Chakor - Not just Jagat mata but also a woman?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Please bear with me because I know there have been many discussions about this and it seems like am beating a dead horse here🤔

Something has been bothering me since the Monday episode.Well, it has bothered me earlier too but the episode sort of magnified it for me . We saw a very vulnerable side of Chakor , albeit in a drunken state, which made her seem like more of a"normal" woman with feelings like the rest of us.
Chakor was so hurt when she said both the guys loved her sister and no one thought of her.It makes me wonder when she actually realizes she is in love with Suraj, how would she react to the fact/truth that the guy she loves has also been physically intimate with someone else/her sister .( I know during the media interview episode she said that she has accepted and made peace with his past BUT then she wasnt in love with him.).
Will it affect her seeing her husband's ex everyday in the house ? Will jealousy rear its head now n then? Will she not think about it when Sukor are intimate?Wont there be any conflict within her? Its never easy for a woman to handle these emotions. Will Chakor be able to do it?


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Posted: 8 years ago
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THAT.
That is why the bacchua thing has to be cleared. Idc if Suraj accepted the child as his. Idc if Imli said it was Suraj's baby. IDC. All I care is for the baby to not be Suraj's.

But CVs don't have a freaking brain to correct their mistake. They did it and now,think ppl will accept it. If your FL is so important to you, why are you giving her so much emotional baggage? That she can't live a peaceful, loving life with her love?

Urghhh. I really don't have an answer to your question because I'm sure everyone here has the same question.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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TBH, I thought they'd swept the Imli issue under the rug after what Chakor said to the docu crew. And because she referred to his feelings in past tense twice. But since they've shown Chakor being so openly vulnerable and flawed on two occasions, I hope they will address the issue at some point.
Also th writers love dragging the story and this would serve as another obstacle in their path, so may be there is hope yet 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There you go girl !!!!
You are totally right and this is exactly the same reason why some of us do have an issue with this whole ImRaj love story and bachcha topic !!!!
Any girl in Chakors situation would feel awkward and here we are talking about 2 sisters. No girl in the right mind will be ok with the fact that her sister knows her husband as intimately as the wife and the thing is Suraj confessed his love for Imli during his marriage with chakor !!!!
No matter how much ppl say its in the past or Imli is Surajs past ...it is NOT right and unethical in so many ways !!!!

But now the CVs have made it clear that no matter what she said during the press meeting, Chakor indeed feels awkward about Suraj and Imli. And she wants someone who choses her as his first priority, she needs someone who doesn't replace her with someone else, she wants to be the 1st choice.
And in Suraj's case till now Chakor is second fiddle after Imli...and Chakor doesn't need that !!!!
So now that the makers have put it so clearly in front, I hope they close this loophole too...make it clear that Chakor is not the 2nd option for Suraj, only becoz he was rejected by his 1st choice !! And that Chakor has always been and will be Suraj's first choice of girl...

One thing I have noticed : Suraj and Imli are not akward with each other after all that happened btwn them. I mean even after ppl move on, there is still some akward feeling lingering somewhere when you live with the same person you slept with and gotten pregnant and declared to love, under the same roof every damn day, but both living with different partners and act as if nothing happened
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Posted: 8 years ago
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But I'm also partly happy they showed that side of Chakor. She literally had to get it out of her.
For a long time, they've just been showing her as string, calm and composed, and never once showing her true feelings. Regardless of the whole ImVaan falling in love under two weeks, Chakor did loose the love of her life.

Like, I know she might have mistaken childhood friendship as love and blah blah, but STILL. She did like him more than a friend, if not love him.
Her parents didn't lose a second in declaring her as dead for them.the her own sister, who she helped so much, turned against her.

You know even though Suraj was playing antagonist that time, its still like he saved her. Saved her from marrying a man who couldn't see her worth. Saved her from her expectations of her family (Seriously, who goes to such heights?)

This post was what we all needed! Thank you. ❤️
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanyaEterna

THAT.

That is why the bacchua thing has to be cleared. Idc if Suraj accepted the child as his. Idc if Imli said it was Suraj's baby. IDC. All I care is for the baby to not be Suraj's.

