MyThoughts- Epi-952

Really loved today's episode and found it yucky at the same time. I was overall missing a multilayered drama with only AbhiM, Abhir, AK and AbhiN dynamics. With each character bringing his or her POV, it is making the situation complex and fun.

Sharma house: materialist people saw it as a dilapidated place. But people who know love saw it as a home. I loved how AK came out of home to welcome everyone with a beaming smile.. This home has brought that simle on her face. I just remembered her face when she had boarded the bus to Pathankot. I am not sure, but somehow I feel that the Sharma house has not only healed AK over the years, but it has healed AbhiM to some extent as well.

Ruhi, my butterfly: Ruhi was the highlight of the episode for me. She did not even look at AbhiM, neither she searched for him.She met Billa boy first, then she excitedly met her Mami, then upon called again, she went to AbhiM. However, I did not see Ruhi having the same eagerness to meet her poppy as before. Over a period she has learnt to be without him. Some people hv POV that he is taking care of Ruhi over phone. I respect that POV too. But for me, children do not just need contact but they are very intuitive about heart. For me, AbhiM's heart is not much with Ruhi. She subconsciously has sensed that, hence the response.Things might change as she starts living in Kasauli, but this is POV based on today's scenes. It is same with Abhir. Abhir senses AbhiN's love for him, hence inspite of getting attracted to diff. things/ issues for moments, he comes back to his Papa.

AbhiM: TBH, recently I am getting a feeling that his heart has come back to AK again, followed by Abhir, even if he is saying otherwise. He not respecting the boundaries is making everyone uncomfortable. The dynamics between AK- AbhiM almost gave me Yuck feeling. That Samosa dialogue was almost cringe. Surekha said it right, AbhiN looked outsider in his own home today. We knw, why AK is acting cordial with him, but no one else knows it.

AR: I know AR was villian pre- leap, but post- leap I hv seen her as a very much sensible, a sincere mother. Hence, I felt very sad about her. Even though AbhiM convinced her for marriage of convenience, she has got emotionally attached to this Rishta. She wanted to feed cake to AbhiM on her birthday, but he was busy with studying Abhir's health issues. Unknowingly, she is wanting AbhiM to attend to her. But, he has become gharwala in the Sharma house. I could see her pain.

AbhiN: AR, along with everyone else, did become uncomfortable with AbhiM's behavior. AbhiN has seen 100 times more than what these people are seeing. Still, he has maintained composure overall, pushing things under the carpet. But, situation is pushing him to his limits. He has started expressing his displeasure over AbhiM's presence occaisionally. No one asked AbhiM to be MK's brother, he self- declared it. Hence, when he said no one has problem with it, that is because no one is Sharma house can say, NO. I do not think both AbhiN and AK liked him retorting back to their guests. Hence, AbhiN ignored his comments about diet samosas. Even AK did not seem comfortable with his response. It is on the makers but I m fine if they show AbhiN burst, as when people who have higher resilience are pushed to their limits, they can burst very badly. Till date we hv only seen AbhiN withdraw.. Let's see!

Ak- AbhiN/AbhiM-AR: They both had/ hv marriage of convenience, but we see a stark difference between the two. AK- AbhiN, both fullfilled their committment for 7 long years, wheras since declared AbhiM has not remained committed to AR. She is never part of any of his decisions. AbhiM is not making AR party to his decisions as she is nothing to him. AK is also not making AbhiN party to many decisions lately as she is deeply concerned about him. Over the surface, AK and AbhiM may look similar, but deep down, they are complete contrast.

However, I feel AbhiN and AR should back out from their respective relations. Both do not deserve what they are getting. AR is in a better position to back off, as Ruhi is getting emotionaly independent wheras it is little tough for AbhiN as Abhir is deepy attached to him.

Committment and boundaries: For me, committment and respecting the boundaries is above love. Even though love is an ingradient of a relationship, not drawing boundaries can destroy the relationship. AbhiN is not able to draw the boundaries. He is giving free pass to both AK and AbhiM. Whereas AbhiM is unknowingly using it to remain part of the equation. AK has set the boundaries but they are not known to anyone, giving a feeling that she is also not respecting the boundaries.

Unrelated to the episode:

Stars decide or act decides: There was a very beautiful Abhira scene. They both gave same stars to each other as gift. Both hv premonition dialogues, where they say, when I am not there with you, stars will let you know that I m taking care of you. The second dialogue was that the stars will always see us together.

Just few days after the scene, Abhira parted ways. AbhiM threw divorce papers on AK's face almost and told her to get lost, not asking her whereabouts for next 6 years. Stars hv not seen them together since then. Neither stars showed any care to either of them as we saw them in perpetual pain.

