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Posted: 15 years ago
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😉well it has been more than a month, me being a part of this uttaran forum...🥱

n there is sumthng i have felt very strongly... and thts seriously a SERIOUS problem..😕😕

sooo... uttaran has 4 lead characters.. vansh, ichcha, veer and tapasya... 😳😳 respectively being played by rohit khurana, tina dutta, nandish sandhu and rashmi desai...😳

and again there are favourites couples for every1 say, VeeYa, VanCha and VeeRich..👏😆

i knw u guyz know all this... but wht i wana show here is tht how ppl have segmented themselves due to this...😕

every individual has his or her own personal choice and WE all shud RESPECT it...

in this forum, i hav seen how a rashmi fan just hates to hear good abt tina... or how nandish lovers just think negative abt rohit.. or vica versa..
my concern here is why cant ppl just respect others opinions...??
if u really wana hate sum1.. hate the CHARACTERS they are playing... DON'T hate them in person.. AND if u really hate any1 in person then aleast have a STRONG reason behind it.. (say, whn i read abt nandish cheating on his girl, i was really taken aback)😕
u write sumthng good abt tina in a post related to rashmi, there are ppl finding it offensive... or u just write sumthng good abt vansh, there are ppl saying how bad our choice can b...😕
C'MON guyz... grow up..!!😳😳
earlier i thot that i'll stick to just rohit thread coz m a big fan of rohit khurana... but there were topics tht really interested me abt others, so i just cud not stop myself from expressing my viewpoints..
BUT tell me... shud i follow sticking to my favourite's thread...???
but wont tht b wrong..?? WE here at UTTARAN forum are like a family... we LOVE n HATE this series for MANY reasons... we all cum up here n discuss abt things which are of our concern n interest... isnt it..?? so just like a family has ppl with different perceptions n viewpoints... same is wht we have her... LET'S JUST RESPECT IT... if u find sumthng wrong.. JUST put forward ur viewpoints... that's it...
NO FIGHTS please...!!
thank you all...😳😊
P.S. its just an advice.. please dont feel offensive about it... i love all no matter whoever fan u are.. take care..😳😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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ekta i knw that ppl are showing disrespect for the actors other then their fav. and i think if they don't like any actor they should not comment instead of critisising
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Posted: 15 years ago
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what u wrote is really something to think about .... but honeslty its going in one ear and coming out of the other .... some poeple will read it and will say what bakwas .... some will even say woow u know u r right and will give u compliment but ill be just honest people in this forum will fight ...... people on this forum will be friends once itcha and tapu make up ..... for me i like vansh he is one good looking guy sepcially his hair and eyes ..... i like veer because of tapu and i like tapu because of rashmi's acting .... but itcha i dont like her because she is too bholi bhali for me .... and not that i will go in threads and start writing bad about her but i will defend tapu no matter what ...... even now it may seem like that i m going against u and fighting with you but i am not i dont have anything against you at all .... but just giving you honest answer ...... thanks for the thread

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good post Ekta... you hve addressed a real issue here....
only thing i can say is that every individual has to deal with this maturely ....we come here to discuss our POV related with uttaran and have some fun with all the good friends we have made here...and shud continue doing just that.....😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very well said👏..I m happy to see such positive posts in this forum..this is what we mods hv been trying to tell everyone right from Day one..plss reaspect each other's opinion and don't mix between reel and real😊...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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very nice post ekta... .. you gave me chance to share my feelings about it.. my heart cries for the situation that this forum has been divided in groups and group wars have become the forte of this forum... if i look few months back i see new people coming to this forum and saying its the most fun loving and welcoming from on IF. and i was proud for that comment ... we use to argue about good and bad at the same time we had been laughing on some funny news... that was my uttaran... but then group-ism started...from where??? fan clubs...yes the fan clubs on this forum was the first brick of this wall of division i m not blaming anyone even me myself started a fan club.... so the whole forum which had manners of arguments and making fun,,became war-zone .... and then personal attacks were there as the last nail into coffin ...

see friends we all educated, we come from respectable families, and we bash each other for the fictional characters... who are get paid for it,get awards, get name and fame and celebrity status.... and what we get??nothing instead we are loosing our mannerism for these people...majority of us come here to enjoy ourselves not to take part into the fights and politics... i m a student i can get a time from my life for fighting...and no one will come to a forum where the members always keep fighting.... will they???

