what if it was an arranged marriage..

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A4Anjie

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: deeps07

hmm.yea..but bhabhoo seems happy knowing uma..when she went to the clinic she was like vansh should.learn from uma...
both kanak and uma.belings to different world..and it becomes to maintain relationship with all these constraints without much love..

Yes - bhabho..comparing him to suraj LOL

US just looks like Suraj...a bit

US has fire inside...while Suraj was calm personality.. in side out person...no hidden anger issues...

US is educated (knows Ayurveda) backward thinking person ... Suraj was uneducated (less educated) forward thinking person

US knows how to control wife (so far) - Suraj knew how to win hearts

US is controlling ...Suraj was leading by example

US believes wife is daasi - Suraj gave equal right to wife...he was calling 'SandhyaJI'...even

and many more contrast...

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Deepthy

@deeps07

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Posted: 8 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: A4Anjie

Yes - bhabho..comparing him to suraj LOL

US just looks like Suraj...a bit

US has fire inside...while Suraj was calm personality.. in side out person...no hidden anger issues...

US is educated (knows Ayurveda) backward thinking person ... Suraj was uneducated (less educated) forward thinking person

US knows how to control wife (so far) - Suraj knew how to win hearts

US is controlling ...Suraj was leading by example

US believes wife is daasi - Suraj gave equal right to wife...he was calling 'SandhyaJI'...even

and many more contrast...

ohh i thought it was just.me..but umasankar does look a bit.like suraj..😆

and nice comparison..unfortunately people.like.suraj are hard to find..

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A4Anjie

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Posted: 8 years ago

#23

On more ...
US smile is 'poonam chand'...rare to see - while suraj's smile was natural and...contagious ...

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Fatima

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Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ
Bhabho picked a modern guy for her modern grandchild. Not Uma - whose austere lifestyle would be difficult for Kanak to adjust to. Kanak was trying to listen to her brothers and get herself adjusted to Mayank n family. Ved/Vansh and her had a discussion about accepting the rishta for Bhabho and having to nibhao the rishta. With Uma - he is not Bhabho's choice, he is not on the surface compatible with her soch. Plus there is the forced aspect.

Although the thread maker posed an excellent question...I have to agree with Anjana here...Bhabo would never have picked Uma for Kanak. Her goal was to find a compatible companion that was well-settled...preferably in another country 😆 so that she could get rid of Kanak once and for all. Not someone Kanak would abandon the next day and come back home from.

Kanak was not really interested in getting married...but she wasn't 100% opposed to the idea either. Seeing a reasonable rishta arranged by her Bhabo...that too one that made her grandmother happy...she became open to the idea of it.

Uma on the other hand is vastly different in his thinking...I mean he is overbearing and incompatible. Kanak already had Meena, Ved and Vansh supporting her if she didn't wish to marry Mayank...so I think their support would have been enough for her to say no if Bhabo had tried to set her up with Uma initially.

Edited by Fatima_Q - 8 years ago

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Deepthy

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

@Fatima_Q

true..bhabhoo wanted her away and well settled..even though uma was a perfect sanskaari man bhabhoo would rather marry her to.somebody she can be forever away from her..

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