i have seen and blamed ichha too for not accepting veer but i actually found a reson for ichha behaviour
at d time 0f veer came to see tapasya dat became d fist loose point in veerich relationship
any sister would get afraid if the boy likes her bt not her elder sister.moroever she knows taps nature though she meant to says she dont like veer ichha knew dat her nature can change.
morover taps naniđĄ is always der frm fst to make her terify to meet veer. so frm start ichha have fear to meet veer .later when jogi interfered then taps fully accepted dat she dint like veer den ichha became at peace nd felt happy bt again here mai nature came to ichha view .
mai and others gave ichha d feeling dat she is not worthy of veer . dis feelling persisted in ichha mind even she said it to veer once . she always have d feeling dat a america returnd boy like veer can love a girl like her. she always lived in a feeling dat one or another day veer would leave her.đ
and the main drama of taps on marriage nit became a sudden shock for her because she dint knew her plan until dat time taps psyco nature terrified her and her insecurity overcomed her.so she gave veer in shock thinking taps wil be happy nd so would be veer . but dont say dat she forgot veer immediately because she remembered veer dat night and d next day wen tapu returnd home ichha fst qtn was how veer was? den tapu replied not to ask abt veer as he is her husband now. dis made ichha to know dat she have to forgot veer now
but in case of vansh ichha was at start comfortable because vansh came for ichha fst not as second option . nobody was to scare her not to meet him. respect was coming to her due to vansh frm d bundelas . she was not insecure wid vansh and expres her feelings to him which she dint at time of veer . so when taps started interfering wid vansh she was unable to bear d thought of having her life ruined . so dont blame ichha alone for her nature
sorry for d long post