Why is tejang fandom bashed for not liking tejo's character ???

I have a question to ask

Why tejang fandom is bashed for not liking Tejo's Character lately ???

First of all i would like to clear there is no intention for fandom or character bashing here

A general view of latest happenings in the show relating to fan wars on SM and in the forum.

I don't favour fatejo or tejang. The proof is in the pudding. I have written fictions for both ships. I liked KVG's character as he brought freshness in the story and a simple friendship journey with tejo would have been just wonderful after facing two betrayals in a row. A man who could prove to her that not all men are the same.

A man and woman can't just be friends?? Why is it necessary that she should be in a relationship so fast( fake engagement) just to ensure the cheaters get family blessings??

My pov

The tejang fandom can't be blamed for not liking her character lately.

Look at the storyline

How fateh's character been stooped low since EMA despite he has the good shades in him but grey shades been given more emphasis for trps. They literally turned him into a villain taunting Tejo with his harshness , keeping jasmin under the same roof for drama and trp.

The EMA should stop when tejo took the bullet . He still went back to jasmin. I personally feel that was awful. Giving jasmin tejo's bedroom until his aunt taunted him .Keeping jasmin with tejo in same hse was the last straw for his character , so how do we expect some viewers to accept him fully even after all that happened??

I don't blame those who shipped tejang after how fateh was butchered by the writers.

Fateh's negativity was too glorified that people forgot his good values. That guy even took a knife for his father. He even defended tejo for her career. He was a likeable husband. But everything was only shown for a short time

His grey side was prolonged for trps so much so that the viewers forgot the good fateh and only remembered the bad one.

Apart from online fandoms even tv audience liked the new entry. They wanted tejo to move on despite some wanted her solo jouneys. In itv , FL solo jouneys don't work with trps so a male is required for drama.

The question raised

After two betrayals why the third was turned negative as well??

What are writers trying to show??

That Punjab is full of grey men??

Tejo can only choose from a fraud ,a cheater or a psycho. ???

Has God stopped producing good men on mother earth??

What message are they giving to the society??

A woman should choose a cheater over a psycho??

Why couldn't they show just a wonderful journey between a man and a woman at least for two months since KVG was a short cameo.

A man who emotionally supports a woman after the sufferings of two betrayals in a row. A pillar of support and leaves making her a new strong individual.

Viewers would love that.

A woman betrayed by men and a male out there mends her wounds. Not a female.

That would have been an irony isn't it??

Viewers would defo like some positivity in the show, don't they ?? After too much negativity since five months of EMA

Apart from tejang and angad fandom even trp aunties would have wanted tejo to move on especially after how fateh's character was butchered. Some may have even gone through what tejo had been

For God sake , that was not a random woman on the road but her own sister.

I really don't blame the fandom for hating fateh and tejo's characters lately.

Despite the fact that these itvs are fictions but they do affect the audience's emotions and mental state to certain extend.

Fatejo fandoms comments that i have generally seen

Fatejo has better chemistry.

I totally disagree

Tejang also shared fabulous chemistry.

Reason

Priyanka looks good with every actor. That's her speciality . Tejo and angad scenes looked as wonderful as tejo and fateh scenes .

The fatejo fandom couldn't see coz they were blinded with their so called fatejo hot chemistry. They find tejang creepy.

The tejang fandom being defensive about their chemistry as they were desperate for tejo to move on and not return to the cheater. They find fatejo creepy

So can't blame if there are delulu tejang fandom or delulu fatejo fandom.

They have their choices. We can't blame them

Now talking about fatejo as the lead.

They garnered trps since their marriage. Storyline was well written in earlier stage. Tracks were completed. The EMA prolonged reduced their charm for some but the others still like their pair.

Not everyone think alike.

It's clear evident that some viewers doesn't want them despite being leads or shown to be the endgame. Trp speaks despite the conspiracy with voot for latest track of kvg negative and fateh's redemption.

Fatejo would have been more loveable if EMA was not brought in.

I don't blame some viewers for not liking tejo becoz that's how she's been shown lately . Her character is totally made a crap . A mockery to woman kind but still she's chosen as itv top five favorite actresses.

