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Smriti

@serialjunkie

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Posted: 14 years ago

#121

the flawed logic i see in many arguments is that if someone supports woman's rights and empowerment, he/she is automatically labeled anti-male. Are men so insecure that if someone stands for women's empowerment, they feel threatened? I didn't think so.

how can anyone make broad generalizations is beyond me. for one, a family might decide that child care is not the right option for them, so be it. but its not fair or right to say its not an option for anyone in the world.

quality versus quantity of time is what matters. and for all among us who feel that mom's best sacrifice is her sacrifice of her career, good for you that you can afford to do that. others may not. so dont crucify them with moral weight of righteousness because no one has proprietorship on raising great children.

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441597

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Posted: 14 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: ankit111
Whatever I m saying it dosnt mean tht I m against equality but I m against making it fashion to criticize male and make it symbol of modernity 😆 😆 😆

I don't see anyone "criticising male" here. Nor would I condone blind misandry at any time myself. The main issue was primarily with an apparentkly educated member making a sweeping comments like, "how the female elephantine ego was the thing responsible for every divorce in the 21st era". Such statements are eminently disagreeable from all angles, both ethical and sensitive. Also, a statement like this serves to re-inforce the long-trashed notion of women being the impulsive "born-to-sufferers" who must be willing Sacrificial Lambs at the altar of the all-famous "Phamily an' Kids ". Which I believe is an eyesore to behold, even if expressed as a mere "opinion" by someone.

We must realize that its not either the male or the female who must be tied to the Bullock-cart of shouldering the entire responsibilites of anything. Hope I've made my point clear now. This is not about female-bashing or the reverse, its about the much-laboured-for word "Equality".😃😛

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441597

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Posted: 14 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

I know 😆😆😆😆 thats what it looks like...😆 kab tak we are going to cash in on "abla naari" funda's?😆 jab baat aayi toh we are equals nahi toh ...uff I am a woman😭 how can a man do that to a woman! 😭

Ah...Hello, hello? FAIL! That's NOT what you said in your first post. You clearly said, "The sole reason for divorce is the elephantine female ego" which is actually the case in reverse more.😛 Also, click any divorce-related site and the statistics nullify any validity of your archaic statement.😳

I'll just go meanwhile and debate my 3 year-old niece on this, whose mom is a working woman and who is taken well care of, even though she gets her creche hours.😆😆 I'm sure SHE'S more reasonable, intelligent and sensible on this issue than you'll ever be .😉 MOST (tots) will be.😉 😆

Ciao. Happy job contradicting, calculating and backtracking in every post you make after this.😳

Edited by krystal_watz - 14 years ago

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#124

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Now what's ALL THIS?🤣 An attempt to salvage a faux pas you made by concentrating on that typo in the first place?😆😆

Haven't you heard the collquial term, "Oh man..."?😛 If not, then you're so lost.

@Green: Pardon? Didn't comprehend that pearl of wisdom, please elaborate on what you exactly meant.🥱😲😲

In fact, I think you could do well with spending some time trying to scoop out sense from anything you write or have written till now, in this thread. Right from that comment in red which I highlighted and the one that caused so much heartburn to ...

Actually, NOTHING that went ahead from there made any sense with respect to the actual topic we (mainly me and some others) were discussing here.🥱

Yes dear, only Bhaag Bhosadike Bhaag 🤢 makes sense to you. I know. 😒

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

Ah...Hello, hello? FAIL! That's NOT what you said in your first post. You clearly said, "The sole reason for divorce is the elephantine female ego" which is actually the case in reverse more.😛 Also, click any divorce-related site and the statistics nullify any validity of your archaic statement.😳

I'll just go meanwhile and debate my 3 year-old niece on this, whose mom is a working woman and who is taken well care of, even though she gets her creche hours.😆😆 I'm sure SHE'S more reasonable, intelligent and sensible on this issue than you'll ever be .😉 MOST (tots) will be.😉 😆

Ciao. Happy job contradicting, calculating and backtracking in every post you make after this.😳

This is it! 😡 If you are educated enough, stop misquoting me and picking on me. I never said that its "THE ONLY REASON" for divorce. I smell some real life experience in some sour stinky comments. Stay with it and stop misquoting me.

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sonali_dg

@sonali_dg

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: krystal_watz

I don't see anyone "criticising male" here. Nor would I condone blind misandry at any time myself. The main issue was primarily with an apparentkly educated member making a sweeping comments like, "how the female elephantine ego was the thing responsible for every divorce in the 21st era". Such statements are eminently disagreeable from all angles, both ethical and sensitive. Also, a statement like this serves to re-inforce the long-trashed notion of women being the impulsive "born-to-sufferers" who must be willing Sacrificial Lambs at the altar of the all-famous "Phamily an' Kids ". Which I believe is an eyesore to behold, even if expressed as a mere "opinion" by someone.

We must realize that its not either the male or the female who must be tied to the Bullock-cart of shouldering the entire responsibilites of anything. Hope I've made my point clear now. This is not about female-bashing or the reverse, its about the much-laboured-for word "Equality".😃😛

Apparentkly 😆 Phamily 😆 👏👏👏👏👏

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 14 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: sonali_dg

This is it! 😡 If you are educated enough, stop misquoting me and picking on me. I never said that its "THE ONLY REASON" for divorce. I smell some real life experience in some sour stinky comments. Stay with it and stop misquoting me.

yes stop twisting words krystal, sonali clearly said it was one of the reason , u cant blame a member like this. she never said it was the sole reason

so pls if u want to attack someone better have some solid facts with u ,go check the previous posts double check it agar phiir bhi nahin pata chalta then tumhe page no bhi bata denge ok

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_Invincible_

@_Invincible_

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: _Invincible_

Hmmm
quite a controversial and interesting topic ...lemme put in my 1 penny(recession time)😆

regarding day care...and Nothing can come close to the love that a mother feels for her children...and here in western countries no doubt day care facilities r much better but still dey dont treat ur child as special as u treat ur baby...and every baby is special and needs to gets its share...i m a mom and i used to work before my baby was born but i dumped work 4 my baby coz i believe d schooling starts right wen d baby is born...i can bear her fussiness,weird tantrums for nth limit but not d others...most important fact is dat I BELIEVE dat 1 should not have baby untill dey cant care 4 d babies demselves or dere near and dear ones...
as i dont believe dat dumping ur child in day care and u taking up job is sign of being progressive/modern...

day care will teach kids facts, theories or laws, reform or amuse them or make them excel academics but not to unsettle their minds, widen their horizons, inflame their intellect, teach them to think straight, if possible, but to think nevertheless.

regarding mother/father parenting...baby is flesh and blood of both...so both need to play equal role in bringing up d child...i agree wid concept of father helping in bringing up d child but not sole father...i mean why it has to b like only 1 parent can work and other will baby sit kid?
both can divide and equalise d time for work and baby and here in west every next door family is successful in creating dat equilibrium...where both mom and dad work and raise kids without letting dere kids b sole responsibility of baby sitters...yeah its kinda hard 4 ur social life but who cares 4 social life wen it comes to good child upbringing...
and every1 specially NRI's is not lucky to have a hubby who will b ready to baby sit kid and let u earn bread and butter 4 dem and infact we ourselves will not like dat fact...so both need to stand up at all d fronts...

Both MALE and FEMALE should have equal choices and it shouldnt b one sided affair coz dats a cause of frustration and broken marriages 4 sure...