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Posted: 3 years ago
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it could have redemption if one would have return back on way of redemption before it's sins cross limits then it may easy to forgiving him. Only ibadati ishq can get redeem at such fast speed.

here with fateh it was acceptable if he would have back out when tejo got shot but after that also he continued with his ibadati ishq and acusing tejo for butejo affair. still she is having fb of only his lovey dovey memories which i can't digest. All redemption what they shown is so quick and he is protecting tejo from jasso then he is the one who left her loose knowing all what can she do against tejo (bring back jass)


about have love with him and can't move on she herself not followed any rule told by herself to him for move on. if one can not move on in life but can proceed his/her life further with all career or other life living things and can get into love 2nd time if get good partner.


they rushed and ruined angad's character just like to show a small line big make another big line they made him psycho, negative to minimize feteh's cheating effect. instead of this wasting of time they should meet fatejo asap and end the torture of viewers.

once i was also fatejo fan and felt bad for them now evenif they would show restarting fatejo love story the feel will not the same or that cuteness will not be there. when fateh said 'woh bhi muze shiddat wala pyar karti hai' it feel saying him why are you again spoiling pyar word

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

I have a curious question. A lot of us have talked about Fateh and his proper redemption etc, but, my question is, does cheating on your partner actually have any sort of redemption? Cheating is a choice, never a mistake so does it really have redemption? If so, what form of redemption are we talking about? Thoughts on this please.



Also, clean discussion will be much appreciated 🙏

Indian serials only have one theme forgive not only cheating but insult of any level done by hero as he realized he was wrong because person he loved wasn't what hero thought. Like jesmine loved her dream more than him. Otherwise feteh ever thought what he did to tejo. For tejo feteh is ashamed is enough 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Same track for making ml love like her ranjha they ruined jesmine than angad character 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. This serial have nothing. When I will again watch ish pyaar ko Kya Naam do 1 or geet type serial again. Now a days cheaters trending as hero.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aniash


Well written on the situations.👍 It differs individually.


But for fatejo part i will disagree . Pardon me for that. Just my pov.

they were not written well with jasfa glorified too much. That's the reason why people find it difficult to accept them fully

On top of that jasmin non stop interference.


Tejo and angad were written beautifully initially so they garned a lot of attention but unfortunately the writers ruined them with fake engagement crap. Should have made it a short simple beautiful journey. He becomes her supporter and then leave. Another relationship wasn't required too fast.


The problem is they rush into things . Greedy for trps. Now face the consequences.


I like fatejo those days before EMA . I still like their chemistry but i need a strong story to ship them again.


They need to restart the jodi onc e again so viewers can accept them fully

I don't think hardcore fan of tejo and angad ever accept crappy couple ftejo

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marathi_Mulgi

it could have redemption if one would have return back on way of redemption before it's sins cross limits then it may easy to forgiving him. Only ibadati ishq can get redeem at such fast speed.

here with fateh it was acceptable if he would have back out when tejo got shot but after that also he continued with his ibadati ishq and acusing tejo for butejo affair. still she is having fb of only his lovey dovey memories which i can't digest. All redemption what they shown is so quick and he is protecting tejo from jasso then he is the one who left her loose knowing all what can she do against tejo (bring back jass)


about have love with him and can't move on she herself not followed any rule told by herself to him for move on. if one can not move on in life but can proceed his/her life further with all career or other life living things and can get into love 2nd time if get good partner.


they rushed and ruined angad's character just like to show a small line big make another big line they made him psycho, negative to minimize feteh's cheating effect. instead of this wasting of time they should meet fatejo asap and end the torture of viewers.

once i was also fatejo fan and felt bad for them now evenif they would show restarting fatejo love story the feel will not the same or that cuteness will not be there. when fateh said 'woh bhi muze shiddat wala pyar karti hai' it feel saying him why are you again spoiling pyar word

That all I also wanted to say. For me ftejo died as this serial

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I don’t think he can redeem himself, especially with the brutal way he hurt Tejo. Now you have to revisit Fatejo because that is where the TRPs are. The first time they were together was not by choice, and eventually it was one sided. Now you have to make Fateh’s love one sided, tell more stories and then maybe a female other than Jasmine interested in Fateh. Finally Tejo will realize her love again and they’ll get together. It’s obvious they are the endgame, even though we know Jasmine won’t go away. But his time Fateh has realized his love and he has to work for Tejo. I think it will be interesting to see Fateh trying to win her back while fighting off the always evil Jasmine and newly evil Angad!

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoLo

I don’t think he can redeem himself, especially with the brutal way he hurt Tejo. Now you have to revisit Fatejo because that is where the TRPs are. The first time they were together was not by choice, and eventually it was one sided. Now you have to make Fateh’s love one sided, tell more stories and then maybe a female other than Jasmine interested in Fateh. Finally Tejo will realize her love again and they’ll get together. It’s obvious they are the endgame, even though we know Jasmine won’t go away. But his time Fateh has realized his love and he has to work for Tejo. I think it will be interesting to see Fateh trying to win her back while fighting off the always evil Jasmine and newly evil Angad!


Yep

I mentioned this as well

The love is both side so it does make a difference now

He accepted and repented. That matters more

They ruined fatejo earlier.

They should write them well this time.

For trps , need to wait and see .