Reason

Trp Aunties like doormat FLs .

The question raised

Is that the reason why itvs are illogical and toxic??

Coz the audience has become toxic and accept crap in the name of entertainment. ??

Especially the so called housewives who watch them on tv.

My opinion

I don't think so

These women have changed over the years. It's twenty first century. They are more educated and even they get tired with prolonged negativity. As it is they have shrewd MILs and husbands to handle . Some are even career oriented and believe in women empowerment.

If anupama and imlie are shown strong and moving on, why aren't tejo( who was portrayed as a strong independent practical woman much earlier)

If anupama could send kavya( the mistress) on a roller coaster ride why couldn't tejo do the same to Jasmin?? . After all own sister. Won't be difficult. Why is she shown too dumb despite being the best teacher. ??

What are writers smoking??

Why does she only face betrayals.

First Jass then fateh and then Angad.

Good men in punjab faced extinction??

To be honest i don't think even aunties digest the crap.

Why trp high

*Episodes not released before tv.

*Aunties leave their tvs on while working in the kitchen preparing dinner waiting for the next show to air. Udaariyaan comes on tv at 7 pm. That's dinner cooking time. Uncles will be home soon.

*Some aunties live alone. Single women. They might find it eerie after dark hours ( 7 pm onwards) so decided to switch on tv. Hear some sounds .

I do that sometimes when i am alone at home. Silence is eerie. I on the tv or music on my phone while working in the kitchen or while doing hse cleaning.

Coming back to the show, it's not the fandoms to be blamed but the storyline.

They bash one another coz of the crap they have been given to digest .

A question to the delulu fatejo fandom

What if this happens to u in real ? if U were in tejo's place will u still accept fateh after cheating with ur own sister despite being a good man .

A question to the delulu tejang fandom??

Why don't u stop watching this show where FL is made dumb and hypocrite and move on to other shows like anupama and imlie where u get better stronger FLs.

A question to viewers like me who followed this show from its inception

When will your addiction stop so u can stop discussing this crap show in the forum??

Answer

Planning to leave soon just like how many others ran away. Perhaps by this week itself.

One valid question

If angad is too good to be true ( if his grey shades were planned earlier) then tejo is too good to be true and more mahaan than him, so will she be turned to a psycho later on??

Well perhaps she may , by looking at the level of character inconsistency and heightened negativity levels of the show

This is just my pov

Appreciate no bashing.

Let discussion be healthy for those who are keen to discuss.

I will reply to those who agree with me for my own mental sanity and tagged few

Ps

Guys i am not participating in forum next week onwards. Leaving the show for good like some of u did it's never too late before losing my remaining brain cells for hypocrasy. I am currently more keen on other personal commitments( giving free tutoring for kids whose parents are jobless due to covid some cant even afford to send them to school. So after work hours i am starting the charity work in the evenings and weekends) . Will watch web series instead than these crap itvs. They have better content

No fiction writing as well. If anyone of u happens to come here can pm me. .It's time to bid farewell. It was nice talking to some of u here.

Why FaTejo Fandom is being bashed for liking FaTejo?

I mean cheating is always wrong and in real life you will not accept the Guy back, but that is also true that in real life Guy doesn't come back and accept they were wrong to this extent. It is a fictional show, and it is okay if people are willing to accept and feeling good to see that Fateh came back and has realized his mistake and willing to change himself for doing wrong to Tejo. Still a long way to go before he actually get back, but the process of him becoming a better version and redemption is being accepted by some fans. It not about TejAnd fandom getting bashed, it is coming from other side as well and creating a fight which can be avoided if we all agree to disagree. Calling out Morals of people for liking Fateh is a personal attack which has been done in and out. Fictions never teach you anything, not sure what is the story on Twitter, but I think those who has been in IF might have followed quite few shows earlier as well. Fictions are always about Imagination and if a person/fan group is feeling good to know that guy is coming back, realizing his mistakes and willing to change, and they want to accept it's up to them the morals shouldn't come in between for a TV show. I personally would take it as this also that Fateh never had any Sexual relationship with Jasmine, He never crossed line with Jasmine, He was always in guilt and bottom line for would have been him having sexual relationship with both Tejo and Jasmine when he was cheating, but that's just one point obviously he was wrong.. He was extremely wrong, but if a guy is willing to change like this and willing to come back to me (nearly impossible in real life) I will like him for at least changing himself. The trust rebuilding will take time , FaTejo are still not together but we do have a hint of things happening good again between them in future someday and for that why FaTejo fans are being bashed? I GENUINELY WANT TO KNOW?We can agree to disagree. Each of us can acknowledge that the other has a different opinion than our own, and then agree that each of us is entitled to have his/her own opinion. Then we just let the argument drop. Neither admits the other is right. Neither changes his/her own opinion. We have agreed to disagree or You’ve been arguing so long and the conversation has become so tedious that you all need a smart-sounding way to back out without being rude.

