Does cheating have redemption? - Page 2

Ohh if i was Tejo, i probably wouldn't have gotten married to Fateh in the first place but nevertheless lets assume, what i would have done when i find out fateh has cheated on me.

First thing i would file for a divorce and go back home. i wouldn't keep an eye on the Virk house if Fateh goes to jail- after him using tejo, accusing her of infidelity and lying to his best friend, bro idc, who is he even?

Then after getting a divorce i would shift to a whole different city/country so that Papa Sandhu and fam don't come behind my back for another marriage, also so i don't have to look at Jasmine or Fateh's face again.

Tbh i would be more angry on Jasmine than Fateh because from my pov i feel Jasmine was family before Fateh, she was supposed to be loyal after everything Tejo had done for her, Fateh was also bad but not equally bad so if he redeems himself i would accept him back as a person in my life but niether as a life partner nor as a friend because i'll never be able to trust him again.

but jasmine i don't think i'll ever be able to accept her back after everything she did, even if she redeems herself.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

Cheating is a choice and since cheating doesn't leave any physical mark it's still not termed as crime and is not punishable by law. But does that make it any less an offsence?then no. It actually Robs the partner of their confidence, self worth,ability to trust self and others and respect. It can take lifetime before getting these things back or not

Many a times partners accept the partner if he/she apologized or for below reasons in majority cases

1. Children are involved. They don't want their child to choose or loose a parent

2. Financial stability or independence

3. Societal or family pressure or no family support

4. Sense of security. If a single woman stays alone she might be considered as easy meat after she is been cheated on by husband

5. ONS under questionable circumstances like under the influence or something

I am not sure how much love or trust is there after te relationship again starts. Personally I won't be able to accept a cheater as I will never be able to trust that person.

Now in this serials case, Fateh has realised his mistakes, trying to understand the pain others got and sure he can build his life and be a better person and he deserves that but whether Fatejo should be together I am not convinced at all

Tejo has known Fateh for 2 months before their marriage, out of 6 months of their marriage he was cheating for almost 5 months.When things were not going his way he gaslighted her, assumed she is of less character to feel good about himself. Tejo didn't know this initially so sure she fell in love but looking bk she should relate all these things and understand how he treated her and then decide what should be her stand. A relationship doesn't survive only with love and lac of respect and trust. On the other hand a relationship having respect,trust and honesty cn survive beautifully even without so called love.

I am not getting that clip of new dhadkan serial dialogue. "Pyaar ki baat nahi, baat respect ki hai"

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CXlgggms6Qr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

here is this clip nd awesome comments below it..👍🏼

Originally posted by: Ranjana20

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CXlgggms6Qr/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

here is this clip nd awesome comments below it..👍🏼

Hey awesome..i was searching for this clip for ages...i now have saved it. thanks again

Yes its actually a good difference between the FLs of 2 serials.. Here Deepika was in a loving relationship for almost 3-4 years. everything was perfect between them and where he tried to dictate her life and crush her dream she refused to marry just days before the ceremony and in turn got disowned by family and parents itana ki her dad died and no one informed her. she did all this for her right to choose and right to live her life with respect.

I got hooked to UD because i thought Tejo be like this with all big big dialogues. it was such a shame to ruin what could have been a kickA** FL in ITV

fingers crossed they dont butcher Deepika

Different people has different point of view regarding this.

For some killing someone is a crime but when a military person kills another military person of the enemy country he gets praises.

Love and Respect

Some supports love more some respect more.

It depends on person to person.

For example here in Udaariyaan Tejo has two choices

We all know she still is in love with Fateh

Choice 1. Stay unmarried her whole life, concentrate on her career, family.

Choice 2. Now that Fateh loves her go back to him after some time and have a family with him with two kids.

Choice one is logical but who knows what Tejo wants or any girl will want?

We only have one life time. Who knows whether a girl will sacrifice having a husband kids nice family to give importance to her self respect.

Life is life, not everything follows logic.

Now coming to your question, cheating can never be redeemed. But one can love with his or her whole heart.

Fateh’s mistake can never be redeemed but his love for Tejo is true.

So many people on this forum never wants Fateh to get Tejo, but they are ignoring the fact that sometimes getting love back from the person you love is important for some people. May be for Tejo this is true as well.

Originally posted by: kaninikabasuray

Different people has different point of view regarding this.

For some killing someone is a crime but when a military person kills another military person of the enemy country he gets praises.

Love and Respect

Some supports love more some respect more.

It depends on person to person.

For example here in Udaariyaan Tejo has two choices

We all know she still is in love with Fateh

Choice 1. Stay unmarried her whole life, concentrate on her career, family.

Choice 2. Now that Fateh loves her go back to him after some time and have a family with him with two kids.

Choice one is logical but who knows what Tejo wants or any girl will want?

We only have one life time. Who knows whether a girl will sacrifice having a husband kids nice family to give importance to her self respect.

Life is life, not everything follows logic.

Now coming to your question, cheating can never be redeemed. But one can love with his or her whole heart.

Fateh’s mistake can never be redeemed but his love for Tejo is true.