Again, there is beautiful dialogue by AbhiN, he said to Abhir, 'Stars hold destiny secrets of ours. But, I am not able to read them'. Still the same stars have seen AK- AbhiN together for 6 years, deeply caring for each other. Even if AbhiN- AK part ways, AbhiN dies, stars will tell AK that AbhiN cares for her whereever he is, may not be as a husband or lover, but as a friend and well wisher.

Because it is not the stars that decide, but it is sincere, wholehearted acts that decide the depth of the relationship.

Abhimanyu has intentionally or unintentionally become a nuisance. His claim that he is in Kasauli for his kid doesn’t hold water as all he has been doing is eavesdropping on husband-wife conversations and inserting himself in them and drawing a wedge between them.

Let’s see what will be the breaking point of AbN. I feel it’s going to be Manju mata’s taunt of him being a roadblock in the family reunion of Ak, AbM and Abhir and then seeing them together and enjoying himself.

There's no need of manyu in this house,in this wedding. He is self-inserting himself everywhere.. anything he do not making sense. That's why made himself muskaan's muh bola bhai(even tho people hate abhinav for being muh bola bhai) also akshara is doing too much now..sab ke samne aise behave kar rahe jaise he is still her husband..manyu ki to baat hi na karo..they are super insensitive to Nav and arohi.. they gave Hope and now crushing it

Initially it was ok three living under same roof but day by day it is becoming indiotic no one is liking that

Originally posted by: MyThoughts

Really loved today's episode and found it yucky at the same time. I was overall missing a multilayered drama with only AbhiM, Abhir, AK and AbhiN dynamics. With each character bringing his or her POV, it is making the situation complex and fun.

Sharma house: materialist people saw it as a dilapidated place. But people who know love saw it as a home. I loved how AK came out of home to welcome everyone with a beaming smile.. This home has brought that simle on her face. I just remembered her face when she had boarded the bus to Pathankot. I am not sure, but somehow I feel that the Sharma house has not only healed AK over the years, but it has healed AbhiM to some extent as well.

Ruhi, my butterfly: Ruhi was the highlight of the episode for me. She did not even look at AbhiM, neither she searched for him.She met Billa boy first, then she excitedly met her Mami, then upon called again, she went to AbhiM. However, I did not see Ruhi having the same eagerness to meet her poppy as before. Over a period she has learnt to be without him. Some people hv POV that he is taking care of Ruhi over phone. I respect that POV too. But for me, children do not just need contact but they are very intuitive about heart. For me, AbhiM's heart is not much with Ruhi. She subconsciously has sensed that, hence the response.Things might change as she starts living in Kasauli, but this is POV based on today's scenes. It is same with Abhir. Abhir senses AbhiN's love for him, hence inspite of getting attracted to diff. things/ issues for moments, he comes back to his Papa.

AbhiM: TBH, recently I am getting a feeling that his heart has come back to AK again, followed by Abhir, even if he is saying otherwise. He not respecting the boundaries is making everyone uncomfortable. The dynamics between AK- AbhiM almost gave me Yuck feeling. That Samosa dialogue was almost cringe. Surekha said it right, AbhiN looked outsider in his own home today. We knw, why AK is acting cordial with him, but no one else knows it.

AR: I know AR was villian pre- leap, but post- leap I hv seen her as a very much sensible, a sincere mother. Hence, I felt very sad about her. Even though AbhiM convinced her for marriage of convenience, she has got emotionally attached to this Rishta. She wanted to feed cake to AbhiM on her birthday, but he was busy with studying Abhir's health issues. Unknowingly, she is wanting AbhiM to attend to her. But, he has become gharwala in the Sharma house. I could see her pain.

AbhiN: AR, along with everyone else, did become uncomfortable with AbhiM's behavior. AbhiN has seen 100 times more than what these people are seeing. Still, he has maintained composure overall, pushing things under the carpet. But, situation is pushing him to his limits. He has started expressing his displeasure over AbhiM's presence occaisionally. No one asked AbhiM to be MK's brother, he self- declared it. Hence, when he said no one has problem with it, that is because no one is Sharma house can say, NO. I do not think both AbhiN and AK liked him retorting back to their guests. Hence, AbhiN ignored his comments about diet samosas. Even AK did not seem comfortable with his response. It is on the makers but I m fine if they show AbhiN burst, as when people who have higher resilience are pushed to their limits, they can burst very badly. Till date we hv only seen AbhiN withdraw.. Let's see!