A tactful response goes something like this:

“ I have a different perspective on this subject.” Then you continue on with your opinion or set of facts.

Tejo is that women who will be held responsible for her choice if Fateh cheats her back, but only she will be responsible, and it should be her decision she has to decided with whom she wants to be with and for that if she's being bashed I am sorry, but you are putting your wished on her and forcing her to choose according to you

And now coming back to your question the things I have said won't be taken in any good manner for TejAnd fans, and they will pass sarcastic comments on my point of view which will obviously going to trigger few fans, and they will get back the same comments and the fight will be on forever and ever

I don't know the exact reason 😆 but I can estimate. Tejang fandom is mostly seeking something unique on this show, like rather than a toxic couple, a new fresh storyline with a new ML. Female Lead being aware of her value, that's a good storyline. They demand it, and watching a wheel isn't pleasant, so this is getting hate on her.

I dropped Udaariyaan, I'm happy for you.

Tejang fandom has a great audience and supporting/ watching other strong women characters on ITV is more worth of time.

Look all I want to say is I stopped watching after Tejo became a doormat, I thought Angad will teach her to stand up for herself again but it didn't stop.

I liked Tejang in the beginning but after the fake engagement I got annoyed , I mean why can't makers take things slow, like what is your problem?

I liked Angad from the beginning because he was a happy, funny character which I hoped would stay the same but didn't have much expectations looking at the makers record in changing a character.

Angad was always done dirty in all/any precaps which included him. Which was totally unnecessary, if they wanted Fatejo ,they could have still kept him a positive character who helps Tejo become the best version of herself.

Honestly I wont be surprised if they decide to make Tejo a negative character one day.

And about Fatejo they were beautiful before EMA. Period . Priyankit look absolutely lovely together but Fatejo after EMA I can't accept (my pov) but that doesn't mean I'll go around tweeting stuff on twitter or insta , because

THIS IS A FICTIONAL STORY NONE OF THESE CHARECTERS ARE REAL.

For me Fatejo is like broken glass once broken can be fixed but you can still see the cracks. Fatejo will still be wonderful as friends but as lovers no .

I'm pretty sure if anyone was there instead of Tejo they could never trust fateh after starting all over.

Some wounds take time to heal.

Fateh would have become a good and totally amazing person but if Tejo sees him in a questionable position with another girl she will get angry even if it wasn't his fault.

About Fateh 's redemption its TOTALLY FINE for someone to become a good person and its great that he has realized that he was wrong. Soo many people don't understand that.

HIS redemption should be for HIS development but that doesn't mean fatejo has to happen. Tejo should forgive Fateh for herself, so she can let go and move on with her life , but forgiveness doesn't mean she keeps giving fateh that pained look it means letting go of the past and moving forward.

All i have to say is if makers wanted Fatejo they shouldn't have done EMA track.

If they wanted Tejang they should have made her move on like Anupama.

Admit it, if you really care about Tejo We all just want her to stop listening to both the families, stop sacrificing and leave somewhere far away and do what she wants to do.

Originally posted by: Meher_

Why FaTejo Fandom is being bashed for liking FaTejo?