Reason

Some viewers not happy with the short redemption after four months EMA. They expected better

They rushed into everything lately . So the tracks are not digestable. Messy writing. Turnaround of characters. Viewers are left confused. Too much to handle in a short period of time.


Fatejo lost their charm due to the EMA. Some viewers can still accept them coz of their chemistry others can't .

They were likeable as one of the most favourite jodi . Now we have to see if viewers like their reunion. There are some trp aunties or audience that would have preferred tejang.

Need to wait and see.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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When i started watching this show i shipped Fatejo. After the EMA and the weak tejo and short fateh's redemption with sudden kvg butchering, i lost interest.


I don't know why but i find tejo written as a hypocrate . Say something else does something else. At least jasmin stick to what she says. No matter how evil she is, she stands strong. The one who was shown dependent is more independent now and the one showed independent , strong with full of self respect has become weak and dependent on others for emotional support.

The turnaround of characters. That's what the writers been doing all the while


The members who are happy with their reunion are cheering up in the forum when they used to bash fateh for the EMA but now are willing to ship them again.

That's their choice . No problem in that. Everyone has their liking.

But i have a question in mind

What if they went through what tejo did, will they still accept fateh in the first place??? They bash kvg like no body's business stating fateh is hotter and more charming . Will they return to their hot husband after his EMA with their own sister??


When i look at it . Wow , just wow.

There is so much difference in fiction and reality.


Only women who actually go through this knows the pain and sufferings. They won't only have sweet memories but more bitter memories of the. betrayal.


Here a strong independent woman is having sweet memories of her cheater ex and still rooting for him after all that happened between them forgetting her big talks of self respect.


The truth is itvs made a mockery of women's emotions and self respect.


Now i will watch to see how they reunite fatejo. If they give a good story i will carry on watching otherwise gonna drop it. There are other new serials coming.


I don't think they will be able to keep up with trps that long without a strong plot just with major twists and turns .

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aniash

When i started watching this show i shipped Fatejo. After the EMA and the weak tejo and short fateh's redemption with sudden kvg butchering, i lost interest.


I don't know why but i find tejo written as a hypocrate . Say something else does something else. At least jasmin stick to what she says. No matter how evil she is, she stands strong. The one who was shown dependent is more independent now and the one showed independent , strong with full of self respect has become weak and dependent on others for emotional support.

The turnaround of characters. That's what the writers been doing all the while


The members who are happy with their reunion are cheering up in the forum when they used to bash fateh for the EMA but now are willing to ship them again.

That's their choice . No problem in that. Everyone has their liking.

But i have a question in mind

What if they went through what tejo did, will they still accept fateh in the first place??? They bash kvg like no body's business stating fateh is hotter and more charming . Will they return to their hot husband after his EMA with their own sister??


When i look at it . Wow , just wow.

There is so much difference in fiction and reality.


Only women who actually go through this knows the pain and sufferings. They won't only have sweet memories but more bitter memories of the. betrayal.


Here a strong independent woman is having sweet memories of her cheater ex and still rooting for him after all that happened between them forgetting her big talks of self respect.


The truth is itvs made a mockery of women's emotions and self respect.


Now i will watch to see how they reunite fatejo. If they give a good story i will carry on watching otherwise gonna drop it. There are other new serials coming.


I don't think they will be able to keep up with trps that long without a strong plot just with major twists and turns .

well said ani

only emotionally weak of dependency in any circumstances like ashviniv narrated cheater husband can be accepted. someone was saying that now love is from both side then its acceptable no its not like that or one couldn't move on in their life over first love. no need to shed buckets of tear for whole lifetime for cheater as per me. others thinking may differ.

they made all characters turn around for fatejo story. even KSV once i liked very much was butcher for his raja beta pyar. each n every character of both families done things for their selfish reasons covered under their so called tejo prem. only jasso was openly deed all things for herself. even angad character of good friend turned into psycho lover. only tejo maata left to do her mahaanta. stop butchering all characters kismet ki dor jaldi se kheech lo yaar and ek kar do fatejo ko. torture to khatam ho viewers ka

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Posted: 3 years ago
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i dont believe love happens only once. thats a myth tbh. you can fall in love multiple times.


just because you love someone you cannot ignore their mistakes or sins which can lead you to heartbreaks and sadness and pain again and again.


Cheating robs you of your self confidence and ability to trust. you will always think 'was i not good enough' just saying sorry and apology can get one's confidence back? also what is a guarantee that the person wont cheat again.


Plus the relationship wont be an organic one like before,it will have lost its charm


'Gath agar pad jaaye to phir rishte ho ya dori, laakh kare koshish khulane ko waqt to lagta hai'

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashviniv

i dont believe love happens only once. thats a myth tbh. you can fall in love multiple times.


just because you love someone you cannot ignore their mistakes or sins which can lead you to heartbreaks and sadness and pain again and again.


Cheating robs you of your self confidence and ability to trust. you will always think 'was i not good enough' just saying sorry and apology can get one's confidence back? also what is a guarantee that the person wont cheat again.


Plus the relationship wont be an organic one like before,it will have lost its charm


'Gath agar pad jaaye to phir rishte ho ya dori, laakh kare koshish khulane ko waqt to lagta hai'

yeh agreed with you

and @bold true said and gath khul bhi gayi toh bhi wahi original wala charm toh nahi rahega

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