i spent the most beautiful moments of my life with the members of this forum ,i cried,laughed on this forum... i cant see it as a war-zone... i request you to shed your differences and make this forum a happy and pleasant place as before... as we all are humans, every one has his/her own choice... so we shouldnt hate others just because of their choices.. as before being a veer-ichha fan or veer-tapu fans we all are humans... we should respect each other's POV,,, thanx...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very true. We must all remember that this is after all a tv show, a fictitous event that takes up half an hour of our nighttime and not something for all of us to get our blood boiling towards one another. We are to share our opinions on the show and its various twists and turns and interact in a friendly way with each other. We are here to feel elated at a particular character or plot or feel frustrated as the case may be but we must stick to the show. We should be respectful of each actor and respect them for the role they play coz they are doing a good job in making us love or hate their character.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: bipasha23

ekta i knw that ppl are showing disrespect for the actors other then their fav. and i think if they don't like any actor they should not comment instead of critisising

yes.. this is wht i feel.. if u really wana criticize, CRITISIZE their ACTING skills or the character they PLAY... not them IN-PERSON..
its seriously LIMITS...
if u cant praise sum1, atleat dont criticize.. 😕
HAVE ur favourites, DEFEND THEM... BUT dont write bad about others..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: trupat

what u wrote is really something to think about .... but honeslty its going in one ear and coming out of the other .... some poeple will read it and will say what bakwas .... some will even say woow u know u r right and will give u compliment but ill be just honest people in this forum will fight ...... people on this forum will be friends once itcha and tapu make up ..... for me i like vansh he is one good looking guy sepcially his hair and eyes ..... i like veer because of tapu and i like tapu because of rashmi's acting .... but itcha i dont like her because she is too bholi bhali for me .... and not that i will go in threads and start writing bad about her but i will defend tapu no matter what ...... even now it may seem like that i m going against u and fighting with you but i am not i dont have anything against you at all .... but just giving you honest answer ...... thanks for the thread

i APPRECIATE wht u wrote.. there is nothng bad in hating ichcha or liking tapasya... c'mon its ur choice...😳
DEFEND if u like some1.. tell ppl the reason y u like him... mayb they'll accept it... thats HOW it WORKS...
not by fightng PLEASE...!!😡😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shonuu

very nice post ekta... .. you gave me chance to share my feelings about it.. my heart cries for the situation that this forum has been divided in groups and group wars have become the forte of this forum... if i look few months back i see new people coming to this forum and saying its the most fun loving and welcoming from on IF. and i was proud for that comment ... we use to argue about good and bad at the same time we had been laughing on some funny news... that was my uttaran... but then group-ism started...from where??? fan clubs...yes the fan clubs on this forum was the first brick of this wall of division i m not blaming anyone even me myself started a fan club.... so the whole forum which had manners of arguments and making fun,,became war-zone .... and then personal attacks were there as the last nail into coffin ...

see friends we all educated, we come from respectable families, and we bash each other for the fictional characters... who are get paid for it,get awards, get name and fame and celebrity status.... and what we get??nothing instead we are loosing our mannerism for these people...majority of us come here to enjoy ourselves not to take part into the fights and politics... i m a student i can get a time from my life for fighting...and no one will come to a forum where the members always keep fighting.... will they???

i spent the most beautiful moments of my life with the members of this forum ,i cried,laughed on this forum... i cant see it as a war-zone... i request you to shed your differences and make this forum a happy and pleasant place as before... as we all are humans, every one has his/her own choice... so we shouldnt hate others just because of their choices.. as before being a veer-ichha fan or veer-tapu fans we all are humans... we should respect each other's POV,,, thanx...

seriously... i love coming in this forum n discussing about my favourite rohit...😳😳 coz this is the ONLY place whr i get those ppl who are just like me... CRAZY FOR ROHIT KHURANA...😳😳😆
i have been into numerous websites n have been thrashed left right n centre coz i SUPPORTED VANSH...😭😭 big deal yaar... its MY CHOICE... 😕😕 ppl also have the gutts to say tht i might have been PAID to write good things about him.. UTTER CRAP..😡😡 i felt soo disgusted tht i opted to join UTTARAN FORUM.. 😳
well i DON'T accept EVERYONE to love rohit, but i seriously accept ppl NOT TO WRITE BAD ABOUT HIM..
m ALWAYZ there to defend him...😳😳 but u NEVER will u hear me saying bad abt the person in real... its ONLY reel characters i take my frustration out on... eg. taps coz she killed my vansh...😡😡
THIS IS IT...!! end of story... now if i say i hate taps THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT I HATE RASHMI...🥱😆😆🥱

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