But CVs don't have a freaking brain to correct their mistake. They did it and now,think ppl will accept it. If your FL is so important to you, why are you giving her so much emotional baggage? That she can't live a peaceful, loving life with her love?

Urghhh. I really don't have an answer to your question because I'm sure everyone here has the same question.


Sanu, right there with ya..The bachua track is such a glaring elephant in the room for me..TBH, I wonder how the CVs think it will just fade away into oblivion
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aradh_27

TBH, I thought they'd swept the Imli issue under the rug after what Chakor said to the docu crew. And because she referred to his feelings in past tense twice. But since they've shown Chakor being so openly vulnerable and flawed on two occasions, I hope they will address the issue at some point.

Also th writers love dragging the story and this would serve as another obstacle in their path, so may be there is hope yet 😆


Aradhana, I really really hope they do..By bringingup the bachua issue they can also address the fact that Chakor wasnt a second choice /another alternative for Suraj.Infact she was the first and ONLY choice..
I want to write to the creative team/writers to do something about this
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: eshasrk

There you go girl !!!!
You are totally right and this is exactly the same reason why some of us do have an issue with this whole ImRaj love story and bachcha topic !!!!
Any girl in Chakors situation would feel awkward and here we are talking about 2 sisters. No girl in the right mind will be ok with the fact that her sister knows her husband as intimately as the wife and the thing is Suraj confessed his love for Imli during his marriage with chakor !!!!
No matter how much ppl say its in the past or Imli is Surajs past ...it is NOT right and unethical in so many ways !!!!

But now the CVs have made it clear that no matter what she said during the press meeting, Chakor indeed feels awkward about Suraj and Imli. And she wants someone who choses her as his first priority, she needs someone who doesn't replace her with someone else, she wants to be the 1st choice.
And in Suraj's case till now Chakor is second fiddle after Imli...and Chakor doesn't need that !!!!
So now that the makers have put it so clearly in front, I hope they close this loophole too...make it clear that Chakor is not the 2nd option for Suraj, only becoz he was rejected by his 1st choice !! And that Chakor has always been and will be Suraj's first choice of girl..
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One thing I have noticed : Suraj and Imli are not akward with each other after all that happened btwn them. I mean even after ppl move on, there is still some akward feeling lingering somewhere when you live with the same person you slept with and gotten pregnant and declared to love, under the same roof every damn day, but both living with different partners and act as if nothing happened


@bold black..yep that left a bad taste in my mouth..It can be such a huge blow to your confidence and selfworth..poor chakor😭

@bold red..I have said it before, we NEED an episode or 2 like that ..CVs are you reading this?

@bold blue..yeah, I have noticed that too..the awkwardness/awareness for each other takes time to go away..in their case its just been a few months and they behave like chaddi-buddies..🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: BreakingBlue

But I'm also partly happy they showed that side of Chakor. She literally had to get it out of her.

For a long time, they've just been showing her as string, calm and composed, and never once showing her true feelings. Regardless of the whole ImVaan falling in love under two weeks, Chakor did loose the love of her life.

Like, I know she might have mistaken childhood friendship as love and blah blah, but STILL. She did like him more than a friend, if not love him.
Her parents didn't lose a second in declaring her as dead for them.the her own sister, who she helped so much, turned against her.

You know even though Suraj was playing antagonist that time, its still like he saved her. Saved her from marrying a man who couldn't see her worth. Saved her from her expectations of her family (Seriously, who goes to such heights?)

This post was what we all needed! Thank you. ❤️


I am very happy too..makes her so human and I really felt her pain..the episode where she breaks the machaan and cries over Vivaan loving Imli was sad but Monday's episode was poignant..Even though maybe she hasnt realized she is in love with Suraj, she still felt hurt that he too was running after Imli..That must have been so hard and the entire time she had no one to confide in or open up to😭
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Posted: 8 years ago
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much needed post...esp in light of the recent episodes. The very reason CVs brought up Chakor's outburst meant Imli will be addressed and Suraj's feelings will be made clearer.
Otherwise CVs would have looked to gloss over and not re-open.

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