I mean cheating is always wrong and in real life you will not accept the Guy back, but that is also true that in real life Guy doesn't come back and accept they were wrong to this extent. It is a fictional show, and it is okay if people are willing to accept and feeling good to see that Fateh came back and has realized his mistake and willing to change himself for doing wrong to Tejo. Still a long way to go before he actually get back, but the process of him becoming a better version and redemption is being accepted by some fans. It not about TejAnd fandom getting bashed, it is coming from other side as well and creating a fight which can be avoided if we all agree to disagree. Calling out Morals of people for liking Fateh is a personal attack which has been done in and out. Fictions never teach you anything, not sure what is the story on Twitter, but I think those who has been in IF might have followed quite few shows earlier as well. Fictions are always about Imagination and if a person/fan group is feeling good to know that guy is coming back, realizing his mistakes and willing to change, and they want to accept it's up to them the morals shouldn't come in between for a TV show. I personally would take it as this also that Fateh never had any Sexual relationship with Jasmine, He never crossed line with Jasmine, He was always in guilt and bottom line for would have been him having sexual relationship with both Tejo and Jasmine when he was cheating, but that's just one point obviously he was wrong.. He was extremely wrong, but if a guy is willing to change like this and willing to come back to me (nearly impossible in real life) I will like him for at least changing himself. The trust rebuilding will take time , FaTejo are still not together but we do have a hint of things happening good again between them in future someday and for that why FaTejo fans are being bashed? I GENUINELY WANT TO KNOW?We can agree to disagree. Each of us can acknowledge that the other has a different opinion than our own, and then agree that each of us is entitled to have his/her own opinion. Then we just let the argument drop. Neither admits the other is right. Neither changes his/her own opinion. We have agreed to disagree or You’ve been arguing so long and the conversation has become so tedious that you all need a smart-sounding way to back out without being rude.

A tactful response goes something like this:

“ I have a different perspective on this subject.” Then you continue on with your opinion or set of facts.

Tejo is that women who will be held responsible for her choice if Fateh cheats her back, but only she will be responsible, and it should be her decision she has to decided with whom she wants to be with and for that if she's being bashed I am sorry, but you are putting your wished on her and forcing her to choose according to you

And now coming back to your question the things I have said won't be taken in any good manner for TejAnd fans, and they will pass sarcastic comments on my point of view which will obviously going to trigger few fans, and they will get back the same comments and the fight will be on forever and ever

First of all u should have made a separate thread for ur post . Just a suggestion

It doesn't relate to my arguement. My pov

My post talks about storyline as the main reason for the fan wars. Not meant to bash the fandoms

U don't have to shut people when u come to the forum .

Moreover people don't give a damn to what others say coz they come to the forum just read , see and leave

I just do that as well. Write my opinion and discuss with few who agree with me. Not keen on disturbing my mental sanity arguing.

The forum is meant for discussion not a fandom warzone.

And no one stopped fatejo fandom to love their ship . They can go ahead.after all they are the leads. The problem is not everyone can accept them after the EMA and thats their choice.

U don't have to worry about tejang fandom as majority of them left the forum. Those still dropping by are not interested to argue.

Fatejo are loved by SM viewers but seemed in the forum they are unfortunately not favoured. That's why its dead.

My humble request.

Pls don't get my thread flagged

It was meant for healthy discussion not fandom warzone.

Can understand ur frustrations

Apart from the active EDT with few members left ,no one in the forum wants to talk about fatejo despite being a wonderful jodi onscreen and the show having the trps in top ten

The other threads are not moving .

That itself is a clear evident.

Thank u anyway for ur opinion.

Originally posted by: thunderbird

Look all I want to say is I stopped watching after Tejo became a doormat, I thought Angad will teach her to stand up for herself again but it didn't stop.

I liked Tejang in the beginning but after the fake engagement I got annoyed , I mean why can't makers take things slow, like what is your problem?

I liked Angad from the beginning because he was a happy, funny character which I hoped would stay the same but didn't have much expectations looking at the makers record in changing a character.

Angad was always done dirty in all/any precaps which included him. Which was totally unnecessary, if they wanted Fatejo ,they could have still kept him a positive character who helps Tejo become the best version of herself.

Honestly I wont be surprised if they decide to make Tejo a negative character one day.

And about Fatejo they were beautiful before EMA. Period . Priyankit look absolutely lovely together but Fatejo after EMA I can't accept (my pov) but that doesn't mean I'll go around tweeting stuff on twitter or insta , because

THIS IS A FICTIONAL STORY NONE OF THESE CHARECTERS ARE REAL.