Ak- AbhiN/AbhiM-AR: They both had/ hv marriage of convenience, but we see a stark difference between the two. AK- AbhiN, both fullfilled their committment for 7 long years, wheras since declared AbhiM has not remained committed to AR. She is never part of any of his decisions. AbhiM is not making AR party to his decisions as she is nothing to him. AK is also not making AbhiN party to many decisions lately as she is deeply concerned about him. Over the surface, AK and AbhiM may look similar, but deep down, they are complete contrast.

However, I feel AbhiN and AR should back out from their respective relations. Both do not deserve what they are getting. AR is in a better position to back off, as Ruhi is getting emotionaly independent wheras it is little tough for AbhiN as Abhir is deepy attached to him.

Committment and boundaries: For me, committment and respecting the boundaries is above love. Even though love is an ingradient of a relationship, not drawing boundaries can destroy the relationship. AbhiN is not able to draw the boundaries. He is giving free pass to both AK and AbhiM. Whereas AbhiM is unknowingly using it to remain part of the equation. AK has set the boundaries but they are not known to anyone, giving a feeling that she is also not respecting the boundaries.

Unrelated to the episode:

Stars decide or act decides: There was a very beautiful Abhira scene. They both gave same stars to each other as gift. Both hv premonition dialogues, where they say, when I am not there with you, stars will let you know that I m taking care of you. The second dialogue was that the stars will always see us together.

Just few days after the scene, Abhira parted ways. AbhiM threw divorce papers on AK's face almost and told her to get lost, not asking her whereabouts for next 6 years. Stars hv not seen them together since then. Neither stars showed any care to either of them as we saw them in perpetual pain.

Again, there is beautiful dialogue by AbhiN, he said to Abhir, 'Stars hold destiny secrets of ours. But, I am not able to read them'. Still the same stars have seen AK- AbhiN together for 6 years, deeply caring for each other. Even if AbhiN- AK part ways, AbhiN dies, stars will tell AK that AbhiN cares for her whereever he is, may not be as a husband or lover, but as a friend and well wisher.

Because it is not the stars that decide, but it is sincere, wholehearted acts that decide the depth of the relationship.

I really enjoy reading your analysis, keep up the good work :)

I agree that Sharma house has brought peace for AK during the 6 years. The trauma is still there/affects her as seen in the clock store (Kasauli part 1) and the way she remembers each detail of the white day. However during these 6 years she has been living in peace without having to face people's taunts and blames that she is the reason for their pain. They may not have much money but AK felt peace as she had people who cared for her. Abhir brought smile back to her face and gave her the reason to live, Abhinav became her friend, Neela Ma and Muskaan also care for her.

I don't know about Abhimanyu though. He seems to have accepted that AK is Abhinav's wife, yet his heart seems to be drawn towards her as he still loves her. He finds peace with Abhir and doesn't seem as alone as seen initial post leap episodes in Birla house. However don't know about Sharma house healing Abhimanyu as he is sad seeing AK-Abhinav together after he tells Abhir it may be his real father mistake. Any thoughts about this?

Originally posted by: Anjali1201K

I really enjoy reading your analysis, keep up the good work :)

I agree that Sharma house has brought peace for AK during the 6 years. The trauma is still there/affects her as seen in the clock store (Kasauli part 1) and the way she remembers each detail of the white day. However during these 6 years she has been living in peace without having to face people's taunts and blames that she is the reason for their pain. They may not have much money but AK felt peace as she had people who cared for her. Abhir brought smile back to her face and gave her the reason to live, Abhinav became her friend, Neela Ma and Muskaan also care for her.

I don't know about Abhimanyu though. He seems to have accepted that AK is Abhinav's wife, yet his heart seems to be drawn towards her as he still loves her. He finds peace with Abhir and doesn't seem as alone as seen initial post leap episodes in Birla house. However don't know about Sharma house healing Abhimanyu as he is sad seeing AK-Abhinav together after he tells Abhir it may be his real father mistake. Any thoughts about this?

AbhiM is not person of his words or promises. He has promised his dying brother that he wll care for Ruhi, but after Abhir coming in his life, Ruhi has not remained his priority. Same with AK. I feel he is just holding himself for now. See how gradually he has shifted from Mrs. Sharma to Akshara..

In my POV AbhiM has very less chances of healing completely.. But him looking overall calm, happy is due to the acceptance, love that Sharma house offers. He wll become original AbhiM once his mom is back in Kasauli. AbhiM is a roller coaster ride.. He does a grave mistake, then after some time partially realizes it, apoligizes to do a new mistake again..his statement to Abhir was similar... Let's see how he behaves after Manjiri comes..

Reg, Abhir, Rather my POV has changed.. Now I find him back with AK, rather than Abhir..you see him third wheeling all the time..he almost behaves as a partner of AK... But superficiallly his acts remain platonic..