sister ... gosh wat a mind blowing logic

I have a Question , why servants and their kids are treated as trash or untouchable ????? My mom gives goodies and clothes to our maids daughter , do i need to get all jealous and go hunt down her happiness only caz my mom does it ?????????

its not like taps was completely IGNORED or disowned by family, she cut herself from family and no one throw-ed her out even after her ever green Mahan karname

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BeautyBabe

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Jogi didn't adopt a servant's daughter to show how he respect his servants but adopted a child who became orphan because of him , that woman's daughter who became widow because of him..what was wrong in that 🥱what you guys think he should have done? ...give Damini few money and throw her out or responsbility of her child's raising till money demands ...thats it ...can all money bring her father back to her or his love back to her ..do you know how those children who have either one of their parents missing survive ..Jogi's sin is that he realised what ichcha has lost because of him thats why he adopted her ...and where he neglected Tapasya do tell me ..just a few incidents where he gave ichcha love but what about thousand those incidents where he was doing Tapasya Tapasya .everything came for Tapasya first ..what she asked she got it from Jogi ...Jogi only started preferring ichcha when Tapasya betrayed his trust , his faith in her ..and it's natural for any person to try to find console in others when his own dear ones betray him..never heard of this apno say paraye achay ...Jealousy is a common thing even biological children have with each other but it doesn't mean they start to do crimes like Tapasya did...till child ok we can say she was a child , ignorant , but when she grew up if then she commits such horrible crimes then you cannot put blame of this on childhood jealousy ..she is even now jealous of ichcha being pregnant what is the reason for it .here too Jogi's love for ichcha is to be blamed ...

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Twinkie_Star

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Posted: 13 years ago

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If tapasya doesn't want to share her father's love, she should have told to her father and send iccha and damini away from her home...Jogi kept them there just for tappu's happiness...Jogi started supporting iccha after he came to know the charcter of his own daughter...and he tried his best to make tapasya understand what is right and wrong but tappu acted before jogi that she liked iccha...

How can we justify that because of all the jealous she made vanch to do suicide (what vanch did wrong to tappu), tried to kill iccha, cheating bundela by her pregnency...

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rani-lucki

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: JustJ
I come after 6months , its same thing in forum , i love taps caz she was manipulated or she is jealous as her father was loving a orphan more , just give it a break , like said , so u have a bro or sis and if she gets more love from parents start behaving like taps, or a step brother or step sister ... gosh wat a mind blowing logic

I have a Question , why servants and their kids are treated as trash or untouchable ????? My mom gives goodies and clothes to our maids daughter , do i need to get all jealous and go hunt down her happiness only caz my mom does it ?????????

its not like taps was completely IGNORED or disowned by family, she cut herself from family and no one throw-ed her out even after her ever green Mahan karname

theres a difference between helping like u said giving clothes to servants but letting them call your parents "mum or dad" over does it a little and tapu was a child when all this was happening so so naturally felt insecure

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Twinkie_Star

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: mslucki

theres a difference between helping like u said giving clothes to servants but letting them call your parents "mum or dad" over does it a little and tapu was a child when all this was happening so so naturally felt insecure

Because of insecurity she has to do all the crimes??

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ankit111

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Very well said jaya, kikyo lemma and Aru, but no use of it. Its endless
I m tired of hearing Tapu is ignored type things as if she was tortured and received nothing from parents. I don't see anywhere she was ignored. If tht small things call ignorance and give license to commit crimes thn god save this world from criminals. If Tapu bitiya problem is why other is getting same thing as she is thn she need help from professionals. God save patents from such daughter whn ur any action of ur for other can turn ur daughter criminal. Atleast now Tapu know why his father adopted Ichchha, but instead supporting him she went to prove his father a murderer. Beti ho to aisi. Hats off to Tapu bitiya. And the moral of story never repent ur mistake, like TAPU, becoz may cause insecurity in ur own daughter. Repentance is very bad quality. Jealousy is the best quality of human being. It give u licence to commit any kind of crime and u will find the defenders 😉 😉

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: mslucki

theres a difference between helping like u said giving clothes to servants but letting them call your parents "mum or dad" over does it a little and tapu was a child when all this was happening so so naturally felt insecure

OK , well my mom loves kids, and she make our neighbor's kids calls her NANI or DADI (AMMAMA in Telugu ) ,well , those kids are low class ones , unlike tapu does this mean my Nephew feel insecure ??????? or start throwing faltu tantrum or go and kick those kids or harm them in any manner ??????? (well if this is baseless , so is all the tapu is right , stuff is , )

Pleeech just stop treating any other kid who is not related to OWN FAMILY as a NO BODY or TRASH ...

Hang on , some one said they can get along without servants , well do they drive their own vehicle ??? drive bus or so ??? even that is considered as SERVICE provided by LOW CLASS ppl , teachers are also public servants unless its posh private high fi colleges and alll , resturants and everything is drive by services of low class ppl alone (oh dont come and say no low class ppl own hotels, i meant the ones who cook their , again dont bring phamous names like sanjeev kapur and alll )

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TitanFan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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I know Ankit, i am glad that Icha is just a SERVANTS daughter and not Taps own sister, else i shudder to think amazing logic we get to see here ...