So many people on this forum never wants Fateh to get Tejo, but they are ignoring the fact that sometimes getting love back from the person you love is important for some people. May be for Tejo this is true as well.

Well written on the situations.👍 It differs individually.

But for fatejo part i will disagree . Pardon me for that. Just my pov.

they were not written well with jasfa glorified too much. That's the reason why people find it difficult to accept them fully

On top of that jasmin non stop interference.

Tejo and angad were written beautifully initially so they garned a lot of attention but unfortunately the writers ruined them with fake engagement crap. Should have made it a short simple beautiful journey. He becomes her supporter and then leave. Another relationship wasn't required too fast.

The problem is they rush into things . Greedy for trps. Now face the consequences.

I like fatejo those days before EMA . I still like their chemistry but i need a strong story to ship them again.

They need to restart the jodi onc e again so viewers can accept them fully

Originally posted by: Aniash

Well written on the situations.👍 It differs individually.

But for fatejo part i will disagree . Pardon me for that. Just my pov.

they were not written well with jasfa glorified too much. That's the reason why people find it difficult to accept them fully

On top of that jasmin non stop interference.

Tejo and angad were written beautifully initially so they garned a lot of attention but unfortunately the writers ruined them with fake engagement crap. Should have made it a short simple beautiful journey. He becomes her supporter and then leave. Another relationship wasn't required too fast.

The problem is they rush into things . Greedy for trps. Now face the consequences.

I like fatejo those days before EMA . I still like their chemistry but i need a strong story to ship them again.

They need to restart the jodi onc e again so viewers can accept them fully

I hope they will restart Fatejo story.

Originally posted by: Ashviniv

Hey awesome..i was searching for this clip for ages...i now have saved it. thanks again

Yes its actually a good difference between the FLs of 2 serials.. Here Deepika was in a loving relationship for almost 3-4 years. everything was perfect between them and where he tried to dictate her life and crush her dream she refused to marry just days before the ceremony and in turn got disowned by family and parents itana ki her dad died and no one informed her. she did all this for her right to choose and right to live her life with respect.

I got hooked to UD because i thought Tejo be like this with all big big dialogues. it was such a shame to ruin what could have been a kickA** FL in ITV

fingers crossed they dont butcher Deepika

italic. the tejo in those 3 to 4 ep where awesome...her speech nd all about self respect but now its so boring to watch...

its sad shows like dhadkan gets 0.2 trp while some crap shows get

bold. ur most welcome😊

Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

Interesting points you guys. 😊

While I have never had second thoughts on forgiving a person if I felt that they genuinely mean well after apologising. Taking them back or making them my part of life has been the challenging part. Of course, it's all about the choices of the individuals about how they decide to go about that as well but, I for one noticed that I can never see them in the same light as before. Trusting them again, is totally another story altogether. I had my fair share of heartbreak due to being cheated on especially when the core foundation of the relationship had been based on the trust that if ever, one of us felt that the relationship was not working, we could talk about it and part amicably without causing unnecessary hurt to another. Nevertheless, shit happened. It's been years since that and I no longer have any grudge against that person. I have always maintained cordial relations with him due to our very close-knit friends' circle and also because we knew each other's families, so that too. I knew he tried his best to begin afresh and bounce back in my life by constantly proving that he had changed, and while I respected the change he brought in himself a certain part of me didn't budge at all. Like @Ashviniv said, it was no longer a matter of love, it became a matter of self-respect.

As for redemption, definitely, the cheating party decides how to go about it. Getting forgiveness is the victim partner's choice and how they go on from there is absolutely them and no one else with or without forgiveness.

The point being of that little TB, I just wanted to know what goes into the minds of the other partner, if and when they do decide to give the cheating partner a 2nd chance. Is it just a choice, love or something else? Let's assume that finance, children etc are not the factors here. I am just trying to understand that mindset. I am not even sure if what am asking for even makes sense. Had you been Tejo, what would have been your line of action?

Sorry to hear ur past heart break but happy u moved on. But not everyone can.

I think the will power inside the person is most important factor

How hard they can push themselves to move on.

Those with stronger will power they are determined to move on no matter what .

Those who have weaker will power finds it difficult.

Differs individually.

In tejo's case , she loves fateh. Earlier was one sided. Now there's a difference. It's both sided.

Most importantly fateh repented for the EMA but he needs to improve further . More independent and more stronger.

If tejo marries another guy she won't be happy and also shown not able to move on. So better she unites with the man she loves but not too soon. Send him on a roller coaster ride first after what she went through.

I always believe in second chance if the person accepts his mistake and tried to rectify the situation no matter how horrible his mistake was. At least he accept it . That's more important

So she can give him a second chance . After all he is a good human . Thousand times better than her own sister.

That clown need to be sent to the moon

Originally posted by: kaninikabasuray

I hope they will restart Fatejo story.

Me too

Hopefully with olden days

I can't forget that scootie scene 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Aniash

Me too

Hopefully with olden days

I can't forget that scootie scene 🤣🤣🤣

Yes

They can have so many cute scenes 🥰