For me Fatejo is like broken glass once broken can be fixed but you can still see the cracks. Fatejo will still be wonderful as friends but as lovers no .

I'm pretty sure if anyone was there instead of Tejo they could never trust fateh after starting all over.

Some wounds take time to heal.

Fateh would have become a good and totally amazing person but if Tejo sees him in a questionable position with another girl she will get angry even if it wasn't his fault.

About Fateh 's redemption its TOTALLY FINE for someone to become a good person and its great that he has realized that he was wrong. Soo many people don't understand that.

HIS redemption should be for HIS development but that doesn't mean fatejo has to happen. Tejo should forgive Fateh for herself, so she can let go and move on with her life , but forgiveness doesn't mean she should start giving him those lusty looks nor does it mean Fatejo needs to happen.

All i have to say is if makers wanted Fatejo they shouldn't have done EMA track.

If they wanted Tejang or happy Tejo they should have made her move on like Anupama.

Admit it, if you really care about Tejo We all just want her to stop listening to both the families, stop sacrificing and leave somewhere far away and do what she wants to do.

The main problem is character inconsistency.

They mess up with all characters.

Anyway the grey tejo will be wonderful to watch.

Someone needs to teach jasmin a lesson 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: heartfilia

I don't know the exact reason 😆 but I can estimate. Tejang fandom is mostly seeking something unique on this show, like rather than a toxic couple, a new fresh storyline with a new ML. Female Lead being aware of her value, that's a good storyline. They demand it, and watching a wheel isn't pleasant, so this is getting hate on her.

I dropped Udaariyaan, I'm happy for you.

Tejang fandom has a great audience and supporting/ watching other strong women characters on ITV is more worth of time.

Agree

People are bored with negativity.

Look at the forum. It is dead.

No one wants to discuss.

I am packing and leaving as well.

Dm me if u guys drop by

Perhaps in future if there's hot positive ML on board then i might return 🤣🤣🤣

Seeing how immature fans and fandom behave. I will say for Tejang fandom Tejo the grape turned out to be sour for them 😆

I being a modern educated working housewife find Tejo nowhere a doormat , despo or shameless as Tejang ,Jasfa fans and pseudo neutrals call her. She is a woman in love and very much knows her boundries as well as priorities.

Going for another man coz one ditched you is not moving on, you can still love the old one and decide to remain single. Mental peace is important if Tejo gets that by being single what's the problem !!

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

Seeing how immature fans and fandom behave. I will say for Tejang fandom Tejo the grape turned out to be sour for them 😆

I being a modern educated working housewife find Tejo nowhere a doormat , despo or shameless as Tejang ,Jasfa fans and pseudo neutrals call her. She is a woman in love and very much knows her boundries as well as priorities.

Going for another man coz one ditched you is not moving on, you can still love the old one and decide to remain single. Mental peace is important if Tejo gets that by being single what's the problem !!

NO problem , very well said👌👌

Respect ur opinion.

She should not chose to return to the man she loved

That u and i understand as educated housewives but in general not everyone can digest how the story is carried forward.

That's what my post is about.

The storyline created the war between fans.

Jasmin from bubbly sweet girl with dreams turned monster. So jasfa fandom anger is justified.

Angad from positive turned negative. Angad fans and Tejang fandom anger justified.

Fatejo are leads and kept in tact through EMA and thereafter leaving fatejo fandom still liking them and the rest frustrated .

Every fandom wants their share of happiness but makers ruin it . The storyline to be blamed.

That's what i meant.

Tracks are super fast and incomplete . Inconsistency of characters That's why some educated ones out there finds it hard to digest tejo 's character .

We are all discussing here .

And agree on immature fandom .😁😁

Originally posted by: Aniash

Agree

People are bored with negativity.

Look at the forum. It is dead.

No one wants to discuss.

I am packing and leaving as well.

Dm me if u guys drop by

Perhaps in future if there's hot positive ML on board then i might return 🤣🤣🤣

Why would we even want to discuss 🤪? I hope Karan will leave the show soon, please 🤣