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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi every one,,,and specially our respected moderator Kruthika ji.... i know my topic will soon be trashed or closed but,,,, i m helpless asking few questions almost 4 topics have been closed since yesterday,,, and mine would be 5th in this list,,, but before you close my topic kindly reply me on this post,,,,,

all three post which were closed by you,,have some controversial content (according to you) but as minor member of this forum can i ask??? what was the reason??? after closing 2 topics,,, the third topic named i quit,,,,was not been closed immediately,,,in that post,, the author wrote the name of a member of this forum (shivani109). but no body took action against that act,,which was an open bashing to another member,,,,,even you can ask that member to edit the name of the member to be blamed,,,,, but after,,a long argument that topic finally closed,,,but the question remained unanswered,,,, is their any discrimination b/w members ???

that member ,,,who said to leave the forum because of other members,,, i request her to not to leave,,like this as no one here want other to leave,,, its not a battle feild,,but arguements are the part of such portals,,,and difference of opinion is the beauty of life....

finally,,moderator ji,,,if a post is being closed openly then,,the answers should also be given openly,,,so that all the members see the both sides of a coin.
regards
shonuu.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sonuu there are certain rules on India-forum which mods as well as normal members need to follow and we all work here as per those rules...I already gave those set of rules link yesterday in the other post but still the argument was going on and on and so our fellow mod had to close the topic as these type of issues are suppose to be dealth with PMs and not in a open forum..the reason why India-Forum hv something called as PM Service..
If still things are not clear then try the PM service and clear your doubts instead of making these posts in the open ...Here we r only suppose to discuss about the serial.... and other personal issues r suppose to b discussed via pm..thats a rule made by the admin and Global mods of IF and we mods r only following it..
I will again ask you all to go through the IF code of conduct so that all your doubts get cleared here😊
Edited by jyoti06 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Sonuu there are certain rules on India-forum which mods as well as normal members need to follow and we all work here as per those rules...I already gave those set of rules link yesterday in the other post but still the argument was going on and on [/quote]

With all due respect, whether or not it was intentional, but the moderator instigated this argument, after making ill perceived judgements about mine and Shivan's light humored and well intentioned comments to Rupa. I only wrote only one line and mine was the second post in that thread, where I was later labelled by the moderator as being 'sarcastic'. In other words, I was being accused of being 'sarcastic' to Rupa. I take that as a direct insult and a personal attack. I responded calmly to the Moderator to correct her misunderstanding that this was not the case and it not my intention to be sarcastic as it's against my own faith. I asked why it was assumed that I was being sarcastic but I got no response from the Moderator, and the thread was closed. In my first comment I myself told Rupa of my own health problems, so how can my comment be misconstrued as sarcasm? Had Rupa complained about me, or given me a chance to view her complaint about me? Or, are only moderators making these assumptions that I am being sarcastic to Rupa? When I first responded to Rupa, I saw no other comment visible at all, only after posting I saw the Mods comment. The thread should have been closed in the very beginning to prevent more misunderstandings but I was accused for sarcasm even though this was my first time responding to Rupa. I had no ill intentions towards her or anyone here whatsoever. I didn't even know the moderator had attacked my post, till much later. Could the Moderator not have PM'd me and asked me if this was true? I strongly believe that I was wrongly accused of being sarcastic & it was unjustified. The definition of sarcasm can be looked up in the dictionary. Even with the best of intentions, everyone is not going to agree with one another, or always have a positive experiences in forums. Respect, patience & tolerance is paramount. That is a part and parcel of human freedom that we have been given in interaction and how we get to understand one another, however we are not machines always perfect and infallible, as Only God is Perfect.

Peace.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Why so much hallabol in forums???
why dont we have topics and threads only related to uttran??
this is not an parliament to fight, if u wish to bash an actor then bash him simply, but see that u do not abuse someone personally, u can abuse there character in serial!!!!
Itna hungama is nt good, why nt just discuss abt uttaran, rather than creating any tiff and threads!!!!!
PEACE!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hi,,,friends,,,,

i request you all to not to comment further in this topic as i got my answers by the authorities via pm,,, and i dont want to create more tension on the forum,,,

kindly consider my request......
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Why so much hallabol in forums???
why dont we have topics and threads only related to uttran??[/quote]

I don't think you read or understand our posts. We are only relating to Uttaran.

[Quote]this is not an parliament to fight, if u wish to bash an actor then bash him simply[/quote]

I am not attacking anyone, neither is Shivani or Shonnu (as far as I have read their posts). I have not been in this forum for very long. We are simply discussing Uttaran and the character roles in Uttaran, our frustrations are on the serial, but not personally on the actors as we have never even met them!



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shonuu

hi,,,friends,,,,

i request you all to not to comment further in this topic as i got my answers by the authorities via pm,,, and i dont want to create more tension on the forum,,,

kindly consider my request......



Okay Shonu! 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think I've answered the question enough times, but since you feel I have not been clear in my reasoning for closing some topics lately on the forum... I will repeat myself once more.
Any topic pertaining to an actor/actress and their personal lives or their physical attributes are not allowed on IF. Also, any topic or comment that indirectly makes fun of or attacks a member of the forum is not allowed. Such topics will NOT be tolerated and will be closed.
Also cluelass - you have been sent a PM clearing ur doubts yesterday, please do check it out because I think I have answered all your questions there.
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